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Joseph Pendleton Obituary

Waterford - Joseph B. Pendleton Jr., 60, of 37 Spithead Road, died unexpectedly early Tuesday morning, May 28, 2013, at his residence.

Joe was born on May 16, 1953, in Westerly, the son of Joseph and Shirley (Regester) Pendleton.

He married the love of his life, Dawn P. Hightower on June 15, 1974, in Waterford, and for almost 39 years they enjoyed a beautiful marriage. Joe loved his siblings very much: sister, Janet Kenyon and husband, Reggi, brother, Michael Pendleton and wife, Regina, sister, Kathleen Woodford and husband, Brian, and brother, Timothy Pendleton and wife, Donna, and children. Joe was especially fond of his two children, Luke J. Pendleton and April S. Baker, as well as April's husband, Phillip, and their baby-Joe's pride and joy, grandson, Connor. He loved and was loved by many other relatives and friends.

Joseph was motivated by his deep love for Jehovah God, and was an active member in the New London Congregation of Jehovah's Witnesses. He was never shy in talking to others about his God, Jehovah. He knew and believed in the promises God made about the resurrection. We can be confident we will see Joe again.

The Memorial Service for Joseph Pendleton, beloved husband, son, brother, father and grandfather, will be held at 2 p.m. Saturday, June 15, 2013, at the Kingdom Hall of Jehovah's Witnesses, 170 Flanders Road, Mystic. The location for a get-together for refreshments following the memorial service will be announced at the Kingdom Hall.

Fulton-Theroux Funeral Home, New London, is handling the arrangements.

Please visit www.fultontherouxnewlondon.com for photos tributes, directions and updated service information.

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Published by The Day on Jun. 2, 2013.

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June 23, 2013

Dear Dawn, April, Luke and family -
Our hearts ache for you and with you at this sad time. We miss our friend Joe. Jehovah will fulfill his resurrection promise and then we will have the joy of seeing Joe again. We are keeping you close in our thoughts and prayers.
Stephen & Nellie

Steve & Nellie Sisk

June 23, 2013

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Steve & Nellie Sisk

June 23, 2013

Will, Heidi & Ashton Hungerford

June 19, 2013

Dawn, words can not express the heartache we feel for you and your family. You and Joe are lovely people and we adore you so much. Joe's faithful service to Jehovah is a testament to his friendship with Jehovah and a wonderful example for us all. We are so grateful for his presence in our lives and eager to see him soon.

Chris & Sandy Neal

June 17, 2013

Dawn, April & Luke - we are so, so sorry for your lose. Joe was such a sweetheart. We have some fond memories of Joe's loving concern for others in the ministry and being recipients of his check-in phone calls. He was genuinely a kind sweet person. He will be greatly missed.

Aliya White

June 15, 2013

My condolence Dawn & to your family. Though we have an amazing hope losses still sting. I pray Jehovah comforts you. Love Aliya

Barbara Savage

June 15, 2013

Dawn
So so sorry you lost your beloved . I know your souls are entwined and he is with you forever

Kathi Woodford

June 14, 2013

Love you Joe

Kimberly Mee

June 13, 2013

Dawn and Family,
Dear friend, I very sorry to hear of this great loss for you. Thank you for the photo journey that gave me a glimpse into your lovely life together. May Jehovah be with you and comfort your hearts.

June 13, 2013

Thank you so much for the pictures of Joe and you and the family, Dawn. I really loved Joe a lot, he always always said something nice to me every time I saw him and I truly look forward to seeing him in the resurrection and seeing him healthy again, full of life and with so much to look forward to. It was hard to think of how sick he was getting and know it was hard on the family at times. Joe really loved his two wonderful children, April and Luke. He was so proud of how Luke had progressed over the years and he told me he wrote him all the time. And I am glad he got to see his first grandchild as well. I pray for you Dawn, it is not easy to have your life change so much! But you are strong and with Jehovah, you will keep going, he has you in his "hand", do not let go of it! My heart goes out to you all during this hard time and as the time goes forward, Love you all! sue (marshall)

June 13, 2013

Dear friend Dawn,from us:Maritza,my kids and myself,we are very sorry for your loss,and we extend our sympathy with all the members of your family,the only moments I share with you husband,was enough to understand how polite and good person he was to me,and now is joying the peace and glory of Heaven.
Telmo&Maritza, East Lyme,Ct.

Elfrieda Harvey

June 13, 2013

My dear friend,
Only us Jehovah's people can say it's going to be alright. There will be very Sad Days & Mad Days and latter Happy Days. I will be with you. Please call me 24- 7 when need be.
Your loving Sister~~~~~~Frieda

mariana kriss

June 13, 2013

I am so sorry about joe. I never met him but feel I know him...he and my late dad shared the same birth day...may 16th. what a coincidence. they are both at peace now.

June 13, 2013

Dawn, I am so very sorry to hear of your husbands passing, my deepest condolences to you and the family..

Sue Mead

June 13, 2013

Dawn, I am so very sorry to hear of your husbands passing, my deepest condolences to you and the family..

Sue Mead

kathy Rogowski

June 13, 2013

I am one of andee clauson's best friends..on behalf of him I would like to extend my sympathies and prayers to your family...

Corrine Sisk

June 13, 2013

Dear Dawn, Luke, April, Phil and Connor- I'm so sorry for your loss. Joe was such a kind man, and he loved you all so much. I have so many memories of him telling me jokes and laughing. He always asked me how I was doing. He always called me Corrina. I really loved that. It was always easy to see how much Joe loved you Dawn. I don't ever remember him calling you Dawn, it was always "Hun" or "Dawnie". And he was so proud of both Luke and April. Always remember how much we love him, and how much Jehovah loves him. I look forward to when you will be together again, when there is no more sickness or pain, and these sad feelings are gone. That is going to be a wonderful day.

Cousin Andee

June 13, 2013

Joe, even though our occasions to see each other were few & far in between, I will always remember our conversations about rock bands & the 80's. :) <3

Love You Joe

June 12, 2013

Dear Dawn, I am so sorry that Joe has left you/ us all. I have only known him for a short few years, but that was long enough to see the beautiful person he was inside and out. I will miss him and when we meet again, he will continue to glow with Jehovah's love and favor. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Love,
JoAnn Ellis (New London, CT)

Dawn Pendleton

June 11, 2013

We look forward to the time that God foretells when Joe will be resurrected in good health here on earth. This is promised to us.
I loved him very much and can't wait to see him again.
Love,
Dawn

April Baker

June 11, 2013

I love you dad!

April Baker

June 8, 2013

Dad,
I miss you so much, more than words can express...
Love,
April

Jamie Chambers

June 7, 2013

Dawn,
I am so sorry to hear about Joe. I wish you and your family the best during your difficult time. Please let me know if there is anything I can do.
With love.
Jamie Chambers & family

Craig Welch Jr.

June 5, 2013

Dawn & family. My Thoughts & prayers are with you always...

Krissy Hightower

June 3, 2013

Dawn, Luke, April, Phil and Connor. I am so sorry for your loss. Joe was such a sweet man. He will surely be missed. Soon, we will not have to go through these tragedies. I hope that hope can give you some comfort through the days ahead. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Love you guys!

Kathi Woodford

June 3, 2013

My big brother, I love you so much and miss you. There are so many things that I wish I could say to you. Thank you for always being a good big brother and for caring about me so much. Thank you for all the phone calls just to check in. I will miss that. You will be forever in my thoughts and in my heart. I love you.

Colleen Reed

June 3, 2013

Dear Dawn, Luke, April, Phil and Connor, We are so sorry for your loss. We loved Joe so much. He was such a sweet, sincere person who was always thinking of others. It was hard to see him suffer so much. At least he is not suffering now and we know we'll see him again someday - in perfect health. Can't wait for that day! Until then may fond memories and the comfort of friends help console you.
Love,
Colleen, Joe and Jordan Reed

James Plowden

June 3, 2013

Sorry to here about Joseph,all my brothers want to take this time to said how sorry we are.With all our love and comfort and hope.Our Brother and Friend,also Ruby said Hello.

Tazandra Jacobs

June 2, 2013

I'm sorry for your loss. You're in my thoughts.

Willa Granger

June 2, 2013

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

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