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Paul Tranchida Obituary

Groton - Paul Anthony Tranchida Sr., 97, of Groton, died peacefully with family at his side early Saturday, April 6, 2013, after a brief stay at The Westerly Hospital.

Paul married Lucia "Lucy" Concetta Fazzina on Sept. 25, 1937, and they spent the next 75 years creating and enjoying their family together. Lucy survives him. They have been blessed to live together in their home until Paul's passing.

Paul was born on July 20, 1915, at home in what was known as "the Fort" section of New London, to Vito and Catherina (Bonnano) Tranchida. Paul was part of the generation most affected by the Great Depression and as the eldest of eight children, he was taken out of school in the eighth grade to work alongside his father on a Works Progress Administration project so he could help support the family. As a teen he also worked with the Civil Conservation Corps on projects in southeastern Connecticut, including the sea wall at Rocky Neck State Park, and on Fishers Island, N.Y.

Paul worked in the foundry at Electric Boat in Groton for 40 years where he trained many a foundryman in his capacity as a master molder. In his retirement, he often spoke proudly of being selected to make the torpedo tube doors of the USS Nautilus, the nation's first nuclear powered submarine.

"Those are my doors," he said many times in a prideful, though not boastful, way. Paul was honored to be included in the June 2012 commemoration of the 60th anniversary of the keel laying of the Nautilus, where he was introduced alongside former executives of the company and was presented with a Nautilus cap.

Paul and Lucy enjoyed their retirement years, traveling to see family in Sicily and to many other locations in Europe and across the U.S. He bowled and golfed with the EB retiree leagues, preferring to walk the course even at the age of 90. He was a member of the Shennecossett Golf Club, the Groton Senior Center, and the Groton Lodge of Elks.

But most of all he liked to sit around the table when family visited.

"Let's have a bite" he'd say soon after any visitor arrived. He was a humble man of few words, with a warm smile and a hearty laugh. He was never comfortable as the center of attention, preferring to watch from the side as his family enjoyed one another's company. Paul's grandchildren were fortunate to hear the stories of his time spent helping his father, who fished out of New London, of life during the Depression and World War II, and his eyewitness accounts of the 1938 Hurricane, which he and Lucy weathered during their first year of marriage. He also loved to talk about playing in the Thanksgiving Day football games between the Shaw Street and Fort neighborhoods in New London. Paul attended as many of his grandchildren's games as he could, and climbed the bleachers at Stonington High School into his 90s to watch his two youngest grandsons play football.

In addition to his wife, Paul is survived by three sons and their wives, Paul A. Jr. and Cathy of Ledyard and Bedford Hills, N.Y., and their children, Shainna (Bill) and Micha; Ronald T. and Karen of North Salem, N.Y., and their children, Rob (Ali), Jamie, Ryan and Jesse; and David V. and Pamela of Pawcatuck, and their children, Adam and Michael. He also is survived by his great-granddaughter, Charlotte Olivia Squires. Additionally, Paul is survived by his sister, Josephine Bruno of Pawcatuck, and his brothers, Tom of New London and Bart of Florida.

He was predeceased by his sister, Rose; and brothers, Joe, Mike, and Dominic.

The family wishes to thank The Westerly Hospital staff, and physicians Steven Yolen, Jeffrey Christian, and Christopher Jalbert, for their skill, compassion and guidance, and all those involved with the creation of the hospice suites at The Westerly Hospital provided by the Alfred M. Roberts Jr. Charitable Foundation and Home & Hospice Care of Rhode Island.

Additionally, the family wishes to thank Marcella Cari of Westerly, who provided care in Paul's fmal months and continues to care for Lucy as part of the family.

A Memorial Mass will be celebrated at 11 a.m. on Wednesday, April 10, at Sacred Heart Church, 56 Sacred Heart Drive, Groton. There are no calling hours.

In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to The Westerly Hospital Foundation, the American Cancer Society, or Sacred Heart Church.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Day on Apr. 9, 2013.

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David DeBiasi

April 18, 2013

Sorry to have missed the service. Thinking of you all throughout these days. Hope to see you this summer.

Mark Romano

April 16, 2013

My father was Mario Romano who knew Paul from Fort Trumbull New London. I remember very well the times I spent at Paul's home going with his sons to play at Fort Griswold. I also have very fond memories of eating the wonderful food at Fazzini's (?). Paul was a very kind and soft spoken man. I will never forget the times I spent as a child in the company of his warm family.

Goddaughter, Patti & Husband Al

April 15, 2013

To my Godmother Lucy and your beautiful family

I will always remember the good times we had together visiting each other. My godfather Paul was such a gentle person who loved his family and will be missed by all. I know that your beautiful memories of him will bring you peace and joy.
All our love,

Norm+Janet Johnson

April 12, 2013

My dearest Tranchidas,we are very saddens by the loss of your Dad,Grampa.our thoughts are with your Mom at this point, please Dave give her a hug for Janet and I and tell her how much we grieve for Mr.T's passing.

Linda Cady

April 10, 2013

Dear David and Pam,
So sorry to hear of the loss of a man so integral to your family. How wonderful for you to have so many fond memories and shared moments together.

Catherine Fazzina

April 9, 2013

To every season....may Uncle Paul be greeted by all who passed before him into eternal peace.
Love, your niece Catherine

Meghan Kelly

April 9, 2013

Mr. And Mrs. T, all the rest of the Tranchida Family,
Deeply saddened by your loss. I know your dad and grandpa was a great man. He was lucky to live a long, healthy life and see his grandchildren grow up. I did not know about his work in the Depression Era alphabet agencies. I recently taught my 11th grade classes about the PWA and CCC. Pretty cool to associate a face with the time period. It explains why he was such an appreciative, loving, and dedicated man! They don't make them like that anymore:-) Lucky to have known him. Xo

Lee Wiese

April 9, 2013

Dave, on behalf of the Harris-Warren family, I want to tell you had sad we were to hear about your dad's passing. He truly was so beloved by all who knew him. What wonderful childhood memories Mike and I especially have, and still talk about all the time. I will not be able to make it to the memorial service tomorrow but will fly in Sunday night and hope to see not only your mom, but you and Pam as well. Take care Dave and please know that your dad will remain in our hearts always.
Lee

Morag Morse

April 9, 2013

Dear David, So sorry to read about your dad, he obviously had a wonderful life, my thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.

Katy Grismala

April 9, 2013

Dave and Pam:
We are sorry to learn about the passing of Dave's dad. These times are never easy. The few times I met your Dad it was clear that he was a kind man and proud of his son and grand son's. Although I am certain you will miss him you will forever have fond and loving memories of a life well lived and lessons to pass on to your sons and their families. Our thoughts are with you.

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