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Adrian Petherick Obituary

Montville - Adrian Robert Petherick, 50, of Oakdale, passed away Wednesday, May 15, 2013.

He was born in England, on Nov. 23, 1962, the son of the late Robert and Mary Petherick of the UK. Adrian was a day-one employee of Foxwoods Casino, where he started as a dual rate dealer. Throughout his Foxwoods career, he was awarded several promotions, working as assistant casino day shift manager at the time of his death. Adrian was known to be a kind, fair supervisor, never playing favorites.

Adrian enjoyed the outdoors, the beach, shooting pool, and playing golf. He also loved music and sports. Adrian loved vacationing, recently returning from a trip to Orlando with his family.

Adrian loved all of his children and treated his step-children as his own. Most describe Adrian as a true gentleman. His gentle spirit, generous soul, and soft spoken mannerism will be greatly missed by all who were fortunate to know him. He was very much loved and will be missed beyond words by his family and friends.

Adrian leaves behind his three sons, Sean Petherick of Hartsworth, England, Alex R. and Andrew R. Petherick, both of Pawcatuck; step-children, Ashley, Craig, and Jeremy Hauser, all of Norwich; his grandson, Kyle Petherick; and his sisters, Julia Petherick and Sarah Petherick, all of the UK.

Calling hours will be from 10 a.m. to noon and 7:30 to 9:30 p.m. Tuesday, at the Thomas L. Neilan & Sons Funeral Home, 12 Ocean Ave., New London. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10 a.m. Wednesday, at Our Lady of Lords Church in Gales Ferry.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to his family at a benefit in his honor at Brookside Café from 7 to 9 p.m. Thursday, May 30.

Condolence messages may be left on his memorial page at www.neilanfuneralhome.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Day on May 26, 2013.

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May 20, 2021

I very much miss my friend- and card game teacher!

May 20, 2020

Miss you, our friend. Blessings.

Andrew Petherick

February 27, 2017

Here I am going off to the University of Maine in a few months. I know my father would be proud of me. He was the best dad I could have asked for, and part of my success comes from him. I love you and miss you, dad. R.I.P, you have shaped me to become who I am to this very day.

Manu Palomeque

September 26, 2016

It is with great sadness that I learn of Adrian's passing. We were best friends during our days at Campion School in Hornchurch. I called him Stan.

I have fond memories of rugby and the Pink Flamingo in Rayleigh.

One of those moment when we really should have stayed in touch but life had other plans. It was for others to enjoy the genuine kindness of a gentle soul. Sleep well Stan!

Karen Carleton

June 4, 2013

Totally saddened by the loss of a good friend from a long time ago. Nobody made me laugh as much as Adrian did. Gone but not forgotten but will miss you loads. Karen Carleton xxxxx

June 4, 2013

Totally saddened by the loss of a very good friend from a long time ago. Nobody made me laugh as much as Adrian did. Gone but not forgotten but will miss you loads. Love Karen Carleton xxx

Adam Fruchter

June 1, 2013

i worked with Adrian for 15 years he was great to work with and to work for. He will bed greatly missed. i

Steven Larrabee

May 31, 2013

Hi,
I worked on day shift with Adrian for about six years and i have to say he was great guy to work with and to work for. also had a smile on his even when he was having a bad day... i will miss him.. :(

my heart goes out to his family and i hope in these days ahead your heart will heal and have happy memories to keep you going..

Jon Blanchette

May 31, 2013

We have lost a very good man. Adrian was the consummate professional, and a true gentleman. Sharp mind and a very quick wit, it was my privilege to be his friend.

Denise Hauer

May 31, 2013

To all that have known Adrian, I am sorry for your loss. He will be missed by all that knew him, because all that knew him loved him. Rest in peace my friend.

Jody Lusk

May 29, 2013

Adrian, was a wonderful boss & confidant. I will miss his smile & support...rest in peace my friend...

Kevin Schechter

May 29, 2013

Adrian was such a great boss and friend. He was never afraid to get his hands dirty and would always have a smile on his face. My condolences go out to his family. Adrian will be missed by all. Great man, will miss you.

Bernie Hauser & Family

May 28, 2013

Our Family is Deeply Touched...
We would like to Thank Everyone for all the kindness and understanding that has been shown to us during these sad times.
There is an empty space in all our hearts, now that Adrian is soaring with the Angels..God Bless Everyone
Thank You

Karen Welbourn

May 28, 2013

I am just so shocked and saddened by the sudden loss of Adrian. Although I hadn't seen him for many years I will always remember when we worked together at the Council and how very funny, witty and clever he was. He always had us all in stitches. So R.I.P Adrian, I have fond memories of you and the laughs we all had xxxx Karen W

Julie Moulton

May 28, 2013

Adrian was one of the kindest GENTLEMEN I have ever had the pleasure of working with.

Awilda Cintron

May 28, 2013

Adrian was a wonderful person to both work with and hang out with. My condolences to his family. He will be greatly missed. Rest in peace Adrian.

Judy Colecchi

May 28, 2013

To the Petherick family, May it give you comfort to know that Adrian was extremely well liked and a great person both at work and out. Adrian will always have a special place in the hearts of everyone that knew him and he will never be forgotten. Rest in Peace my friend.

May 28, 2013

Joey Farrell Jr

May 28, 2013

My sincerest condolences to Adrian's family and friends. He was a funny, caring man who brightened everyone's lives.

Lynn McQueen

May 28, 2013

Thoughts and prayers to the family. Adrian was always a pleasure to work with always smiling. He will be missed dearly!!!

N MARRA

May 28, 2013

CANNOT BELIEVE OUR ARE GONE.YOU WILL BE GREATLY MISSED MY FRIEND.STACK IT UP!

Leslie Sawyer

May 28, 2013

Adrian was a wonderful co-worker and friend. He was a patient man, fair, and a good listener. His passing is a great loss to the Foxwoods family. My condolences to his family. Rest in peace Adrian.

Julia Petherick

May 28, 2013

Adrian it was a privilege to have had you as my brother. Your upbeat e mails to England always cheered me up. You always shared some joke or other. Sadly I never got to visit you and your boys out in America. Now I hold treasured memories of our shared childhood together. Beautiful friend and brother you are now at peace in heaven, and I will see you again there.
So sorely missed I miss you brother .
your sister Julia,
rest dear brother now. eternal rest.

May 28, 2013

Adrian you were a fantastic brother and friend. You always cheered me up with your upbeat e mails from America. Sadly I never got to visit you there and now just hold onto my memories of growing up with you and treasuring our shared childhood together, rest in peace my beautiful brother rest in heaven your at peace now. I will meet you again there. sorely missed.

Julia Petherick your sister

Lenny & Marlene Stelly

May 28, 2013

To our co-worker, golf buddy and friend, we will miss your spirit. You gained our respect as a great man! We pray to Jesus to accept your soul into Eternal Heaven and hopefully one day our spirits shall meet again. God Bless you, Adrian!

Julia Vidal

May 28, 2013

May joy and peace surround you,
Contentment latch your door,
And happiness be with you now,
And bless you evermore.

Dwane Mitchner

May 28, 2013

Wow such a sad loss not just to the casino but to society. .Adrian was such a great guy and I only have good memories of him at work but we all know Gods angels are all hand picked .R.I.P young fella and just know ur truly missed and heaven is a better place!

Ellen Lewis

May 28, 2013

Such a loss. A kind, thoughtful guy. It was a privelege to work with Adrian. Always respected and admired more than he knew. I will miss that awesome smile. Rest in peace.

maryanne mazur

May 28, 2013

My sincere condolences to Adrian's family,He was a true Gentleman and a Scholar I will truly Miss him, and I'll send you some chocolate up in heaven, RIP my friend

May 28, 2013

Adrian you were always so upbeat and fun. friendly professional and your presence made for an awesome day. I miss you and am previledged to call you my friend and co worker. rest in peace. until than, your friend Lisa Plourde...

Petherick Adrian

May 28, 2013

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Gloria Raposa

May 28, 2013

On behalf of my co-workers, Foxwoods is mourning the loss of such a wonderful, young, fair Pit Boss. He was an asset to Foxwoods since day one and will be truly missed but always in our hearts and with us in spirit. RIP ?

Trish Cossia

May 28, 2013

RIP Adrian - my condolences to your loved ones.

May 28, 2013

RIP Adrian - my condolences to your loved ones.

May 27, 2013

Adrian...I still can't believe your gone:( You were such a joy to work with. You never acting like you were above anyone....treating everyone as a friend. I loved how we would think up pranks to pull on friends at work....just for fun. You had such a great sense of humor.....I'm sure everyone in heaven is enjoying the laughs. Until we meet again my friend. R.I.P
Love,
Danielle Turnbull

Ramona G

May 27, 2013

My sincere condolences to the family....Adrian was a pleasure to work with.... He will be missed.

Evelyn Kerr

May 27, 2013

My deepest sympathy to Adrians family and friends.He was so admired and had a bloody good sense of humor ..His "Ello Govna "started many of our days with asmile .Much loved..Much missed.

Tarah Moss

May 27, 2013

My sincere condolences for Adrian's family. What a great loss for all who knew him. When you walked in the pit and saw Adrian you just knew you were going to have a good day. Always a gentlemen. RIP my friend

Maureen Senical

May 27, 2013

Adrian has taught me a lot he was a mentor and friend! He loved his family and always talked about them and you could see the love in his eyes! He will be greatly missed but I am so glad he was my friend and I will cherish that forever! God bless and protect his family!

Larry Greene

May 27, 2013

My sincere condolences to his family. You will be greatly missed. Rest in peace my good friend.

Pete Levanti

May 27, 2013

Adrian was a gentleman and a complete professional at his job. Always a pleasure to work with. You will be missed.

anthony smith

May 27, 2013

To Adrian's family,I am so sorry for your loss!! I had the priveledge to work with Adrian many years at Foxwoods! It was always a pleasure to work with him.He was a great person!I know he will be missed by many! Rest In peace Adrian!

Denise Petherick

May 27, 2013

My deepest sympathy goes out to all of Adrians family.i know there is a lot of people in the uk who are shocked and very sad on hearing about his death.He leaves a lot of memories.

George Magee

May 27, 2013

Terribly sorry for your loss. Adrian will be remembered fondly as someone who was a pleasure to work with, and for. May he Rest In Peace.

Diane and Stan Preston

May 27, 2013

Adrian was simply a lovely human being,always considerate and kind.He was a role model for all of those with whom he worked...myself included. Our deepest sympathies to his family.

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Brian Walsh

May 27, 2013

As time goes by it will always be the Fondest memories that will last the longest. God Bless you Adrian, May you rest in peace.

Gerard Chick

May 27, 2013

I'm deeply shocked at the sudden death of Adrian. He was a wonderful man and will be greatly missed.
My heartfelt condolences to his family in the US from what I understand you were a devoted father. To Sarah, Juila, Rosie and Sean in the UK, such a terrible blow and it will be hard to recover. Thinking about you - with lots of love.

David De Luco

May 27, 2013

Adrian, My old housemate in Charlestown and Colchester, I will always leave the light on for you Buddy. May you rest in peace.

Linda Smith

May 27, 2013

It was a blessing and honor to work with Adrian. Our hearts will forever remember him. Sincere condolences to his family and friends. R.I.P Adrian.

David De Luco

May 27, 2013

Adrian, My old housemate in Charlestown and Colchester, I will always leave the light on for you Buddy. May you rest in peace.

Trish Hughes

May 27, 2013

The days we worked together were always such happy ones, since leaving the United States you were in my thoughts often..
To Adrian's family and closest friends, I am so very sorry for your loss, my sincere condolences, RIP.

May 27, 2013

I had the pleasure to work with Adrian ..what a wonderful man! There will be a void at Foxwoods . RIP. Prayers and Love to all ..family and friends..my deepest sympathy...
Susan Masson

May 27, 2013

I feel very honored to have worked with Adrian. He will be missed greatly and there will be a void at Foxwoods. May you RIP and God bless your family. Xoxo

Robin Poole

May 27, 2013

With heartfelt sympathy I offer my condolences to Adrian's family and friends near and far.

Andrea & Matt Goodrich

May 27, 2013

Our deepest sympathies on your loss. Adrian was a kind and fair person to work for and will be greatly missed at the casino. God bless.

Sally & Joe Bonmer

May 27, 2013

Joe and I are were very sorry to hear about the death of Adrian. He was a great person to work with and will be sorely missed by all. May you rest in peace.

Jennifer Malbaurn

May 27, 2013

A true gentleman that will be greatly missed. My deepest condolences to the family.

Pauline Chao

May 27, 2013

I'm deeply shocked at the sudden death of Adrian. He was a wonderful man and will be greatly missed.
My heartfelt condolences to you and your family.
Although it's difficult today to see beyond the sorrow, may looking back in memory help comfort you tomorrow.

Robert Tingle

May 27, 2013

R.I.P. Mr. Petherick. R.I.P.

Sarah Miller

May 27, 2013

My sincerest condolences to his family. Adrian, you will be sorely missed. Your kindness and gentleness will never be forgotten. May you rest in peace.

Ray Heely

May 27, 2013

My deepest condolences to Adrian's family. He was a wonderfully unique man who was always a pleasure to work with and be in the presence of. Absolutely on of the best.

Deb Crowley

May 27, 2013

A great boss and even better father... RIP Adrian???!!!
God will be with your family..

Dolores Craine

May 27, 2013

Over the pass 20 years Adrian i have had the pleasure to work with you.Everytime i saw you you would have something to saw to me to make me laugh. I am so sorry for all of your family the hurt they feel and sadness. You are truly going to be missed by alot of people. Rest in piece my boss.

Richard Sergi

May 27, 2013

Deepest sympathies to Adrian's family and friends here and in the UK. He was a great boss, co-worker, and most importantly friend. He will be sorely missed.

Debbie Beebe

May 27, 2013

My thoughts and prayers go out to his family. Adrian was one of the top most loved employees at the woods. He was a gentle kind witty man. He was also a caring person. My heart breaks for his family and also the foxwoods family as we all loved him as well. May you rest in Peace my friend.

Bryan Rogers

May 27, 2013

Adrian was a gentlemen both at work and play, I am a better person having known him.

Debra O'Rourke

May 27, 2013

Adrain was such a great man and friend. Was a great co-worker and Pit Boss!! Deepest Sympathy to his family for your loss. He touched everyone life! RIP Adrian

Peter Trafaconda

May 27, 2013

Adrian will be missed by many. He would bring a smile to your face just knowing he was your manager. Rest in peace my friend.

susan gamble

May 27, 2013

Adrian, you were one of the best to work with. This is so sad and you will be truly missed. May God wrap his lovig arms aroud your sons and family and bring them comfort.So sorry for everyones loss.. Susan Gamble

David Smith

May 27, 2013

Adrian was one of my best friends at Foxwoods i worked with him for several years on grave shift. we also spent many hours playing pool and joking around. i also spent 3 years working on the casino boats up in Mass with Adrian.He was one of the most sincere,down to earth people i ever knew. Adrian will be truely missed by myself and all of the Foxwoods.I am a better person for having known him,, GOD BLESS HIS FAMILY IN THIER TIME OF NEED,,,

Debbie O'Brien

May 27, 2013

RIP dear Adrian. I loved working with you. You were a sweet heart. My thoughts and prayers are with his family at this time of loss. Adrian was loved by everyone who knew him.?

Al Amos

May 27, 2013

My thoughts and prayers go out to Adrians family and friends.Adrian was a kind and caring man and will be missed.God Bless

May 27, 2013

My deepest sympathy goes out to Adrian's family and friends. I worked with Adrian for many years and all I can say is he was a wonderful man and boss ! May god wrap his arms around you all and keep you safe and god please give your strength to his family members that are going through this rough time. Heaven has an other angel up there and his name is Adrian ! Love and will miss you old friend.

Denise Carpenter

May 27, 2013

My thoughts and prayers go out to his family . Sorry for the loss of such a great man and faher. May you Adrian R.I.P . :+(

Frank & Carol Harda

May 27, 2013

Dear Sean, Alex, Andrew, Ashley, Craig, Jeremy, Kyle, Julia, and Sarah,

We were saddened by the news of Adrian's passing. Both of us had the pleasure to work alongside Adrian for the past 20+ years. In all honesty, we can say whichever one of us may have worked with Adrian on any given day, every one of those days was a good day. He will be greatly missed.

Wishing you peace to comfort you in this time of sorrow and courage to face the days ahead. May you forever treasure the loving memories of Adrian in your hearts. He lives on in all of you. Our deepest sympathy for your loss.

simon o'toole

May 26, 2013

a friend,a brother, a gentleman, a more decent human being you will never meet, Adrian R Petherick, RIP.

Margie Howe

May 26, 2013

One of the best Pit managers at Foxwoods who was loved by all. A smile for all and always willing to share his Munson chocolate peanuts! R.I.P Adrian.

Teri Estep

May 26, 2013

Adrian was beloved and will be missed. I wish his family comfort in their memories. My sincere condolences to all of you. Rest in peace, my friend.

Valerie Mayze

May 26, 2013

A great loss for both sides of the pond :(

Valerie Mayze

May 26, 2013

Adrian my UK "brutha" You will be missed Keep em smiling and laughing up there whilst we wait on our turn Cheers Mate! xx Blessings to your family

Chris de la Cruz

May 26, 2013

Adrian will be sorely missed. To find someone, who was so well liked and admired by so many people, is a rarity. Adrian was a man who really made working feel a lot less like work. You worked hard, so rest peaceful...

kevin gallagher

May 26, 2013

so sorry for your lost..adrian was a very nice man and had respect from every dealer because he never forgot where he came from..rest in peace..death is not the end of life but the birth of eternal life with jeus christ

Keith Coolidge

May 26, 2013

A great Gentleman, I liked very much as a fellow human being .
He had a great persona that let him do justice to the tasks at hand and still was able to find the time for a quick chuckle.
Too soon his life was taken from us ,but he truly made a profound mark in the lives of those ,that were privileged to know him.

john sylvia

May 26, 2013

A tremendousnman and a terrible loss. I guess God needed another Angel

April Woodard

May 26, 2013

Adrian was part of our family for many, many years. Adrian was such a good person, devoted father to my nephews, partner to my sister, and caring stepfather to niece and nephews. I am deeply saddened by his passing. Rest in peace and know how much you will be missed by so many.

Melissa Aguedo

May 26, 2013

I'm so sorry for your loss. He was such a great person. He was funny and kind. My prayers and love go out to the family and his kids.

Lisa Ruhe

May 26, 2013

My prayers to his family He was truly one of a kind and will be missed by all who were lucky enough to know him Rest in peace my friend

Melody Webb

May 26, 2013

RIP dear Adrian. To your family, my deepest sympathies for your loss. He was a wonderful person and one I will never forget.

sue gamble

May 26, 2013

Adrian, you were always one of the best to work with. So very sad to have loss you so early. May God wrap his loving arms around your sons and all your loved ones and hold them tight. Rest in Peace

billy shea

May 26, 2013

Your presence and gentle ways will be sorely missed

May 26, 2013

Sorry for your loss.Walt Szocik

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