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Mark McDowell Obituary

Waterford - Mark W. McDowell, 56, of Point Comfort, Waterford, died Saturday, Nov. 30, 2013, at Lawrence + Memorial Hospital in New London.

Mr. McDowell was born on March 11, 1957, in Greenfield, Ind., the son of Donald and Margaret (Kelly) McDowell. He honorably served our country in the U.S. Navy. He has been employed for many years as a technical writer for Electric Boat in Groton.

Mr. McDowell is survived by his wife of nearly 30 years, Cathi (Elton) McDowell; brothers, Timothy of Indiana and David of Kentucky; sisters, Margaret Campbell and Mary Nelson, both of Florida; and many nieces and nephews.

He was preceded in death by his parents and his sister, Janette Ehrgott of Florida.

Mr. McDowell loved animals, fishing, hunting, gardening, auto racing, and sports.

To honor Mr. McDowell's wishes, there will be no services held at this time.

Please visit www.fultontherouxnewlondon.com for photos, tributes, and more information.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Boys Town New England, www.boystown.org.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Day on Dec. 3, 2013.

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Jim Witt

July 6, 2014

I was so sad to see this even though I had not seen Mark in 35 years. We were great friends and room mates when were both stationed at New London in the late 70's. We had some great, and sometimes crazy, times together. So sorry to see that he has passed.

So handsome, and so obviously happy...I'll remember you like this for the rest of my life sweetie.

Cathi McDowell

February 6, 2014

I miss you so much sweetie, and love you with all of my heart and soul. I always will. You were quite a man, in a million ways. I was honored to call you my husband. always and forever and forever, your wife Cath

Rickey Blankenship

December 29, 2013

Mark, I've been looking for you ever since you left Phoenix. I have often thought about you and wondered what became of you. I am shocked to find that my old friend is now gone. Rest in peace brother, till we meet again.

Sue Elton

December 28, 2013

Hey Baby.... I was thinking about you today, as I've done every day since we lost you, and I realized that even tho I didn't see you often, you had such an impact on my life, my heart and my soul. The depth of sadness and loss I feel is overwhelming sometimes. There isn't a day that goes by that I don't look at your picture, remembering your voice, your laughter and your sense of humor. I miss you, and I love you. Always, Sue

Sheila Wallace

December 23, 2013

It came as such a shock to learn of Marks passing today. I worked with Mark for many years at EB. He was a great gentle guy with a wonderful sense of humor and a pleasure to work with. I will remember his laughter, big grin and mischievous nature forever. God speed to you Mark. Thanks for the memories. I will miss you. Peace and love to his family.

Gale Hoy

December 15, 2013

Mark was taken way too soon. I had the pleasure of interacting with him at work during my last years at EB. My deepest sympathy goes out to his wife and family members.

John Klinefelter

December 13, 2013

Mark was truly one of the great guys. I worked with Mark for many years and always enjoyed his sense of humor. Through the years we played basketball and golf and drank a few beers together and had many laughs. Mark you will be missed by many but never forgotten. Rest in Peace. Cathi and Mark's family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Donna and Tom

December 9, 2013

Tom and I will always be grateful that Mark was,and always will be, a part of our lives. Fair winds and following seas,Marky.

Dennis Faulkenberg

December 8, 2013

So sad to hear of Mark's passing. He was such a good guy. I hadn't seen him in so many years, but when we visited at Jan's wake, he was the same as I remember on his summer visits to us on the farm in St. Croix when we were kids.
I"ll never forget all the work my Dad would get Mark to do while he visited, and he always took it in stride. We always swore he'd never want to visit again, but always came back for more. Great memories of a great guy. Prayers for him and all of the family.

Rick Kelly

December 7, 2013

Such a genuine guy! Great sense of humor & someone I didn't want mess with to long. I could always laugh with Mark but at the same time think "this guy is as big as an oak tree! He could snap me like twig!" I knew he wouldn't. We love you Mark & tell your mom&dad &sister we all say hi!

Shaune Harlow

December 7, 2013

Uncle Mark~
I will miss all the fun and laughter, especially the teasing and jabs (all in good fun), and the many stories you brought to our family. Although you were far away in miles, you always felt close in heart. You are loved and will be dearly missed.
Shaune

Emily McDowell

December 7, 2013

I love you and miss you and can't wait until we can all see you again! Give mom a huge hug for me!

December 7, 2013

Cathi, Tim, Peg, Mary, David, Rick (Jan), and families, I am sorry for the loss of your beloved brother. Please know that my mom, your cousin, Ida Mae, sends her biggest hugs and warm sympathy your way. I can't get over just how much Mark resembles Aunt Margaret. I can only imagine the hugs and pinches on the cheek from Aunt Anna and Mamaw as Mark is reunited with his loved ones in heaven!
Eternal rest, grant to him, O, Lord, and let the perpetual light shine upon him. May he rest in peace. May his soul and the souls of all the faithful departed, through the mercy of God, rest in peace. Amen.

Barb & Rod Spence

December 6, 2013

Our sympathy to Cathi and all of the McDowell family. Bless you; so many taken so early.

Tara Bishop

December 6, 2013

I did not know Mark well, except for fuzzy memories at Kelly reunions when I was a kid at the St. Croix hall. But one look at his face and it brings thoughts of Aunt Margaret, his mother, and Mom Kelly, whom he looks so much like! May he enjoy a family reunion in heaven with them all, full of laughter and music and peace. My sympathy iand prayers are with all the family. --Tara LaGrange Bishop (granddaughter of Mark's Aunt Blanch)

Linda Lowe

December 6, 2013

Sending our love and sympathy, Steve and Linda Lowe

December 6, 2013

i am going to miss his great laugh Mark was a great guy and I will always remember him that way. I will think of you Mark always on the back nine buddy rest in comfort and peace you did a great job hear.

Mark Moore

December 6, 2013

Didn't get a chance to see you very much during the years but when we did it was to old guys that could still laugh about many good and funny times in our life. I was able to keep up a little through peg and larry, but not enough. God bless you and all of your family

Peg

December 6, 2013

Dear Mark,

It will never be the same without you around to tease us and make us laugh. You were a wonderful brother and I wish you peace & happiness now as you begin your new life in Christ. You know I will always love you, brother, and will always have a void in my heart until we meet again.

December 6, 2013

Will miss all the fun times, you were taken too soon. Love You, Brother Tim

Liz Kuchta

December 6, 2013

Cathi,
We were so saddened to hear of Mark's passing. We will always remember the fun of being neighbors in Niantic and Mark's garden.
Bruce, Liz and Mike Kuchta

Family reunion in Connecticut......

December 5, 2013

Phil Ruggaber

December 5, 2013

I'll miss you Mark. In many ways you filled the roll of older brother and mentor. May you have as much fun in your next life as you did in your former life.

Jeanne Moorton

December 5, 2013

Dear Cathi & Family, I will always remember Mark as a brilliant, extremely witty co-worker who generously shared his vast knowledge of submarines & technical writing. I miss him terribly & am keeping him & you in my prayers. With Deepest Sympathy, Jeanne

Mark & Cathi, D403 Christmas Party 2010

Jeanne Moorton

December 5, 2013

December 5, 2013

Mark,

Truly proud to call you my brother. You will be missed greatly. Love you!

David

Sand and Mark...staying warm in PA in August.

December 4, 2013

Mark and Sand...keeping warm at PA reunion.

December 4, 2013

December 4, 2013

I'll miss trading insults with Mark. Man, was he good! He and I started close to the same time at EB--a lot of water under the bridge! Good bye Mark, and Peace to all.
Chris Atwood

John Suarez

December 4, 2013

I first met Mark one day in the punch clock line. I have never met a funnier or nicer person. He will be missed. He was one of the most professional people I have ever met. My thoughts and prayers are with you good folks.

Brian Hague

December 4, 2013

Gonna miss ya Mark. The best next store neighbor anyone could ever have. I'll always picture you out on the porch with your straw hat on, homemade ice tea and listening to the Limey on the radio.

Into the sunset

Chris Barrett

December 3, 2013

Catching the big one

Chris Barrett

December 3, 2013

Amelia's first fish thanks to Uncle Mark

Chris Barrett

December 3, 2013

Steamtown with Uncle Mark

Chris Barrett

December 3, 2013

Amelia and Eli at Bushkill Falls with their Uncle Mark

Chris Barrett

December 3, 2013

Amelia and Eli play with their Uncle Mark

Chris Barrett

December 3, 2013

Out Fishing with Uncle Mark

Chris Barrett

December 3, 2013

Family Reunion with Sisters-in-Law Sandy, Sue, and Nephew Chris' Family

Chris Barrett

December 3, 2013

Amelia and Eli with their Uncle Mark

Chris Barrett

December 3, 2013

My Uncle Mark was an amazing uncle! My childhood was greatly enriched by having him be a key part of it. I'm so glad that my own kids were able to also have the pleasure of knowing this great man as their own Uncle Mark.

Melissa Barrett

December 3, 2013

Thanks for being an awesome Uncle! I've always loved your easy going personality and sense of humor. You were always a hoot to be with. Thanks for teaching my children how to fish. That's something they'll enjoy for a lifetime. We'll always think of you with fond memories. :o)

Sandra Barrett

December 3, 2013

You were the best brother-in-law anyone could ever wish to have. Thank you Mark for 30+ years of good times and laughter. I love you and will miss you so much!

Rich

December 3, 2013

Family of Mark McDowell, I had the pleasure of work along side Mark at EB, great guy he will be missed.

Warren Mogan

December 3, 2013

Condolences to Mark's family. Mark will be missed by his co-workers and friends. Mark and I spent many years playing hoops and fishing. I will always remember those times. I'll miss you my friend. Rest peacefully.

(-=< Ray Hamilton >=-)

December 3, 2013

Dear Cathi and the entire McDowell Family,

I've worked with Mark, off ‘n' on over many years, since he first started at EB and for a while when he used to write for me. We had a terrific working relationship, because his support was not only of excellent quality, but was with an attitude t'match. Gonna definitely miss ‘im! Understanding the hole left behind, regardless the inevitability or forewarning, pray this helps some wee bit...to allow...enable…the grief! So truly sorry to hear about Mark. At least now he's at peace with our Lord … definitely keepin' y'all in my prayers!

When my mother died, even after a years-long battle with cancer, I was shattered by the loss…inconsolable…she was my mentor! I like to think that I got my character from my father, but my mind and its capacity from m'dear sainted mother!!! BUT, "If your faith assures you she's in heaven, then what are the tears all about?!?" I hold eternity dearly close...a cherished, hard-won prize...but, in the interim, that answer lies below.

SELFISH TEARS
(I Eulogize My Beloved Mother - March, 1989)

Today we cry...must admit they're selfish tears.
You see...our faith assures your journey's done.
But it's not for you we mourn, at all, my dear;
It's for those of us you've left behind...alone!!!

We share your joy...share your happiness at rest,
Your painful fears now for forever stilled.
You've fought the good fight, passed the final test,
But you've left behind a hole that can't be filled!!!

So, until we each rejoin you some someday,
And, while your memory buoys us through those years,
We'll miss you...but continue on our way,
And, from time to time, we'll cry our selfish tears!!!

Ray Hamilton (c) March 19, 1989

My fond, sincerest condolences and prayers,

Gina Lamperelli

December 3, 2013

I was saddened to hear of Mark's passing. He was a great person and always greeted me with a smile. You will be greatly missed! Rest in peace my friend.

Joie, Erica and Emiley Darrow

December 3, 2013

Too young too soon!! May you rest in eternal peace and comfort Mark!! Our deepest condolences reach out to Cathi and the rest of your family!! Love Always!!

Sandy & Bob Tackett

December 3, 2013

“If my ship sails from sight, it doesn't mean my journey ends, it simply means the river bends.”

Cathi and family, We were so deeply saddened to hear of Marks passing. Even though we are cousins - I first met Mark at the Kelly Family Reunion in St. Croix. He was such a good and genuine person. So nice and funny. I know Heaven was glad to welcome him and he is now watching from above. Our prayers are with you for support and strength in this sorrowful time.

Wayne

December 3, 2013

So many years ago we hunted and fished the preserves, lakes, and ponds together.
Be at peace.

Sue Elton

December 3, 2013

Hey, Baby....I think of you every day, and I will miss you forever. Sue (sister-in-law)

Elizabeth Shaw

December 3, 2013

For whatever reason, we have had a wonderful friend taken from us all too soon. Mark was so instrumental in the shaping of the lives of our two youngest boys, now men, and for that we are eternally grateful. He will be missed but loved and always remembered as the gentle giant that he was.

Shannon Craig

December 3, 2013

Mark was a wonderful person and a true spirit. I am so grateful to have been given the opportunity to call him our friend. He loved and supported Michaela as a baby and we are forever grateful to all of his kindness. We will miss Mark but will hold fond memories of him in our hearts forever. Much love to his wonderful wife Cath!! Stephen, Shannon and Michaela

December 3, 2013

Mark was a wonderful person! I am so grateful to have known him and grateful for the love and support he gave daily to Michaela when she was a baby!! We will miss him but he will forever be in our hearts with so many fond memories. Love Shannon, Steve and Michaela

Tim and Rosemary Kesling

December 3, 2013

I will remember Mark as a good coworker and his wry sense of humor. We pray for his peaceful and pain free rest, and for the comfort of his wife Cathi and the rest of their family.

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