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James Patterson Obituary

Mystic - James Henry Patterson passed away in New London on the afternoon of Wednesday, July 3, 2013.

He entered the world as a result of the union of James H. Patterson and Zula Mae Murphy on March 29, 1945, in the City of Brotherly Love, Philadelphia, Pa. When James was one and a half years old, the family moved to NE Washington, District of Columbia, in the section of Capitol Hill. James attended local public schools in the district and in 1960 entered the prestigious Eastern High School, "The Pride of Capitol Hill", where he excelled in his studies and participated in Jr. ROTC. It was here at Eastern High School that James absorbed the positive aspects of Jr. ROTC and rose to the rank of regimental sgt. major.

In 1965, duty called. James eagerly enlisted in the U.S. Marine Corps, a lifelong dream. At this time the U.S. was involved in the Vietnam Conflict. James was stationed in the South East Asia region embedded with the First Battalion, Third Marines. Whilst in battle, Patterson received a field promotion to sergeant. After his tour ended in 1967, he returned stateside serving his final two years at the U.S. Naval Submarine Base New London at Groton, as an MP and on the Admiral's Honor Guard. In 1969, James was honorably discharged from the U.S. Marine Corps as an E-5 sgt.

It was about this time when James' love affair with Mystic began. It was here that James became a schooner sailor. If you were to only walk with James down Main Street in Mystic on a sunny afternoon, you would then begin to understand how well loved he was by all in this intimate maritime village. Pat, as he was sometimes called, can best be described in the words of Fredrick Douglass, a ship's caulker, who escaped slavery in the South by posing as a "Blackjack" sailor fleeing north;

"….he knew a ship from stem to stern, from keelson to crosstrees, and could talk sailor like an ‘old salt,…'"

After the Marine Corps, James served as a house parent at the Mystic Oral School for the Deaf beginning in 1970. Beloved by students and staff alike, he remained there until its closing in the early 1980s. While at the school, James coached basketball and served as a scout master.

As a gifted chef, he worked at various local Mystic restaurants, including the Daniel Packer Inne, The Fisherman, the Ancient Mariner, and Steamboat Café. In the mid-1980s, his appetite for adventure took him to the high seas where he served as crew and cook on various tall ships sailing out of Mystic, including the Harvey Gamage, Voyager, Mystic Whaler, Tole Mour, Charlotte Ann, and Rachel and Ebenezer. James' skill as chef aboard these vessels encompassed his vast knowledge of sailing on waters near and far, as well as the ability to provision a ship in both domestic and foreign ports. His experience in planning meals for extended sea voyages, and his management experience included the supervision and establishment of close working relationships with both adults and adolescents, for extended periods of time at sea and on shore. In addition to chef, James earned the unofficial title of "morale officer" aboard the ships he served because of his caring and intuitive nature.

In the mid-1990s, James served as master cook at the Foxwoods Casino in their world class buffet. He supervised a crew who prepared meals for close to 10,000 people on a daily basis.

In 1998, at Mystic Seaport Museum, Amistad America, Inc., laid the keel, made out of purple heart wood from the Republic of Suriname, and began construction of the Freedom Schooner Amistad. James was commissioned to design the galley and served as the first executive chef aboard the vessel. Amistad was launched in March of 2000, and sailed for the first time in OPSAIL 2000 in July. James sailed with the ship as she traveled throughout Connecticut, the Eastern coast of the United States, the Great Lakes and Canada.

After the Amistad experience, James retired to Mystic, where he and his loving wife, Kathleen, most recently purchased a home a "stone's throw" from the Mystic River that James loved so well.

James is survived by his wife, Kathleen Crockford of Mystic; his sister, Gussie Wells and her husband, Robert, of Oxon Hill, Md.; and his brother, Norman Garrett of Washington, D.C.

James was pre-deceased by his parents; sister, Ida Ray; and brothers, Kevin Garrett and Tyrone Garrett.

A Memorial Celebration of James' life will be held in Mystic in August, 2013, time and location to be announced.

The Dinoto Funeral Home, 17 Pearl St., Mystic, is assisting the family.

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Published by The Day on Jul. 7, 2013.

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Captain Bill Pinkney

July 1, 2021

Remembering my friend, confidant and ship-mate with warm affection and a space in my heart that never filled.

CAPTAIN BILL PINKNEY

July 1, 2020

I MISS MY SHIPMATE, MY FRIEND. AT THIS TIME OF CRISIS I MISS YOUR WISE CONSUL.

Captain Bill Pinkney

July 5, 2019

Six years is not a long time, it is a lifetime when you can talk to a friend like James. I hear his voice from time to time when I'm sailing and it warms my heart and stirs my memories we shared as shipmates. Miss you still.

Chad Lyons

July 17, 2013

James was a Gentle Giant of a man. Always so friendly and welcoming. It was a joy to be around him. He was a great example to all.

Julia Weathers

July 16, 2013

My deepest condolences to the family of James Pattison-- James, the cook.

I will always remember my experience as an Educator/Deckhand onboard La Amistad during spring 2002 as being ever richer because of James' great cooking.

I hope his soul rests in peace.

Christine Cerro

July 13, 2013

To the family of James Patterson: my deepest condolences to the entire family and friends. I never knew he had done so much wonderful things in life - from a great kid to a military guy, to being a ship lover, to being a best coach in sports, to care for deaf children at a deaf school years ago, to being a wonderful husband and siblings he loves so dearly.

May my prayers give you peace and good memories.

RIP, James

Amistad Crew Portrait

Chad Lyons

July 11, 2013

July 10, 2013

My deepest sympathy is extended to the family and friends of James Patterson. James remembered me as "hotdog annie" and a part of my more zestful youth goes with him. He would often saunter from his home back then in downtown over to my hotdog cart in the brick ally for 2 dogs with just a little kraut and mustard. Always calm and cool with that big smile. He was full of spirit that overflowed generously to everyone he met. His memory will be eternal and forever a part of downtown Mystic. My pleasure to have met him. Ann Buonocore-Mystic, CT.

Rinette Potter

July 10, 2013

Our sympathy to you and family. I know Him when I was at Mystic Oral School while James was houseparent.. He was wonderful guy and smile, too. Rinette (Berube) Potter.

Susan Rojecki

July 10, 2013

My sympathy goes to James and his family ..so sorry for his passing my prayers and thoughfulness are with him... Will never forget him I was young kid as he was houseparent at Mystic Oral School God bless him and his family

Vincent Lagrotteria

July 9, 2013

Always the man and will always be....former student at Mystic Oral School...God Bless you!

Linda Miller

July 9, 2013

Forty plus years of memories...the oral school...the steak loft...the shack and Collins road, What great times!!!!Thank you Patterson

"FAIR WINDS & FOLLOWING SEAS"

dani settle

July 9, 2013

My deepest sympathy to James' wife and family... What a wonderful gift James shared with the Amistad and all of her crews... "Everything goes better with butter" I had the great fortune to follow James as chef ...that could be a hard act to follow...James shall forever live in the history of the Amistad... gone but never forgotten... A HUI HOU(until we meet again)
Nam myoho renge kyo-

Sebastian Fischoeder

July 9, 2013

Dear Kathleen,
my sincere condolences. I will never forget the great time we had sailing together aboard the Amistad. James was not only a great chef, but a true friend. Even we have lost contact over the years, James will always be part of these wonderful memories.

katie wyatt

July 8, 2013

thank you for the reggae in the galleys in the mornings on amistad. thank you for the delicious food. thank you for the wisdom and history. thank you for the love. fair winds and following seas.

Michelle & Lawrence Passeck

July 8, 2013

My husband, Larry and I would like to extend our sympathies to Mr. Patterson's wife and families. He was Larry's house father at Mystic Oral School for the Deaf. He had a several great and funny memories as well as I had, too. The very first time we both laid our eyes on him in the cafeteria when he came in wearing his green Marines uniform with supt, principal and Dean of Students. We (the whole kids) stared at him wondering what was he doing. He was wearing a huge Marine hat. We learned that he was going to be a housefather for boys dorm. He made a huge impact to all students he came across. He coached Pee-Wee basketball. I was impressed how great coach he was. He shall be never forgotten for years to come. He'll be missed by everyone who liked him immensely. Michelle and Lawrence Passeck

Bill King

July 8, 2013

A big man with an evan bigger heart. Fair winds James

Robert Chapman

July 8, 2013

I met James aboard the Amistad while volunteering . Great food and conversation is what I remember, a fine man. My condolences to James family & friends.

Joanne Williams Cassano

July 8, 2013

Sorry for Loss. Gonna missed you~Wonderful Staff you are !???

Captain William Pinkney

July 8, 2013

We shared the aft cabin, our mutual weddings and so many,many port o' call together. He was my brother in arms, He as a Marine and me a Navy Hospitalcorpsman a bond only "Jarheads" P---er Checkers understand. Semper Fi.

July 7, 2013

We love you Mrs. Kathleen
Emily and Bobby Lewis

Melanie Lewis

July 7, 2013

Dear Kathleen and family,
We so sorry to hear about Mr. James, he was such a wonderful neighbor and a support system after the accident. We will never forget him!! God has a true hero up there. We love you!
The Lewis Family
Mike, Melanie, Emily and Bobby

July 7, 2013

I clearly remember James as a very tall most friendly man with that cute little chub baby-face while working at Trader Jacks , a restaurant that is no longer there in the down town Mystic area . After ending my shift we would all get together for drinks and fun and I always remember you tagging along with all of us... As I look back at my days working in down town I can truly say I have met so many amazing people , you being one of them for sure. Rest in peace James Henry .... you have truly lived a wonderful life and I'm so happy to have crossed paths with you .... To your family please let me know when they plan to have something for him in down town mystic ... I would love to be there for all of you . Shanin Masucci

July 7, 2013

My sincere condolences. May your family find comfort in knowing that God invites you to look to Him for comfort at this difficult time. 1 Peter 5:6,7

J Ferraro

July 7, 2013

Mystic has lost a great man. Big character, big laugh and a big heart. Sending prayers and thoughts to his friends, family and all who had had the good fortune of knowing him.

Bruce Benjamin

July 7, 2013

sorry to hear James passed away.
He was a great lovely person and of course a U.S Marine - also has black belt karate. Dr Owsley hired him as dormitory supervisor at MOS to handle us as a man like an army. He will be missed. I like him so much he was so respectful.

Dan Jones

July 7, 2013

My condulances to family and friends,
A friend though the decades who I loved.
He will be missed.
Dan Jones
AKA Simmons/Morolda Family

July 7, 2013

i am so sorry to hear of James passing. I knew him awhile back. Each time we would run into each other it was like old times. He will be truly missed.
Pam Guidera

July 7, 2013

James was a fixture in Mystic throughout the 70's and 80's. A larger than life figure with an infectious laugh, a huge heart, and a kind word and good deed for everyone. A fine example of a truly good person. Smooth sailing Pat...

Dawn Jordan-Mershon

July 7, 2013

It is so sad to read of the loss of a true "Mystic Character ".
But it is joyful to remember all the good times, parties, working in the kitchen...decades ago....with Pat.
My condolences to his wife and family.
May you rest in peace and comfort, Mr.P.

July 7, 2013

James led the way for folks like myself, an African American sailor, here in the Hampton Va. area.

Fair Winds,

Jonathan Romero

Peter Fox

July 7, 2013

Sorry to hear about James. I'll never forget the time my brother and I bumped Into James at Foxy's in Jost Van Dyke while sailing the Virgin Islands.

Todd Lester

July 7, 2013

I was very sorry to hear Mr. Patterson passed away. I was a student at MOS (1969-1977) and I remember him coaching me in Pee Wee Basketball. He was a very nice person. I didn't know he had done so many things in his life. I am proud to know him and send my sympathy to his family.

Alicia Fogal

July 7, 2013

Kathleen, Christy, David, Simon & Isabella, I wish I'd had the opportunity to meet James. But I am told by extremely reliable sources that he was kind, generous, nurturing, a super grampa to Simon & Isabella, and a steadfast & loving spouse to Kathleen. (St. James, indeed!) I can't even imagine the grief you all must be feeling. This I know for sure: he will be honored & cherished every time you feel a breeze in your sails & share a special meal together with the people you love. Be well my friends. You are in my heart.

Shawn Arsenault

July 7, 2013

One of the nicest men in the world. A true gentleman. He will be missed by all. So sorry for your loss.

Ivette schermerhorn

July 7, 2013

i remember you of m.o.s and he is very good man. god bless of him and prayer.

Sarah Cahill

July 7, 2013

I will always remember your smiling face in the galley James! The world has lost a great soul.

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