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Melvin Carson Obituary
Mel was born in New London, on June 28, 1937, the son of Melvin Carson and Alice (McDonald) Carson. Mel attended New London High School, where he met his wife, Nancy I. (Silva) Carson, who passed away in December 2008. They were married on Valentine's Day, 1959.
Mel had an honorable career of service to his community and country. In 1958, as an enlisted sailor in the Navy, he was a crew member aboard the USS Nautilus during its historic first submerged voyage to the North Pole. From 1970 to 1981, Mel served the Quaker Hill Fire Dept., ultimately becoming fire chief. Mel had distinguished careers as a draftsman at Electric Boat and sales manager for Shipman's Fire Equipment Co. Even in retirement, Mel continued to serve his community as fire commissioner for the Town of Waterford.
As sad as his passing is, his family takes comfort in knowing that Mel lived a full and happy life. In 1993, Mel realized his lifelong dream of owning a restaurant when he opened Mel's Place, which continues to be a local favorite in Quaker Hill. He captained a friend's ship all the way from the Bahamas to Connecticut. He spent every day surrounded by his friends and family, and he continued his lifelong hobbies of fishing and skiing until the end.
Mel was predeceased byhis wife, Nancy, and his sister, Joan Carson Toscano.
He is survived by his son and daughter-in-law, David and Kathie Carson; his daughter, Debbie Schildt; and his grandchildren, Christopher E. Schildt, Daniel Schildt, Alyssa Carson, and Heather Carson. Mel is also survived by four brothers-in-law, Bill Silva, Bernard Devine, Don Brown, and Sam Toscano; as well as several nieces and nephews.
A funeral service will be held at 3 p.m. on Friday, Oct 25, at the Quaker Hill Fire Department, 17 Old Colchester Road, Quaker Hill. A celebration of his life will immediately follow the service.
Donations in his memory may be made to the Quaker Hill Fire Department.
The Impellitteri-Malia Funeral Home, 84 Montuak Ave., New London, has been entrusted with his care.
To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.
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Dave Fairman
July 30, 2025
Rest in Peace Mel
November 12, 2013
SO MANY memories......boating, (trying) helping out in the kitchen Friday nights Mel's chowder he made for many parties then finally taught Lenny how to make it! Always helping, how lucky for us to have had him in our lives. Hope your catching some big fishes! Love , judy
David & Michele
November 12, 2013
Miss you, but know you will always be in his head while shooting ?
November 8, 2013
Marvelous, My buddy. I know you are just a sliver beyond sight.Finally found your star in the sky it was worth the wait. I crossed the Niantic bridge and looked out at the beautiful sound, and of course you popped right into my mind. With out a thought I smiled and high fived you cause I know you were there with me . I love you.
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November 8, 2013
Thanks Mel for all the great things you and Nancy did for me and my wife while we were struggling. We will never forget either of you. We know your kindness has been passed on to your children.
R I P my friends.
Love Pat and Bill (or Billy as you called me)
Janet York
November 7, 2013
Mel,I didn't know you very well,but I do know you raised loving,caring children!I know that you will be missed by many people,you touched so many lives.rest in peace
Amanda Ewoldt
November 7, 2013
My deepest condolences for the entire family. I did not know him very well but I only ever heard wonderful things about him.
peggy Manley
November 7, 2013
God only takes the BEST...
Peggy Manley
November 7, 2013
My deepest sympathy to Uncle Mels Family, he was a funny man that could always make me laugh and brought smiles to all that new him, I will never forget your awesome clam chowder!
Charlie Rolls
November 7, 2013
I would just like to say it was a pleasure being a friend and enjoying a lot a great times .
Debbie
November 7, 2013
Dad, My heart is broken, I miss you terribly. You taught me to be kind to others and to help those in need. You guided me through life without negativity but with love and patience, letting me make my own mistakes and then make them right. You taught me how to be a loving daughter, sister, mother and friend. The most important thing I learned was to be happy and live life. I hope I can continue your legacy as you would want me to. You were and always will be my Hero!!
Paul Toscano & Sam
November 6, 2013
Dear Debbie,David & family,
I am sorry to hear about uncle Mel. He was such a nice and caring man.Reading what people have said about him,"always smiling and kind to others" reminds me of my mom. I haven't seen him in a while but he will always be in my heart. I'm glad to hear he died peacefully in his home around you guys.May god bless you through this difficult time. Love and miss you...
October 29, 2013
I am so sorry for your loss Debbie. It was truly a pleasure knowing him for the short time that I did. My thoughts are with you and your family. Tina Cygan
Erin Estrella
October 26, 2013
May God bless you all in this time of sadness. Mel will be missed by all he knew.
Sharyn Benjamin
October 26, 2013
So sorry to hear of your dad's passing. My thoughts and Prayers are with you!
Holly Kelly
October 25, 2013
To Mel's family,
I was saddened to hear of Mel's passing. He was such a kind and sweet man.
Wrap yourselves in happy memories of him. He will be missed by everyone that knew him.
HAROLD
October 25, 2013
MEL WILL BE MISSED, MAY ALL THE GREAT MEMORIES COMFORT HIS FRIENDS AND FAMILIES.
Nadine K
October 25, 2013
Melvin, your presence was always like a ray of sunshine with bubbles. There were giggles in your voice. Somehow you touched the lives of all who knew you in some special way; like you bestowed an individual gift by simply being yourself. I never got to tell you how grateful I am to have received mine,but I'm sure you knew it already. Good Journey to you...
My Deepest Sympathies To All For The Loss Of A Wonderful Man, May You Smile With Thoughts Of Him...
Bill & Barb Schildt
October 24, 2013
We will miss you Mel, very much. Our trip from Washington, was great, but not as much as our time with you. We can still taste the great lobster you and Debbie fix for us west coast people. If you run into our Billy.....he loves fishing.
Robin Guiney
October 24, 2013
So sorry for the loss of a great man.I admired him dearly.
Christopher M. Schildt
October 24, 2013
"I know you'll grieve and wish I was still here.
I am here, in the memories you hold dear.
Remember how much I love you, and know I took your love with me.
I did not wish for you to cry, nor feel sad for me.
My pain is gone, and I am Free!"
With deepest sympathy...
Tina
October 24, 2013
My deepest sympathy to your family. Mel touched my heart the moment I met him..
Georgie Schildt
October 24, 2013
My deepest sympathy to Debbie and the entire family. I'm sending a smile, my love & prayers. Mel is with Nancy and Archie now, and I hear the fishing is great in heaven.
Mary (Hansford) Stoick
October 23, 2013
David,Kathy,Deb,and all of the children I am so sorry to learn of Mel's passing. So sorry for your loss.
Vicki (Muscarella) Strickland
October 23, 2013
Deb, David and families,
I am so sorry for your loss. Mel was always so nice and always smiling. May you keep your memories close to your heart. He will be missed!!
Daniel Hester
October 23, 2013
My Condolences.
Sandy Niedojadlo
October 23, 2013
To David, Kathy, Debbie and children. Mel was quite a character. He and my dad, Howie, and the rest of the Quaker Hill gang had some great times. May all the memories you have today comfort you along this road of sadness.
All my best, Sandy Lathrop Niedojadlo
Eddie Fontaine
October 23, 2013
David,Kathy and family, my condolences and best regards for the loss of your dad. almost every visit back there started at Mel's...will miss his smile and playing pool against him, don't think i ever won. take care
D W
October 23, 2013
Mel, what a great person and friend of 40+ years. He was always laughing, always giving and always there when I needed him. He will always be a special, special person to me and my family. God Speed Mel Carson, God Speed.
Sheila Wallace
October 23, 2013
My sincere condolences to Debbie, David and your families. The world has lost a kind wonderful soul with Mel's passing. He is now fishing with the Angels and Archie for eternity. I will remember his smile and how "he did it his way". It was an honor to have him as a friend. I will miss him and hold him in my heart forever. May your happy memories bring you comfort and peace.
Sean Coleman
October 23, 2013
Our deepest sympathies to all family and friends of Mel. The staff at Grossman's Seafood will greatly miss seeing him weekly and talking about the fishing/skiing trips he took. I had the pleasure of fishing with Mel once and what a blast that was. It actually cracked me up. He was fishing from the captains chair out of the starboard side window..
Mary Devine
October 23, 2013
Chris, Danny, Alyssa, & Heather,
My deepest sympathy on the passing of Pa. He was a very special Uncle. all my love,mary
Mary Devine
October 23, 2013
Debbie & David,
My deepest sympathy, uncle Mel was certainly one of a kind! Many fond memories to hold with us. All my love
Chappy Chapman
October 23, 2013
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Joanna Hansen
October 23, 2013
Debbie, my heart goes out to you and your family. If there is anything I can do for you , please let me know
Gerald Maranda
October 23, 2013
My sincere sympathy is sent to the Carson family.
Mel and I went to hihg school together and shared many good times together.
I have not seen him in years, but see by his obituary that he was the great person, throught his life, that I knew in high school.
May our God welcome him in peace.
Jerry Maranda
Class of 1955
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