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Barbara DiMaggio Obituary
Born in New London, she was the daughter of the late Leo and Frances (McGuire) Kelly and lived in North Stonington for the past 12 years, previously residing in Pawcatuck for most of her life.
Barbara was employed with Electric Boat for 30 years. Following her retirement from EB, she worked part-time for several years with the Dr. David J. Siciliano Chiropractic office in Westerly. She enjoyed her job very much, interacting with the patients and working for Dr. Siciliano.
She loved spending time with her grandchildren and great-grandchildren. She also had lots of laughs and good times when she was with her sister, Pat.
Barbara is survived by her four children, James Ilvento of Groton, Donna Bonelli and her husband, Joseph, of Ledyard, Rick Ilvento of North Stonington, and Julie Ilvento of Stonington; siblings, Patricia Dupont of Waterford, Frances Paoloni of Wakefield, R.I., Leo Kelly Jr. of New London, and Nancy Henkle of Florida; six beloved grandchildren, Jade Bonelli, Meagan Castagna, Kyla, Bryn, Noelle, and Nolan Hickey; three great-grandchildren, Nathan and Alex Castagna and Jahtee Whyte; and her childhood best friend, Joan Boiselle of Waterford.
She was predeceased by a daughter, Carol Lynn Ilvento.
The family would like to thank the staff at Groton Regency for the care and comfort given to Barbara during her short time there as a resident, especially Laura, Drew, Sue, Patti, Daniela, Dan, Miriam, and Gail, along with others who contributed as well. The level of care Barbara received from these incredible people was above and beyond, with so much compassion and patience.
Her family will receive friends from 5 to 7 p.m. Wednesday, Jan. 15, at the Mystic Funeral Home, Route 1, 51 Williams Ave., Mystic, followed by a service at 7 p.m. at the funeral home. Burial will be private for the family.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital, (www.stjude.org).
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
Memories and Condolences
for Barbara DiMaggio
Lisa Kay Swigart
January 24, 2014
Just heard the sad news of your mom's passing today. I am sorry for your loss and pray that you will all feel the comfort that comes from good memories and family pulling together. Thinking of all of you.
Tammy Camerino
January 17, 2014
Dear Family
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time! I will miss seeing your mom at the bank. She was always so wonderful and always put a smile on our faces!Smile in your memories! She'll always be in my heart!
January 17, 2014
My deepest condolences to Barbara's family. I worked with her at EB; she would wait on me for things I needed from the Plan Room. She was most accommodating and very pleasant as well. We formed a nice friendship. I shall miss her.
Gerry Kortick
Warwick,RI
January 16, 2014
Dear Julie and Family,
My deepest sympathy to all of you. Barbara was such a kind person. She loved all of you very much. It was so nice to hear her talk about the kids and how big they were, especially Nolan (no longer the little guy that I knew at D.M.S). She was so proud of all of you. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Rose Terranova
Lisa McGuire
January 16, 2014
So sorry to hear about my cousin Barbara's passing she every time I did get to see her she was smiling .She will be missed.
January 16, 2014
Heaven welcomed a wonderful, caring, fun lovely women. Prayers and thoughts to her family and friends. God Bless, Linda Morales
Marcia Harriman
January 16, 2014
I will miss Barb. My sincere sympathy to her family. Marcia Harriman
Joyce Fitts
January 16, 2014
Donna and family, so very sorry for this great loss. She was always smiling and left people feeling happy whenever she was around!
Susan Velardi
January 15, 2014
My dear "Barb", you are a beautiful, loving, caring soul. I was so fortunate and blessed to have you as my friend, my "CT" mother, and coworker. Words cannot express my sadness of your passing. You will have a place in my heart forever. My condolences to your family and friends. I love you. Rest in peace. Always.
Lisa Paterno
January 15, 2014
Words cannot express how sorry I am for your loss. Barbara was a wonderful person who was always there to help anyone in need. I will truly miss her.
January 15, 2014
Jim, Donna, Rick and Julie I would like to tell you how sorry my family and I are at Barbs passing, she worked for me for many years, she was a truly wonderful, faith filled person with a heart of gold. She loved you and all her family and was so proud of all of you. I have known her for most of my life, Barb was more than a secretary to me she was one of my family. I will definitely miss her smile, kindness, the happiness she always gave to me and the patients she came into contact with, her laughter and sense of humor. There is a hole in my heart because she is no longer part of our life. I will truly truly miss her,
Dave
January 14, 2014
James, Donna, Ricky and Julie
Words cannot express how sorry I am for your loss.
I will truly miss her she was more like a mom to me, we shared a lot of good times and I will treasure them always. She was a loving and giving person. And I know as much as she loved angels she is now one watching over all of us. Love you and I will miss you always.
My sincere condolences,
Kim (Blake) Kintner
January 14, 2014
I worked with Barbara at Dr. Siciliano's. She was a good friend and we had a lot of fun times together. I will miss our luncheons and suppers.
Joanna
Carlene Stinnette
January 14, 2014
So sorry for your loss. I worked at EB with Barbara in the vault for a few yrs. She was one of a kind. Everyone loved her. My condolences to the family.
Robert Van Marter
January 14, 2014
All the 'KELLY' Family..So sorry to hear about Barb's passing. Our hopes and prayers are with you all. She was a wonderful neice to our mother Mary who passed away 2 years ago.
January 14, 2014
I knew Barbara from E.B. and working with her at Barry's Drycleaners part time. We had a lot of laughs together.
I am sorry for your loss.
Sam McGuire
January 14, 2014
I worked 2nd shift with Barb as my counterpart on dayshift at EB for years. So sorry to hear of her passing. I'll have to play some Nat King Cole for her.
sylvia
January 13, 2014
Barbara was a very friendly person, I met her at Dr. Dave's. So sorry for your loss.
Betsy Fox
January 13, 2014
Really sorry to hear about Barb passing. She was a great lady and someone I considered part of my own family for a long time. I know she will be greatly missed. Thinking of all of you.
January 13, 2014
Rick and Family,
Your Mom was one of a kind. We will always remember her Sharp Wit and her amazing Christmas cookies. She will be missed.
Our Sincere Condolences on the loss of such a kind and giving Lady.
Love
Keith and Sharon Marsie
Linda Tansey-Eldridge
January 13, 2014
So sorry for your loss. Our parents were such good friends, I have fond memories of the Ilvento family. You will be in the thoughts and prayers of the Tansey family in this difficult time.
Lea Mitchell
January 13, 2014
I worked with Barbara at Dr. Dave's and she was a very nice and friendly lady to work with. My condolences to her family.
Cheryl Bucchi
January 13, 2014
Pat, Duke, Nancy, and Fran. I am so saddened by the passing of Barbara. She will always bring a smile to many people's faces when they remember her. May she rest in peace. Love, your cousin, Cheryl
Sally Cyr
January 13, 2014
I had the pleasure of meeting Barbara a few times when she worked at Treasure Chest with my daughter Susan. She was a kind and wonderful lady. I know she will be missed by my daughter. Sincere sympathies to the family.
Kathy (Santos) Tetrault
January 13, 2014
To Barbara's family, I am so sorry for your loss. Remembering the good times we had when we were members of the Pawcatuck Lioness Club. Rest in peace, Barbara.
Heather Laidlaw
January 13, 2014
I would like to recognize her dedication to other people's children as well. Beautiful colleague and friend. Love condolences.
Judi Page
January 13, 2014
So sorry for your loss. I remember lots of FUN with Barb and Joan. Thare is a new angel watching out for you.
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