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Richard Bugbee Obituary

Old Lyme - Richard Chadwick Bugbee Jr., 81, of Lyme St., died Wednesday, Aug. 17, 2011, at his residence.

Mr. Bugbee was born on Nov. 28, 1929 in Old Saybrook, the son of Richard and Mary (Bibby) Bugbee Sr. He graduated from Old Lyme public schools, then graduated from Mitchell Jr. College in New London. He served three and a half years in the U.S. Airforce. The majority of that was spent as a radar instructor at Keesler Airforce Base, in Biloxi, Miss. He was discharged in 1952, as a staff sergeant. He married Jane E. Patch in 1956, in the First Congregational Church of Old Lyme. They celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary in 2006. He was a well regarded painting contractor in the area, and took pride in his home and yard. He enjoyed hunting and fishing, traveling, history and especially the history and lore of the town he grew up in. He was a member of the Old Lyme Historical Society. More recently known for his trips around town with his faithful yellow lab, Monti. Applications are being accepted for his position as town character and curmudgeon.

Mr. Bugbee is survived by his loving wife; and children, Richard G. Bugbee of R.I., Carol Cieszynski and husband, Kenneth, of Ill., and Laurie Willis and husband, Richard, of Old Lyme; brother, Robert Bugbee of Fla., brother and sister-in-law, Richard and Carol Carlson of Conn., and George and Marion Patch of Va.; and six grandchildren, Jane, Mary and Ellen Bugbee and Heather, Kimberly, and John Cieszynski.

A Memorial Service will be held at 2 p.m. on Sunday, Aug. 21, 2011, in First Congregational Church of Old Lyme. Fulton-Theroux Funeral Home, Old Lyme, is handling the arrangements.

Please visit www.fultontherouxoldlyme.com for photos, tributes, directions and more service information.

In Lieu of flowers, donations may be made in his memory to the Old Lyme Land Trust, P.O. Box 163, Old Lyme, CT 06371 or the Old Lyme Historical Society, P.O. Box 352, Old Lyme, CT 06371.

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Published by The Day on Aug. 19, 2011.

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September 2, 2011

Dear Family, So sorry for the loss of your father. I did not know him well. I met him once years ago when I came to visit Old Lyme and our Grandparents. This was in the early 1980's. My sympathy to all of you. Valerie (Bugbee) Booth. (Roberts daughter)

Doug Barnes

August 29, 2011

Sorry for your Loss.

Carol Puzzo

August 23, 2011

Dear Rick and Family,
My thoughts are with you and I pray you will find peace and serenity as the days go by.

Kelly Hackbarth

August 22, 2011

Sending my deepest sympathies.

Mary Grisky Sterck

August 21, 2011

Laurie and Rick,
Very sorry to hear about your Dad. I will always remember his smiling face at your house.
Mary Grisky Sterck

Sandy

August 21, 2011

I am so sorry to hear of your loss Rick and Jeanne. Please remember the great times you had with your Dad to help ease your pain. My prayers and thoughts are with you.

Cynthia Cahouet Fulreader

August 20, 2011

Dear Jane, Rick, Carol, and Laurie, Sending love and peace to you and your families. You're a great bunch. Every ending is a new beginning. May it be healing and blessed.
Cynthia (Cahouet) Fulreader
Santa Fe, NM

Corinne Kilty

August 19, 2011

Laurie and Rick,

I am so sorry to hear about your dad. You both are in my thoughts and prayers.

August 19, 2011

The world will never be the same without Dick. We are sad to know of his passing and have lost a real good friend. As for someone to fill his shoes, no one could...We will miss his annecdotes and observations, and the town's slowest driver.

Loving condolences,

Russell, Anu , Jonah ,and Harry
The Godfrey-Fogg family,
Helsinki, Finland

Emily Nelson

August 19, 2011

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998

Rita

August 19, 2011

I am so sorry for the loss of your dear loved one. It's comforting to know that God cares for all of us. The Bible gives us hope that one day we can see our loved ones again. On behalf of all mankind Jesus surrendered his soul. John 15:13 says “No one has love greater than this, that someone should surrender his soul on behalf of his friends.” Truly I am sorry to hear of the loss of your dear loved one and I hope these few words will bring you comfort and hope.

Jeanne Haser

August 19, 2011

Jane, Carol, Laurie and Rick, Some colorful memories will keep you all amused for many years to come as you remember Dick. My Dad might say, rest in peace, clamhead... Love and prayers to you all, Jeanne

Dylan and Sally Ann Lee

August 19, 2011

We were saddened to learn of Dick's passing. His legacy will certainly live on in all of us who were lucky enough to have him in our lives. Our thoughts are with and the entire Bugbee family.

Don Bugbee

August 19, 2011

My condolences to you all. Remember the good times... I'm sure there were many.

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