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Jeanette Barnett "Jan" Hoke

Jeanette Barnett "Jan" Hoke obituary, Asheville, NC

Jeanette Hoke Obituary

Jeanette (Jan) Barnett Hoke, 63, of Asheville, NC, passed away on June 18, 2014 after fighting a long battle with a rare neurodegenerative brain disease called Progressive Supranuclear Palsy (PSP). She passed away peacefully at her home under the care of her husband who has been her sole caregiver for 6 years. Jan was born in Batesville, AR on October 31, 1950. She lived in Baton Rouge from 1970 until 1989. She worked at Tara High School for 11 years. In 1989, she moved to Asheville, NC where she and her husband, Forney Moore Hoke III, resided for over 20 years. Jan was a very vibrant lady with a big personality. She was extremely social and was always looking to have fun no matter where she went. She had a love for fitness and exercised every day until she became ill. Jan is survived by her husband of 20 years, Forney Moore Hoke III; daughter, Beth Haynes and fiancé Tom Kiebach, of Baton Rouge, LA; daughter, Nicole Haynes Lundy and husband Scott, two grand-children, Garrett and Kate, all from Dayton, OH; sister, Jill McClure and husband Patrick of Wimberley, TX; brother, Danny Headstream and wife, Anita of Eatonton, GA; two nephews Rob and Britt Headstream of Conyers, GA, and brother-in-law, J. Frank Hoke and wife Hui, three nieces, Hanna, Cheyne, and Emma, all from Raleigh, NC. Immediate family will be holding a private service at Lytle United Methodist Church, located at 8464 Lytle Ferry Road, in Waynesville, OH on June 22, 2014. A celebration of life service will be held for Jan at a later date in Destin, FL. The family would like to express their gratitude towards Forney for providing great care to Jan during her illness. Memorial donations can be made in Jan's name to the CurePSP foundation through www.psp.org/donate/, by calling 1-800-457-4777, or via mail at CurePSP, 30 E. Padonia Road, Suite 201, Timonium, MD 21093.

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Published by The Advocate from Jun. 19 to Jun. 22, 2014.

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Barbara Robinson

June 14, 2023

9 years mate since I´ve heard you voice or seen the beautiful smile and heard you laugh out loud... Miss you my mate, until we meet again- save some wine for meBarbara

Barbara Robinson

June 14, 2022

It will be 8 years this June 18th that my mate was call home. There´s not a
day that goes by that something sparks a memory of you - Like you asking me
why I left the price sticker on items I had brought Jan, would get a kick out of knowing I leave price sticking on my items in your memory.
GBNEF

Barbara Robinson

June 14, 2021

In 4 days it will be 7 years you’ve been gone my mate-
it seems like yesterday I heard the news of your passing. Fly high mate until we meet again keep the Chardonnay on ice. GBNF

Barbara Robinson

June 14, 2020

How strange is life? I was just thinking about you my mate Jan as your 6th year anniversary draws near. I miss you mate I regret that I didnt get the chance to speak with you one last time to let you know what your friendship meant too me. We will be friends forever!
Until we meet again Jan keep the wine chilled for your mate Barbara . GTSBNF

Barbara Robinson

June 14, 2019

Not a day goes by that I dont think of my friend Jan.... GBNF

Barbara Robinson

July 2, 2014

When I received the news of your passing Jan it came as such a shock, even though we had not spoken for a couple of years, you were and always will be my mate. Why god would take such a vibrate soul at such a young age it's hard to understand, but know god gave you rest to ease you suffering, but broke our hearts when he called you home.
Rest in pease my mate, until we meet again.
Barbara& Family

Fran and Jim Will

June 24, 2014

Toa a Special Lady, Jan! Jan is definitely at peace with God. Love and prayers,

Kara Shea

June 23, 2014

Forney-
I have such wonderful memories of Jan that I will cherish forever. I hope that you find peace in knowing that you were her rock over the last several years. I will always love my friend and will see her again one day.

David Corona

June 22, 2014

Forney: I don't know you but I remember Jan speaking so fondly of you when she worked at Tara High. I was the assistant principal, then principal during that time. She was a great lady who had a tremendous, positive, and fun attitude. I know that she loved her girls, and obviously loved you. You will remain in my prayers during this tough time.

bill bradley

June 22, 2014

I will miss my dear friend Jan, i can only hope you are no longer in pain and are smiling from the heavens. I will think of you often and always remember your laugh. Rest easy until we join you, our love to you always and forever !

Lynda & Neill Coble

June 21, 2014

Jill, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Although I only met Jan once, I know how close you two were and I know you will miss her. Love you, Lynda & Neill

Gayle and Belinda Sanchez

June 21, 2014

Beth and family,

So sorry to hear of your Mom's passing. May you find comfort in the wonderful memories of a life well lived. God be with you all.

June 21, 2014

May your hearts soon be filled with wonderful memories of joyful times together as you celebrate a life well lived.

Beth Chalmers

June 21, 2014

Forney and family,

I am so very sorry for your loss. I remember Jan as a fun, outgoing and kind lady, and a great neighbor. My deepest condolences to you. My thoughts and prayers will be with you.

Robert Dan Headstream, Sr.

June 20, 2014

You were a light in our lives, Jan. We love you and miss you!
Danny & Anita

Nancy Greer Epperson

June 20, 2014

Jill, I hope you see this and will know that back home we are thinking about you and your family. I'm so sorry to see what Jan had to endure. She was a beautiful girl and I have fond memories of you, Jan, and your mother. God Bless.

Kristin and Brian Patton

June 20, 2014

Prayers and love to all...

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