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Everett Voelker Obituary

Waterford - Everett August Voelker, 90, of Waterford, passed peacefully surrounded by his family at Bayview Health Care Center on Aug. 31, 2013.

Born Nov. 8, 1922, in New London, to August and Elizabeth Voelker, he was a lifelong resident of Waterford, graduated from Chapman Technical High School, class of 1940. He enlisted in the U.S. Army in January 1943 and served through December 1945. He was a member of the greatest generation who bravely served with the 32nd Infantry Red Arrow Division in the Pacific Theatre seeing action in New Guinea, Leyte, and Luzon, Philippines.

Returning from service, he married Ruth Caldwell on Oct. 8, 1946, and enjoyed 42 years of marriage.

He was a co-founder of the Waterford Vikings, active with the Junior Midshipmen, Boy Scouts of America Troop 29, member of the Connecticut District Council of Boy Scouts, and volunteered at the New London Food Pantry. Everett retired as a senior technician from Northeast Utilities after 40 years of service in 1985. He was a member of American Legion and the New London VFW.

Everett is survived by a daughter, Nancy Frano and husband, Jack, of Yarmouthport, Mass.; a son, Jack and wife, Karin, of Waterford; a daughter-in-law, Susan Voelker of Oakdale; seven grandchildren; three great-grandchildren; and several nieces and nephews.

He was predeceased by his wife, Ruth (Caldwell) Voelker in 1988, son, Craig in 2003, and his brother, Edwin.

The family would like to express their deep appreciation to the staff of Bayview Healthcare for the kind and loving care they provided. His grandchildren will fondly remember him as "Mr. Fix It" and for his creative woodworking skills.

Calling hours will be from 5 to 8 p.m. Thursday, Sept. 5, at the Thomas L. Neilan and Sons Funeral Home, 12 Ocean Ave., New London. The funeral procession will assemble at 10:15 a.m. on Friday, Sept. 6, from the funeral home and proceed to a Mass of Christian Burial at 11 a.m. at St. Paul's Church, Rope Ferry Road, Waterford. The burial will follow at Jordan Cemetery in Waterford.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Juvenile Diabetes Association, 18 N. Main St., West Hartford, CT 06107 and the Cactus Jack Foundation, PO Box 145, Waterford, CT 06385.

Condolence messages may be left on Mr. Voelker's memorial page at www.neilanfuneralhome.com

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Published by The Day on Sep. 4, 2013.

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Ginny Voelker Hutchison

September 4, 2013

Nancy & Jack and families, I am so sorry to hear about your Dad's passing. He was such a kind and loving person...always so calm and upbeat. He's continued to send me Christmas cards these last few years and loved hearing from him. I fondly remember all our shared holidays and family get togethers. I know you all will miss him greatly. While I cannot be there in person, my thoughts and prayers will be there with all of you.

Kimberly

September 7, 2013

Karin, Please accept my deepest condolences on the loss of your father-in-law. Sincerely,
Kimberly Daly

Nancy Putman Kane

September 4, 2013

Nancy and family, I was so sorry to hear of your Dad's passing from Margie. He was always such a gentleman, both he and your Mom were lovely people. He will surely be missed. I am in FL for a bit and will not be able to attend the funeral, please know my thoughts and prayers go out to you all.

September 6, 2013

Hi Jack--just heard the sad news of your Dad's passing. Sounds like he had a long, full life and was much loved by family and friends. May he indeed rest in peace. Eric Olsen, Kennebunkport, ME

September 6, 2013

Jack , Karin and family. I am sorry to hear of your fathers passing. I hope you will always remember the good memories and carry those with you always. Scott Brailey

Kathie Cassidy

September 5, 2013

To the Voelker family -

I am sorry to read of your father's passing. My dad, Jack Lewis, worked with your father at Northeast Utilities on Myrock and always spoke highly of him.

Remember the good times you had and all the things you did together. Those are precious memories you will keep forever.

John and Karen Foley

September 5, 2013

Dear Jack and family,
You have our deepest sympathy and are in our thoughts and prayers.
John and Karen

Brett Arnold

September 5, 2013

Dear Voelker Family- Thinking of you & sending you all strong thoughts during this time.

September 4, 2013

Jack and Family, we are so very sorry to hear about your Dad. Hold on tight to all your memories, they are a blessing. You are in our thoughts and prayers. Always Ken & Judy

Linda Oswald

September 4, 2013

Dear Jack, So sorry for your loss. May your father rest in eternal peace.

Joanie & David Guthrie

September 4, 2013

Jack & Karin & Family
Thinking of you..so sorry for your loss.

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