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Henry E. "Buddy" Destremps Jr.

Henry E. "Buddy" Destremps Jr. obituary, Lebanon, CT

Henry Destremps Obituary

Lebanon - Henry E. "Buddy" Destremps Jr., 59, of Connecticut, formerly of Somerset, Mass., died Sunday, April 14, 2013. He was the husband of Cheryl (Dowd) Destremps, to whom he had been married for 33 years.

Born in Fall River, Mass., the son of Jacqueline A. (O'Rourke) Destremps of Somerset and the late Henri E. Destremps Sr., he was a graduate of Somerset High School, Class of 1971, and attended Central Connecticut State University. He was employed as an iron worker until his retirement in 2011. He began his career at Thames Valley Steel in Groton, later he worked at QSR Steel Corp., and owned and operated D & P Erection & Welding LLC.

An avid motorcycle enthusiast, he loved to ride his Harley-Davidson. He was a handyman who was able to help his family with many projects and built his own home.

Surviving in addition to his wife and mother, are two sons, Jason K. Destremps Sr. and his girlfriend, Kim McCoy, of East Hartford, Michael E. Destremps and his girlfriend, Amanda C. Shetland, of Danielson; a daughter, Jessica C. Goulart and her husband, Jeremy H. Goulart; a brother, Kenneth W. Destremps and his wife, Robin, of Fall River, Mass.; two sisters, Debra L. Marek and her husband, Robert, of Berkley, Mass., and Lisa A. Rogers and her husband, John, of Dighton, Mass.; and two grandchildren, Alyssa A. and Jason K. Destremps Jr.

His funeral will take place at 10 a.m. on Friday, April 19, 2013, from the Waring-Sullivan Home of Memorial Tribute at Rose E. Sullivan, 866 County St., Somerset, Mass., followed by a Funeral Mass at 11 a.m. in St. Patrick Church, 306 South St., Somerset. Burial will be in St. Patrick Cemetery in Somerset. Visiting hours will be from 5 to 8 p.m. Thursday.

Memorial contributions in his honor may be made to the American Cancer Society, 30 Speen St., Framingham, MA 01701.

For tributes and directions, visit www.waring-sullivan.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Day on Apr. 16, 2013.

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Jessica Goulart

May 2, 2014

Dear Daddy is has been well over a year and words still can't explain the hurt and pain I feel. I know you are in a better place and looking out for your family and friends, but I wish so deeply that you were here with me. I love and miss you so much words can't explain. Till the day we meet again, I love you! Alway missed but never forgotten!

Nat

April 23, 2013

Sorry to know you are gone, Buddy. We had some great times 40 years back...

Caroline Dowd

April 18, 2013

Bud, So glad to have had you as a member of our family. Your smile and sense of humor will be greatly missed.. I will miss you. Your presence will always be felt at all family functions. Carol

The Strickland Family

April 17, 2013

Nice picture Jess and Family so sorry to hear bout Bud's passing.Remember we did Soft ball together along time ago. He always had a smile and made you laugh.Condolences to you all

Jim & donna Sears

April 17, 2013

Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal. Thanks for the memories :)

April 17, 2013

We will always cherish the motorcycle rides we all shared.
Nancy & John

April 17, 2013

Dear Cheryl,

Even though it's been years since we have seen one another, I am very sad to read of your loss. Deepest condolences from Our Family to Yours.

Sincerely,

Keith and Sharon Marsie

April 17, 2013

I and Tink are very honored to have had you and your family part of our lives. You always had a smile and lived life to it's fullest everyday. I learned a lot but watching the way you never let life get you down you just kept going and dealt with what ever came your way. We will miss you very much, especially at our 4th of July parties. I know you will watch over your wife,children,grandchildren, & friends as that is the kind of person you are. We will see you someday again in our next life.
Love,
Sandy & Tink Hylen

April 17, 2013

we wish you speedy passage to the better place. we love ,Joe & Beth

Marilyn Rohan

April 17, 2013

Henry I will miss you more then words can say. You were the high light of my day at work. Your now in heavan and you will be missed. Marilyn ECHO nurse

Lauren & Todd Lacroix

April 16, 2013

Todd left a note at the house...no answer. I saw Bud at the hospital...and he was just his happy self. He knew this time was not good. We are all blessed for the years that he touched our life's...especially at Thames Valley Steel. God bless

April 16, 2013

Cheryl, Jason, Michael and Jessie - I was sorry to hear of Bud's passing. Last time I saw him he was smiling and that is how I will remember him- as a matter of fact that is how I always saw him!

Jonathan Brandzen

April 16, 2013

When I was young we played patty-cakes and you would always change it to Jonny-cakes for me so it would be special.

Because that's the kind of man you were: Tough as nails yet gentle, kind and caring at once.

The world is less without you in it Uncle Buddy.

Enduring love.

April 16, 2013

im so grateful to have known you, had many great times and memories. you will be deeply missed but never forgotten.
Tanya and Joe

Sylvia Maddox

April 16, 2013

A great coach to my son for many years. He will truely be missed.

Craig Dowd

April 16, 2013

Everytime I hear the song Mr bojangles, I will think of you.

Jackie Ausburger

April 16, 2013

To the family of Buddy Destremps,
Bud was a well-known gentleman that me and my boyfriend had the priviledge of meeting many times. He was always upbeat, happy and always smiling. Our
thoughts and prayers are with your family and all his friends will miss him
terribly.

Jackie Ausburger/John Chapman Sr.

April 16, 2013

I`M GOING TO MISS YOU BUDDY, YOU WERE MY RING BEARER AT MY WEDDING, I`M GOING TO MISS YOUR JOKES, MAY YOU REST IN PEACE

brandy gilebarto

April 15, 2013

Gona miss you dad..i know i wasnt your kid by blood but you were my dad 2.. thank you for all you did for me and accepting me..im espically gona miss those nick names...annie/brandalooney...you use to make me laugh so much..i know your in a better place but always look down on us and keep us all safe..again i love you pop xoxoxo always and forever just like you did with me..

Brandy Gilebarto

April 15, 2013

Love you pop..i know i wasnt you kid by blood but u always made me feel like i was and treated me like i was ..i will always miss the nicknames you gave me also..the world will just never be the same without you..love you always and forever and will always be here and be bestfriends to you daughter..love u always and forever pop thanks for raising me 2...love you xoxoxo.. now your a free bird.

Richard Cosgrove

April 15, 2013

Bud a true friend,I'll certainly miss you

April 15, 2013

Buddy always had a smile for us when we saw him.We have many happy
memories to keep in our hearts. He is and will be sadly missed.
. We Love you,Chris and Gail

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