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Anthony Susi Obituary
He was born Sept. 3, 1939, in New London, the son of the late Anthony and Frances (Kryzwicki) Susi Sr. Tony graduated from New London High School, class of 1957. He attended The Citadel in Charleston, S.C. and later graduated from the University of Hartford with a degree in mechanical engineering. He was united in marriage to his high school sweetheart, the former Lucy Lasala on June 24, 1961, in St. Mary Star of the Sea Church. Mrs. Susi survives him.
Tony was employed at the Naval Undersea Warfare Center (NUWC) for 33 years. He held the position of program manager for Submarine Antenna Systems in the Submarine Electromagnetic Systems Department. His many accomplishments contributed directly to the capabilities and readiness of the submarine fleet. As a result of these accomplishments, he was awarded several U.S. patents, received a number of NUWC special achievement awards and was the recipient of a Department of the Navy Meritorious Civilian Service award. He was referred to affectionately by many of his co-workers as Mr. Submarine Antennas.
He was a lifetime member of the New London Lodge of Elks, the former Oxford Hose Company of New London, and a longtime duckpin bowler in numerous leagues throughout the area. He was a communicant and usher at St. Paul Church in Waterford. He also spent many years coaching baseball and basketball in Waterford.
Over the last eight years, Lucy and Tony have spent their winters in Marco Island, Fla. They also enjoyed traveling throughout the Caribbean, visiting Atlantic City and Foxwoods Casino.
He loved to attend all his grandchildren's dance and musical performances and sporting events.
Besides his beloved wife of 52 years, he is survived by three sons, Anthony and Alice Susi III of Gales Ferry, John and Mary Ann Susi of Southington and Michael Susi of Waterford. A brother-in-law, Frank Lasala of Uncasville; and a sister-in-law, Clara Susi; and nephew, Frank Susi Jr. of East Lyme; and five grandchildren, Alyssa, Lauren, Brett, Zachary and Garrett Susi.
He was predeceased by a brother, Frank Susi.
His family will receive relatives and friends from 4 to 7 p.m. Friday, at the Impellitteri-Malia Funeral Home, 84 Montauk Ave., New London. The funeral will assemble at 11 a.m. Saturday and proceed to Mass of Christian Burial at noon in St. Paul Church 170 Rope Ferry Road. Interment will be in St. Mary Cemetery.
Donations may be in his memory to the donor's choice of charity.
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Memories and Condolences
for Anthony Susi
Lynette Susi Godkin
February 17, 2025
He's a GREAT UNCLE I will always miss you Uncle Tony[Butch]
Lisa Faber
July 1, 2021
You were just a plain ole sweetie pie...and you always were smiling. Lucy and I talk about you every time she comes to visit .. You were loved and your family was very fortunate to have you !!
Dave Dence
July 4, 2013
I am deeply saddened by the death of Tony.He brought so many gifts to the lives of people.Many,many fond memories of Tony.I could never forget him.
The Piela Family
July 2, 2013
All of our heartfelt sympathies to the Susi Family on the loss of Mr. Susi. Truly a wonderful man. Truly a wonderful family.
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Lisa Faber
July 1, 2013
As I mentioned to you Lucy, people go a lifetime without being as fortunate as you to have had such a wonderful marriage. You were blessed with a supportive husband and father, a friend, and most of all, your soul mate. Anthony, Johnny and Michael, you had and still have the perfect role model, You will forever follow in his footsteps. The apple doesn't fall far from the tree. Your family is amazing. Your Mom and Dad did a great job! He will be on my mind always. I love all of you. oxox
Melinda (Susi) Wallace
July 1, 2013
To the Susi family,
I too am a Susi, my father was John Susi, son of Guy and Jeanette. I am sad to say, I did not know Tony. From what I read, he seemed like a very good man. I know he will be greatly missed. I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Bill Struzinski
July 1, 2013
My deepest sympathy to the Susi Family
Ellen LeBlanc Shepard
July 1, 2013
John,Marr,Brett,Zach& Garrett
and Susi Family
Perhaps they are not the stars, but rather, openings in heaven where the love of our lost ones pours through and shines down upon us to let us know they are happy. Hold tight to memories for comfort.
Our Deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family.
Mark , Ellen ,Mark Ryan,Matt & Sean
john smart
July 1, 2013
so sorry for your loss to the susi family
July 1, 2013
A wonderful person. He was just like his father.
Sincerest sympathy to the family
Lee Shedroff
Susan (Florio) Edwards
July 1, 2013
UT, even after the emotionally exhausting past few days we've had, none of this seems real.
Please watch over us and give my dad a big hug and kiss from me.
Love always, your pesty goddaughter
June 30, 2013
My heartfelt sympathy and prayers go out to the Anthony Susi family, my childhood friend Lucy Fratino always spoke highly of her cousin. May he Rest in Peace.
Jackie Caputo
Cheryl (Escobedo) Sorensen
June 30, 2013
Tony gave me a job in 1976 in the 'Upward Mobility' program. I was able to go to school and work and obtain an associates degree in mechanical engineering. He was a great Guy who will be sorely missed. Always upbeat with a great sense of humor.
The Bedard's ( Rob )
June 30, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire Susi Family as you go through this difficult time . God Bless
Jim and Patty Culbertson
June 29, 2013
Our heartfelt prayers are with your family at this time of your great loss!! Mr Susi was a special person and will be truly missed!! Our deepest sympathies go out to your family!!
christine buczkowski
June 28, 2013
Mr. Susi, I will truly miss you and your smile from across the street. I will miss you at the grocery store. I will miss you at church. It was a pleasure to know such a genuine, nice gentleman. Many tears are down here while you are up there...until we meet again...God Bless.
June 28, 2013
Dear Lucy and family,
We were both shocked and saddened to hear about Tony. Please accept our heartfelt sorrow and deepest sympathy over your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you during this time of grief.
Ed and Noella Lamirande
Saint Johns, FL
Dawn Koonce
June 28, 2013
Our hearts are broken and we share in your sadness. Mr. "Sushi" was a wonderful man, an amazing father, an adoring husband, and a dear friend. He will be missed terribly.
Love, Dawn and Kaitlyn
Stefanie Richards
June 28, 2013
My prayer are with you and your family.
June 28, 2013
Lucy, he was truly your "prince charming". We will always treasure our time together in Florida. Our love and prayers. the Zummo family
Pam
June 28, 2013
What a wonderful spirit he had will miss seeing him at the office my deepest sympathy to the family
Royal Seafarer Staff
June 28, 2013
Tony will be very missed by your friends and staff at the Royal Seafarer.
Dan & Marilyn Mancuso
June 28, 2013
Dear Lucy and Susi family ~ it's impossible to think of this world without Tony - a man so good and kind. He will be greatly missed, thank God you and your family have each other to get through your grief. We are so sorry for your loss. Dan & Marilyn Mancuso
PJ McCarthy
June 28, 2013
Tony,
My thoughts are with you and your family during these times. Take care.
PJ
June 28, 2013
Mike and family,
Our deepest condolences for your loss.
The Patt Family
Michele Spellman
June 28, 2013
Lucy and family,
I am so sorry to hear about Tony. I loved working for him and he was a great friend. I will keep all of you in my prayers.
Carol Ann (Platz) Heney
June 28, 2013
Lucy, and Family,
I'm so sorry for your loss. Tony was a great guy, and He always made me laugh. He will be missed.
jack mikula
June 28, 2013
mrs susi and mike my deepest sorrow on the passing your husband and father
Elena Paravati
June 28, 2013
Tony, You will always be remembered as the handsome guy who married my cousin Lucy. I was young and had quite a crush on you! Though over the years we didn't see each other much I always thought of you and Lucy lovingly and with happy memories. Rest in the Lord's arms and watch over us until we meet again.
You will be missed.
To my cousin Lucy and your boys and their families, my love, thoughts and prayers are with you all. Elena
Lucy Fratino
June 28, 2013
You will always be in my thoughts as a wonderful husband to my special cousin Lucy. I will miss my E Mails {that only you would send}. It was an honor to have you in our family. Love Lucy
June 28, 2013
My thoughts are with you at this sorrowful time. Phyllis (Kaiko, Muscarella) Gorra
Donna & Jim Flatley
June 28, 2013
A sweet gentle man, a delight to know and work with. Never a politician.
Mary Anne Alfieri
June 28, 2013
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998
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