Michael Giannattasio Obituary

East Lyme - Michael Anthony Giannattasio, 52, of East Lyme, went to be with our Lord on Wednesday, Oct. 31, 2012, after a brief but courageous battle with cancer.

Mike was born in Summit, N.J. on Aug. 7, 1960. Growing up in Bridgewater, N.J., Mike enjoyed playing Pop Warner football, hunting and fishing, and being with his neighborhood friends. Mike attended Bridgewater West High School where he played center on the football team and was involved in Fellowship of Christian Athletes. He spent his summers on Long Beach Island, N.J. and Lake Wallenpaupack, Pa. He also worked with his father and uncle in home construction, which may be where he developed his love of engineering.

Mike graduated from Bridgewater West High School in 1978 and attended the University of Rhode Island where he earned a bachelor's degree in civil engineering as well as his professional engineers license. Mike enjoyed playing rugby at URI and through rugby he met his close friend George McBride who encouraged Mike in his spiritual journey. As a result, Mike received Jesus Christ as his Lord and Savior and was part of the Navigator campus ministry. It is at URI where he met his beloved wife of 28 years, Patty (Doolittle) Giannattasio. They were married in Milford, on Oct. 6, 1984 and settled in southeastern Conn., where they started their family. It was with great joy that they welcomed their dear daughters, Rebecca Leah McCoy (husband, Keith, child, Caleb Michael) and Molly Megan. Mike's love for his family was evident to all who met him. He enjoyed his daughters and son-in-law tremendously, pursuing outdoor adventures, traveling and exploring new places together, cooking, attending many performances and games, and watching football as a family. He was always generous with his great big bear hugs.

Mike and Patty attend Groton Bible Chapel in Groton, where Mike served as an elder in the church. His greatest joy was talking with people about the love of God and how to have a personal relationship with Him. Mike used his gift of hospitality frequently, enjoying having people over for meals and Bible studies. Conversation topics would typically include the joys of gardening and his fig trees, to his dogs, and his pride in his Italian heritage and his family near and far. Mike always found a way to make others feel welcome and at ease.

Professionally, Mike was director of public works for the Town of East Lyme, where he oversaw several departments including public works, engineering, building maintenance, and the water and sewer departments. He was fondly referred to as "Mike G" amongst his colleagues and was best known for his big smile, kind ways, and gentle but firm guidance. Mike has left a legacy within the town, and in addition to maintaining and developing systems to protect the town's infrastructure, he can be credited for overseeing the construction process for numerous town enhancement projects including: The Streetscape on Main St., the new public works facility on Capitol Drive, the New McCook's bathhouse, the Regional Water Interconnection with New London, and the reconstruction of Walnut Hill Road, Upper Walnut Hill Road, and Holmes Road. Even as hurricane Sandy did its best to tear East Lyme apart, all of the people that worked for Mike used the skills and dedication that they had learned under Mike's guidance to open and rebuild roads, clear trees, keep our drinking water and sewer infrastructure operating without electricity, and bring the Town back to normal as quickly as possible. Mike will be sorely missed, but we may take comfort in knowing that the wisdom and guidance he imparted on others will continue to enhance the town of East Lyme.

With grateful hearts, the family wishes to recognize the extraordinary care and compassion that Mike received from Dr. Benjamin Newton, Margaret Haire, and the entire staff at Oncology and Hematology Associates in New London. To the nurses in the ER and on the 6th floor at Lawrence & Memorial Hospital, you made our family feel loved with your sensitivity to us and skilled care for Mike. In addition, we greatly appreciated your frequent inquiries about the arrival of our new grandson, Caleb. You are forever in our hearts and prayers.

He is survived by his mother, Marlene (Moertl) Giannattasio. The eldest of four siblings, Mike is survived by his sister, Lisa (Giannattasio) Torpey (husband, Kevin, children, Connor and Lila); brother, Paul Giannattasio (Karen, children, Alexis, Joseph, and Maxwell) and brother, Andrew Giannattasio (Tracy, children, Grace, Jake, Bella, and Camilla). In addition, Mike leaves behind his Doolittle and McGowan in-laws; and many nieces and nephews who will miss him dearly.

He is predeceased by his father, Anthony Michael Giannattasio.

A private memorial service will be held for immediate family on Monday, Nov. 19, 2012. We welcome all to come to the Groton Bible Chapel at 11 a.m. Tuesday, Nov. 20, 2012, to celebrate the abundant life of Mike Giannattasio.

As an engineer, Mike frequently spoke of his desire to someday use his skill and knowledge to provide clean water for those who need it; as a believer in Jesus Christ, he desired that others would find the "living water" available through faith in Christ. In that spirit and in lieu of flowers, we encourage you to make a donation to the "Groton Bible Chapel - Wells for Haiti" fund, 66 Toll Gate Road, Groton, CT 06340. In this way, his desire will be fulfilled.

John 7:38 "Whoever believes in Me, as Scripture has said, rivers of living water will flow from within them."

Published by The Day from Nov. 2 to Nov. 8, 2012.
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We were saddened to read of Mike's passing in the URI Alumni magazine. Mike was Arne's roommate freshman year. Through our mutual friendship with Mike, we met and eventually married. Our thoughts and sympathy are with your family.

Carol and Arne Johnson

May 9, 2013

I was sad to read about Mike's passing tonight in the URI alumni magazine. I regret not keeping in touch over the years. I am not surprised to read that Mike was a great witness for Christ and the obvious love and admiration from everyone he touched. I was blessed to have known him (and Patty) when I did. God bless you brother. 2 Corinthians 4:14

Dave Torromeo

March 26, 2013

Giannattasio family so sorry for your loss. mike was an amazing,kind person.may he RIP

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December 11, 2012

I was so sad to just learn that Mike had passed at such an early age but rejoyced when I learned he had accepted Jesus Christ as his Lord and Savior many years earlier. All is well with the Lord.
I knew Mike was a special young man from a special family as he was our center on our football team at Bridgewatet West H.S. I thank God for the privilege of coaching Mike.

David Adam

November 26, 2012

Patty, we rejoice that Mike is with Jesus. George McBride shared with us some of God's wonderful work through Mike. PTL Ron and Joyce York

Ron &Joyce York

November 21, 2012

Didn't know Mike, but I will when we meet in Heaven! One of the nicest obits I've ever read. The word 'Joy' comes to mind. May the Lord comfort his family as He is comforting Mike right now.
Kevin

November 20, 2012

Hi. I am Martin. I don' really know Mike but I have a friend that knew him and Patty. Just want to encourage Patty in the Lord. All is not lost when we spend our time for the LOrd. Blessings.

November 19, 2012

Our loss is the Lord's gain. Mike was one of the sweetest souls put on this earth. His legacy will last through his family, his work and the people he touched. We will miss him now but look forward to an eternity with him in the presence of our Lord.

Maurizio & Michelle Mazzi

November 19, 2012

Dear Patty and family,
Looking back at our URI days, Mike stood out as being a deep, gentle, sensitive person with a tremendous love for God and others. I am so glad that I had the chance to get to know him. It comes as no surprise that he went on to touch the lives around him. You must all be very proud of him!
My prayers are with you,
Diane(Jordan)Stratmeyer (Galicia, Spain)

Diane Stratmeyer

November 19, 2012

Mike is a good man. He affected others with that goodness. And that continues into eternity. It is a pleasure to know him, it is a joy to call him friend, and in the not too distant future we shall share a meal together in the Kings Hall.

George McBride

November 17, 2012

Dear Patty, Molly and Rebecca- We are so sorry for your loss. What a big loss for GBC and the town also! We thank the Lord for Mike's life and ask all His comfort and assurance to you of the things to come.

Daniel Wisner

November 10, 2012

Dear Becky, Molly, and family--I was so sorry to read this today. Please know that my prayers are with you all. How wonderful that he got to meet Caleb! Much love to all of you!

Deb Connors

November 9, 2012

Giannattasio Family,

I am so sorry to here about Mike. I remember him from long ago in Bridgewater. Mike gave me a special gift six years ago. He read in the paper that my Mother and sister Suzette had passed away and that we were having a small service here in North Stonington, CT. Mike thought that this must be my family (Arbuckle) and he came to the service just in case it was and to give me words of (healing, and hope). I thanked Mike for his wonderful kindness and thought of it often. May you all know that Mike probably was ready to go to God because he believed that our next life would be filled with love and peace. May peace be with you all.

Michele (Arbuckle) Hansen

November 9, 2012

Patty and Molly,
We feel honored to have had the chance to be in Mike's presence. He has left an indelible mark of kindness in our hearts. We are very sad for your loss and hope that your memories will sustain you at this painful time.
With much love and concern,
The DeLea's
Bruce, Kristin, Eric, and Olivia

Kristin DeLea

November 8, 2012

I graduated with Mike from BRHS West ('78)and remember him well. Very sorry to hear of his passing. We were a big class and everyone is now scattered across the country. It was touching to read about Mike, what a good, generous, loving person he was and the wonderful things he accomplished for East Lyme over the years. My heartfelt condolences to his whole family and may he rest in peace.

Valery Whalen

November 8, 2012

WOW! I don't even know mike but it seems to me that he can even touch people that have never even known him! i have never been so touched by reading someones life story and reading those who were blessed to know him....

Donna

November 8, 2012

Mike "G", one of the finest and most considerate professionals I have ever worked with. I think it could be said that "Mike never met a stranger"; he always made you feel welcome.

Gerry Stefon

November 7, 2012

Dearest Giannattasio,

It was just today that I heard of Mike's passing.
Though our families don't know each other & had ever celebrate a holiday toghther, we shared a unique bond with having Mike in our lives.
Mike had a very important job for our town, he served it with honor & respect to others.
Our town has diffantly lost a great citizen & wonderful man.
May GOD give the family & friends of Mike strength through this very hard time.

Michael Andrews

November 7, 2012

Cousin Patty,

I was shocked to hear about Mike's passing. Our love, prayers and thoughts are all heading your way. Peace be with you and your girls.

Love, Cally Cousin Steve Doolittle

November 6, 2012

I had the pleasure of working with Mike for almost 7 years at the Town. He was one who watched and help me grow there, and guided me through several endeavors. He always had a smile on his face and had a sense of warmth about him. He had a great sense of humor, and personality that lit up the room and everyone around him enjoyed it. He will be sadly missed, but Heaven has gained another angel. Rest in peace Mike.

Emelie Hislop Napolitano

November 6, 2012

To the Giannattasio Family,

I am sorry for the passing of Michael. His uplifting spirit and concern for others will always be remembered.

James Cotter
Connecticut Avenue
New London

November 6, 2012

It was a complete privilege to know and love Mike. His joy was so contagious! The world needs more men like him. He strongly fulfilled his role as a husband, father, grandfather, uncle, and friend. His deep love for Jesus Christ has affected our lives in ways we will always remember.

Lori Davis

November 5, 2012

Bob and I along with Sarah and Emily and Nate and Daniel and Wilson all send our sincere sympathy. We are saddened, but not without hope. Our prayers and support go out to all who dearly loved Mike and will miss him greatly.

Susan Bever

November 5, 2012

We celebrate the life of Mike Giannattasio one of his chosen people. Great is the Lord and glory to his riches and everlasting kingdom. The clouds have broken and the mighty heavens shine with praises singing a new song rejoicing in victory this is the day the Lord has made.

Karen Casey

November 5, 2012

so very sorry for your deep loss...may the God of all comfort be yours, surrounding you in His love and tender care and grace.
Lauri

November 5, 2012

Our hearts are heavy for your loss but rejoices in the Lord's gain!!! Mike was a Son of the Lord!!! May all your loving memories give you joy and peace. He was a great friend!!! His smile was contagious. Our love, thoughts and prayers to you all!!!

Nate, Rhonda & Elijah Lim

November 5, 2012

So sorry to hear of Mike's passing. He was a great guy with a wonderful family. My prayers with you Molly, Patty and family.

Paul Whitehouse

November 5, 2012

As former employees of the Town of East Lyme, both my husband and I knew Mike. I had the pleasure of working with him in person and found him to be a kind, thoughtful, gentle man, with a hearty laugh. Our prayers are with you his family and the many dear friends he has left behind.
Sincerely, Chris & Joe Pirogenia.

November 4, 2012

To the Entire Family,
As a member of the Giannattasio Family I was truly saddened to hear about Michael's passing. My own personal family members all share in your sorrow and share my prayers. God be with all of you.

Joan Ann Giannattasio Bischoff

November 4, 2012

I was sad and shocked to read of Mike G.'s passing at such a young age. I enjyed working with him at the surveying office. He had a calming personality and loved to share stories about his girls. A true family man. My deepest sympathy to his family.

Deanna "Dee" Sikorski

November 4, 2012

Patty and family, So very sad to hear about Mike's passing. Know that you are in our prayers and thoughts at this very difficult time.
Love, Bill and Arline

Bill and Arline Girard

November 3, 2012

Coach G. I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts.

Nancy Johnson

November 3, 2012

Sorry for the loss of such an amazing man. Gone, but never forgotten! Rest in peace Mike

Anna Hartung

November 2, 2012

Patty &Family,

Mike was truly the kindest man. I worked with Mike for a short time, and more recently our paths crossed again. Mike always had a smile and a kind word no matter what his health.
My sincere sympathy,
God Bless

Sandy Tupay

November 2, 2012

Patty,I regret the loss of your Husban,may God grant you peace in this your hour of sorrow & comfort your heart
C L Barnes, Academy Admissions Partner

November 2, 2012

To The Giannattasio Family:
God bless you all. Mike was truly one of the good guys. He was the very best. He was a gentleman and a kind, thoughtful, caring man. It was my distinct privilege to have known him and work with him. The world is less of a place with him no longer in it. I wish you all peace at such a tragic time.

James Smith

November 2, 2012

Patty, you adn your family are in our thoughts today.

Bruce Talbot

November 2, 2012

Words can't describe how sad we are for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you always.

Bryan, Elena and Jackie Lockett

November 2, 2012

Giannattasio family

Molly, we are so sorry for your loss and know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Love Brittany Anderson, Lynda Michaud

Brittany Anderson

November 2, 2012

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