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Jane Ford Obituary

New London - Jane Clare (McDonald) Ford, 96, of New London, died Friday, Oct. 4, 2013, at Greentree Manor in Waterford, surrounded by her loving family.

Jane was born in Lorain, Ohio, Aug. 11, 1917, the daughter of Francis and Mary Agnes (Magner) McDonald. She was the beloved wife of Walter A. Ford, who predeceased her in 2000. Jane and Walter were married 71 years ago in Bronx, N.Y., on Oct. 3, 1942.

Jane attended Yonkers General Hospital School of Nursing where she graduated as a registered nurse in 1940. She worked for many years at New York area hospitals. She left nursing for several years in order to raise her family. Jane and Walter lived in the greater New York City area before moving to Connecticut in the mid 1950s. The family continued to grow, and she and Walter surrounded them with much love and laughter and a strong sense of family. She returned to nursing in the 1970s, where she worked as a nurse supervisor for many years at local area nursing homes in New London County.

Jane was a faithful communicant of St. Joseph Church of New London and was a longtime volunteer for many years in the church rectory. Second only to her love for her faith and family, her greatest happiness was in helping and caring for others. In addition to St. Joseph Church, she volunteered over the years at Lawrence + Memorial Hospital, the New London Soup Kitchen, and New London Senior Center. She was also a longtime member of the Local Chapter of AARP where she served on the health committee.

She is survived and sorely missed by three sons, Jerry Ford and his wife, Barbara, of Waterford, Paul Ford and his wife, Polly, of New London, Robert Ford of Groton; three daughters, Mary Agnes Gibson of Mystic, Annemarie Sheehan and her husband, Jim, of New London, Rosemary Feld and her husband, Paul, of Springfield, Mo.; daughter-in-law, Donna Ford of Waterboro, Maine; nine grandchildren; and eight great-grandchildren.

In addition to her husband, she was predeceased much too soon by her first born son, Walter "Tony" Ford II.; her brother, Bob McDonald (Elsie); sister, Fran Lynch (John).

Special thanks from the family go to Center for Hospice Care and all the staff at Greentree Manor for all the truly loving care and support their mom received.

Her family will receive friends and family from 6 to 8 p.m. Tuesday, Oct. 8, at the Thomas L. Neilan & Sons Funeral Home, 12 Ocean Ave., New London. The funeral procession will assemble at 10 a.m. Wednesday, Oct. 9, at the funeral home and proceed to a Mass of Christian Burial to be celebrated at 11 a.m. at St. Joseph Church, 17 Squire St., New London. Private interment will be in St. Mary Cemetery at a later date.

Memorial contributions may be made to St. Joseph School, New London, or Center for Hospice Care Southeast Connecticut, (www.hospicesect.org).

Condolence messages may be left on Mrs. Ford's memorial page at www.neilanfuneralhome.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Day on Oct. 7, 2013.

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paul ford

October 19, 2013

Luv ya Mom

Mary Ann Grillo

October 18, 2013

To Robert and the Ford family, I am so sorry for your loss. Robert know that I am thinking of you and sending hugs from afar.

JeanC Silverstein

October 9, 2013

My thoughts and Prayers for the family and memory of this lovely lady

Katarzyna Czachor

October 8, 2013

To the Ford family, it was a pleasure to get to know Jane and she was such a sweetheart, she was a lovely lady. I was one of her caregivers for over a year and she always had a sweet smile and kind words. We shared some great conversations. She will be missed by all of us at GTM. I will miss Jane's sweet words and smile. Jane is your special angel watching over her friends and family. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Nancy Smith Cowden

October 8, 2013

Annemarie and Jerry-
My thoughts and prayers are with you on the loss of your mother. You are lucky to have shared all you did with her. May you now find comfort in family and friends.
Nancy Cowden SBHS 73

Kevin Gallerani

October 8, 2013

Dear Jerry, Barbara and Family,
Although I did not know you Mother Jerry, I am very sorry for your loss and all the sad feelings that you are induring at this time.
My condolences to you and Barbara.
Sincerely,
Kevin Gallerani

October 8, 2013

Jerry, Barbara and Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with your entire family. Mrs. Ford was a great lady who is most definitely looking down from Heaven.
Dave, Tricia and DJ Dittman

October 7, 2013

Mary Agnes, We are sorry for your loss of Mom. Our thoughts are with you. Ed&Gloria SBHS '64

October 7, 2013

Dear Jerry & Family, I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your mom. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. May she rest in peace. Mary Shaughnessy DeMaio

Connie Papathanasiou

October 7, 2013

Barbara and family,
It was an extreme honor to get to know Mrs. Ford and her wonderful family. She was always so kind and nice to everyone. She will be greatly missed. Please accept my condolences and may she rest in peace.

Dave Lamoureux

October 7, 2013

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Chuck Hayes

October 7, 2013

Jerry & Barbara-your family is in my prayers.

Richard Perritt

October 7, 2013

Jerry and Family.
It has been said that nurses get to go to the front of the line, so Heaven must have needed nurses on Friday.
So sorry for your loss, I remember your Mom like it was yesterday driving us around when we were kids in her little Saab. Rich Perritt

crystal

October 7, 2013

Mrs. Ford rest in peace my lovely lady. It was a pleasure to get to know you. I will miss your pretty blue eyes and wonderful personality. I'll keep you and your family in my prayers. I love you!

Kerry & Scott Evabs

October 7, 2013

Ann Marie and Jimmie... So sorry for your loss. What a beautiful lady who shared her life with so many... Memories are Forever What a beautiful reunion your parents are having in Heaven.

gina debona/carter

October 7, 2013

anniemarie,so sorry about your mom. u and i used to babysit the lubchansky girls

October 7, 2013

Annemarie, Jim and family, Our deepest sympathy to you with the passing of your Mom.
Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Much love,
Jo Anne Heller Faraci and Family

October 7, 2013

Paul,Polly and family. We love you all and are so sorry for your lose. Your mom was so sweet and kind to all of us.
Love, The Schlenders

Marc Serluca

October 7, 2013

Mary and Family,
I am extremely sorry to hear of your loss. In the many times I had the pleasure to be around your mother, she was always welcoming, gentle, and kind. May fond memories live in your thoughts. God bless.

Jerrilyn

October 7, 2013

Mrs. Ford will be missed greatly by the many people whose lives she touched. The memories of her smiles and soft spoken encouraging words live on. My prayers go out for the family and loved ones.

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