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Robert Smith Obituary

New London - Robert "Bob" William Smith, 84, of New London, died at home Monday, Aug. 12, 2013, after defying the odds since he was diagnosed with a serious medical condition five years ago.

He was born in Hartford, March 13, 1929, the son of William P. and Anna (Klocker) Smith. Bob was the husband of Mary Zita (Flaherty) Smith whom he married on Feb. 19, 1955, at St. Mary's Star of the Sea Church.

Bob was a graduate of the former Chapman Technical High School in New London. He served in the U.S. Army during the Korean War. Bob retired after 49 years with Electric Boat Company in Groton where he had been employed as a senior designer. He was a communicant of St. Joseph Church in New London.

Bob loved living along the shoreline and the city of New London, which he supported through his involvement with a number of local community organizations. He and his wife Zita were often spotted at downtown social and cultural events, which included watching Sailfest fireworks as close as possible. Bob spent many happy years sailing and on the beaches of the Thames Yacht Club, Guthrie Beach and Osprey Beach Club. Skiing was also a very important part of Bob's life which he enjoyed for over 40 years. He was an avid supporter of his children's and grandchildren's activities attending countless events up until this spring.

In addition to his wife, he is survived by three sons, Robert of Los Angeles, Calif., David and his wife, Giselle (Grossi), of LaVerne, Calif., Steven and his wife, Karen (Kiely), of New London; four daughters, Nancy Cowden of Waterford, Susan and her fiancé, Patrick Keating, of New London, Maureen Petersen and her husband, Gary, of Sandy, Utah, and Carolyn Ryan and her husband, Barry (Hubba), of Noank. He has a sister, Dorothy Sahanen and her husband, Oscar, of Groton; 12 grandchildren, Nanette, Jillian, Logan, Gabrielle, Sierra, Christina, Kiely, Emily, Nora, Raymond, Casey and Teddy; great-grandchildren, Paytin and Kaylee; as well as a large extended, loving family.

He was predeceased by his grandson, Hayden Keating.

The funeral will assemble at 10:15 a.m. Monday, Aug. 19, 2013, at the Thomas L. Neilan & Sons Funeral Home, 12 Ocean Ave., New London, and proceed to a Mass of Christian Burial to be celebrated at 11 a.m. in St. Joseph Church. Interment will follow in St. Mary Cemetery. Calling hours are from 4 to 7 p.m. Sunday.

Memorial contributions may be made to either the Center for Hospice Care; the St. Joseph School Endowment Fund; or to Catholic Charities.

Condolence messages may be left on Bob's memory page at www.neilanfuneralhome.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Day on Aug. 16, 2013.

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September 9, 2013

THE WORLD HAS LOST a GOOD MAN HE WAS a
GENTLEMAN AT ALL TIMES. HE HAD A GOOD
LIFE AND A GOOD WIFE. SORRY FOR LOSS
JOHN GRAZIANO

Daniel Pawlak

August 24, 2013

Sorry to hear about the loss of your Dad. May he rest in peace and God Bless your entire family.

Patricia Leroy

August 18, 2013

Dear Zita and the entire Smith Family,

What a blessing you are to each other. To have loved Bob and to have him love you back is the gift that counts in the end. May these memories of love bring you all some comfort.

With deepest condolences,
Patricia Keefe Leroy

Maureen Brigham

August 18, 2013

Bob was a great man who always treated us like one of the family. I am sorry we won't be able to lay him to rest tomorrow as we are in New Hampshire camping. Prayers will continue your families way at this sad time. Love The Brigham Family

Virginia Olsen

August 18, 2013

To the entire Smith Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult
time.

Diane, Tom & Colin Harrington

August 17, 2013

Dear Smith Family,
Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss.
Our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.

Steven Carson

August 17, 2013

My condolence to Bob's family, I had the pleasure of meeting Bob several years ago through the Apprentice Alumni. Enjoyed his stories. He will be missed.

Nancy Burdick

August 17, 2013

Zita and family,so sorry for your loss.

Robert Ridley

August 17, 2013

Bob was a wonderful man and I enjoyed working with him for many years, I will always remember him, my condolences to his wife and children and grandchildren.

August 16, 2013

Zita,

My heart goes out to you and your family. I am so sad to hear of Bob's passing. Bob was a fine gentleman. He was good competition on the tennis court. He will be missed by all who knew him.
My heartfelt sympathy,
Pat Kelly

Ed Joyce

August 16, 2013

Dear Zita and family,
It was my pleasure to have worked with Bob for many years in Structural Design at Electric boat. Gladys and I wish to extend our deepest sympathy to you and the children.

Mary (Joyce) Wagner

August 16, 2013

Dear Zita & Family! So sorry to see this news. God be with all of you at this difficult time, and may Bob Rest In Peace.

Caroline (Traynor) Chapman

August 16, 2013

I am so sorry to hear of Mr. Smiths passing. I have some wonderful memories as I was growing up with his kids. Sending lots of love and prayers to all of the family.

Angela May

August 16, 2013

To the Smith Family- I worked with your father at Electric Boat as well as the Electric Boat Apprentice Alumni Association he will be sadly missed by all, Bob was a great guy and a true gentleman that everyone loved. My deepest condolences on the loss of your husband, father and grandfather.

Michelle Palmieri

August 16, 2013

Nancy, Nanette and Jill, So sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Bill and Kathy Smith

August 16, 2013

To the Smith Family, our thoughts and prayers are with you. We had great times at the TYC. God Bless.

Eileen Lihota

August 16, 2013

Zita..My prayers are with you and your family. God Bless you all... Eileen Lihota..

Derrie Proctor

August 16, 2013

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Mark Ciliano

August 16, 2013

To the Smith Family
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

August 16, 2013

ZITA,OUR PRAYERS AND LOVE TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.WE LOVED BOB KRISTINE & MADELINE RADDATZ

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