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Paul Feeney Obituary
Born in White Plains, N.Y., he was the son of the late Paul J. Feeney Sr. and Mary (Munley) Feeney. Paul moved to Westport in 1976 and was a 1983 graduate of Staples High School. He attended Rensselaer Polytechnic Institute and later graduated from the University of Connecticut.
He was a resident of Stonington since 2004, previously residing in Groton for many years. Paul was formerly employed with Pfizer from 1993 to 2007 in various positions. Mr. Feeney was an assistant instructor at Yamashita International Karate Mystic Dojo. He was a highly respected instructor, excellent with children and adults of all ages. He joined the dojo in January 2004, received his 1st-degree black belt in 2008 and received his 2nd-degree black belt in 2011. He will be sadly missed by the dojo family.
Paul was also an avid motorcycle enthusiast and thoroughly enjoyed riding his Harley year round. He also loved to cook.
In addition to his wife, he leaves three sons, Ryan, Conor and Aidan Feeney, all of Stonington.
His sons were his greatest sense of pride and joy. He was an active participant in their scouting experiences, having served as den leader, cubmaster, merit badge counselor and committee member while his sons belonged to Pack 33 Groton, Pack 37 Stonington and Troop 17 Groton.
All three boys were also black belts-junior black belts with Groton Parks and Recreation, a common experience they shared which was a powerful uniting force not to be forgotten.
Outside of scouting and karate, he attended his son's football games, track events, band concerts and numerous other activities.
He also leaves behind a sister, Mary Frances Stevenson and brother-in-law, David, of Charleston, S.C.; two nieces, Katharine and Elaine Stevenson of Charleston, S.C.; his in-laws, Patrick and Maria Fitzpatrick of Trumbull; and sister-in-law, Hilary Fitzpatrick of Fairfield.
He was predeceased by his brother, Michael.
His family will receive friends from 5 to 8 p.m. Monday, April 15, at the Mystic Funeral Home, Route 1, Mystic (51 Williams Ave.) A funeral Mass will be celebrated at 11 a.m. Tuesday, at Sacred Heart Church, 56 Sacred Heart Drive, Groton. Burial will be private in Westport.
In lieu of flowers, donations in his memory may be made to Paul Feeney Troop 17G Scholarship Fund, c/o Chelsea Groton, P.O. Box 11, North Stonington, CT 06359.
Please visit www.mysticfuneralhome.com to leave an online message of condolence.
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Memories and Condolences
for Paul Feeney
Ramona
September 7, 2021
Inspired to look up an old friend, I discovered that Paul passed on eight years ago. I´m saddened by this news as he and I were both coworkers and close friends many years ago and lost touch. He was a wonderful person, kind and free spirited. He made me laugh and I felt at peace, at home and relaxed. Paul was very deep, very sensitive and with his brilliant mind, a kind and gentle soul. He was one-of-a-kind and brought love and peace to my life. He will be missed and remains within my heart and mind.
Dennis and Gail DiMarco
April 28, 2013
Valerie and RCA boys, Gail and I were shocked to hear of Paul's passing, our deepest condolences. He was a terrific,
interesting guy. We regret very much that we just heard today. Please forgive us for not being there. Love,
April 23, 2013
Mr Feeney was a kind, caring mentor for my children at the dojo. We liked and respected him so much. He always made us laugh with his witty sense of humor! Its hard to have him gone. Much love and many prayers that the Lord will guide Valerie, the boys and his entire family through such a difficult time. Love from the Jansen family
April 20, 2013
Valerie, I am so saddened bt Paul's death. I was out of town at the time of his funeral; I would have been there. My heartfelt sympathy to you and the boys. I loved Paul; he was a good friend.
Joan McLaughlin
vicki gallant russells ribs
April 16, 2013
Valerie and boys- I am shocked and saddened to hear of Paul's passing.He was such a kind, caring and thoughtful man. All of you were always so much fun at Russell's Ribs. We thorough;y enjoyed your visits and chatting. I will always cherish the family time we had with all of you. Our thoughts and prayers are with you . With Affection, Vicki and Russell's Ribs - formerly
Carole Nossek
April 16, 2013
Valerie and boys,
We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
The Nossek family
Christian Cloutier
April 16, 2013
Feeney Family,
We offer our prayers in your time of loss. The Dojo will never be the same without Mr. Feeney. He will be missed greatly.
Christian Cloutier and Family
April 16, 2013
We are sorry for your lost. Our prayers and thoughts are with you on this day. From the Schramm family.
Samrat Patel
April 15, 2013
You made every afternoon I spent at the dojo a great one. I truly am heartbroken not to see you again, but RIP and my best goes out to the Feeney family.
Mary Pratt
April 15, 2013
Val, Ryan, Conor & Aiden,
"It's the little things, the small, everyday occurrences that you'll remember. The laughs, the stories, the smiles. And even though it seems like you can never recover from your loss, it is these very memories that will help push the pain away and bring back the smiles."
I am so grateful I got to see him last month at the Mystic Irish Parade and got one last huge hug from him.
Paul brought so many happy moments in our life and left us with a treasure trove of memories. We will never be able to forget him. We are praying for you in this difficult time.
~The Pratt Family
April 15, 2013
Valerie,
I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. My prayers are with you and your family at this time.
Carol Martins, Westerly
Tami Kersteter
April 15, 2013
You will be missed by all at somewhere in time ... Our heartfelt condolences to your family rest in peace Paul .
Cody Kersteter
April 15, 2013
Rest in peace sempi Feeney your presence will be deeply missed by your dojo family
Everett Sussman
April 14, 2013
Memories of happy times at Staples live on. My condolences to his loving family.
Ethan Gallogly
April 14, 2013
Paul was a high-school buddy and great friend. I have morned the loss of his brother Michael for many years and am deeply saddened now to have lost Paul too. My heart goes out to his extended family. Paul, I will miss you, your humor, and your spirit.
ian griswold
April 14, 2013
Paul gave me my first job out of college, 1996 at Pfizer. He went out of his way to try and make this southern boy comfortable in New England.
I'm sorry and saddened to hear of his early passing. Condolences to his family.
--Ian
Patrick Callan
April 14, 2013
Dear Valerie, Ryan, Connor and Aiden,
I am so sorry for your loss, he was a great friend. I will miss his wit and his charm at the dojo.
Deepest sympathy,
Patrick
Valerie and Conor Feeney in China
Feng Xue Sure
April 14, 2013
I met Paul at a very early morning picking me up to go to China with his son, Conor. He is such a great and down-to-earth gentleman. He is definitely missed by many people around him. Please accept my deepest condolence, Valerie, Ryan, Conor and Aidan!
April 14, 2013
Valerie, I am so sorry to hear of your loss.
Terry Klaben
Patricia Sonnone
April 14, 2013
Very sorry to learn of the death of such a young man....a dear husband and father.
Paul and his wife Valerie were my school parents at Sacred Heart.
I pray for Valerie and boys:Ryan,Connor and Aiden,that God will give them the
strength to get through this terrible
loss.
My sincere condolences to the family
and my prayers for the peaceful repose
of Paul's soul.
Kristin LaFemina
April 14, 2013
Valerie, *Ryan*, Conor*, Aidan* and families, so sorry to hear this news. You are all in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. *Miss L.*
April 14, 2013
he has a face of a very loving father.feeling so sad for his sons and wife,God has a way.Be in peace Mr.Feeney. garry in new london
April 14, 2013
I'll be keeping you and your family in my prayers. So sad to read of your loss.
Mary Brailey
Kilcoyne Family
April 13, 2013
We are very sorry for your loss, we keep you in our thoughts and prayers in this time of deep sorrow
Kris Fitzpatrick
April 13, 2013
We are so very sorry for your loss. Keeping the family in our thoughts and prayers.
April 13, 2013
Dear Valerie,
I'm so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Margie Buonanno
April 12, 2013
I am so sorry for the loss of your loved one. Please find peace and comfort in Psalms 65:2.
Gerard Mills
April 12, 2013
My condolences to the Feeney Family.
I have fond memories of Scouting and camping with Paul. He always made me laugh.I am deeply saddened. Again, my condolences.
Williams
April 12, 2013
Please accept our condolences on the loss of your love one. May God who see your tears and pain comfort your family at this difficult time. I hope the words mentioned at 2 Thessalonians 2:16,17 offer some comfort.
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