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Susan Skewes Obituary

East Lyme - Susan (Morrow) Skewes, 58, beloved wife of Frank A. Skewes Jr., passed away at her home in Niantic on Thursday, June 20, 2013. She died of breast cancer diagnosed 4-1/2 years ago.

Susan was born on Sept. 23, 1954, in Middletown, the daughter of Richard M. and the late Lillian (Scully) Morrow of Deep River. She was married to Frank A. Skewes Jr. on Jan. 19, 1980.

Sue started her nursing career as an LPN and later became a registered nurse through Mohegan Community College in Norwich. She worked for many years at Lawrence + Memorial Hospital and finished her career in the rheumatology clinic at the Backus Outpatient Care Center in Norwich.

While employed at L+M, Sue became the orthopedic nurse clinician and became very interested in wound and skin care while treating her patients. After much research on wound care, she developed skin care protocols that significantly reduced the incidence and severity of bedsores in her patients. She developed a new patient bathing practice that became known as the Bag Bath. The hospital adopted the Bag Bath through the entire hospital.

In concert with Incline Technologies, Sue helped develop a marketable product for the health care industry which is still manufactured and distributed today at Apodan LLC in Denmark. Susan held a U.S. Patent for the Bag Bath as its inventor. As the vice president at Incline Technologies, Sue began a 12-year adventure, with trips to England, Germany and Denmark marketing and supporting Bag Bath.

Sue's hobbies included golf (she had a hole-in-one on hole 12 at Shennecosset Golf Course); boating with cruises to Cuttyhunk, Marthas Vineyard, Nantucket and Provincetown; fishing (she holds the family record for fluke with the catch of a 29-inch monster weighing over 10 pounds); stained glass; gardening; cooking; and reading. She was also a volunteer with the Southeastern Connecticut Community Emergency Response Team (CERT). Susie was a true renaissance woman; she never stopped trying to learn more about life and what it had to offer.

She had a great sense of humor and a way with people that was endearing. She had a large extended family and many lifelong friends. She will be sorely missed by all who knew her and loved her.

She is survived by her huband, Frank; her father, Richard M. Morrow, and stepmother, Jean of Chester; her brother, Rick Morrow and his wife, Lorrie, of Chester; step-brother, Mike Riley of Deep River; step-sister, Patty Riley of Chester; sister-in-law, Beverly DeFord and her husband, Marty, of Niantic; brother-in-law, Alan Skewes and his wife, Sharon, of D'Iberville, Miss.; sister-in law, Jacki Wright and her husband, Ralph, of Morgan, Utah; sister-in law, Elaine Reeves and her husband, Tim, of Las Cruces, N.M.; brother-in-law, Gary Skewes of Washington State; sister-in-law, Jeneen Skewes of Cromwell; 15 nieces and nephews; and 17 grand-nieces and grand-nephews. She also leaves behind her close friends. Robie Grzyb of East Lyme and Debbie Gillig of Niantic.

Susan was predeceased by her mother, Lillian Morrow in 1981.

There are no visiting hours. A celebration of Susan's life is scheduled for 11 a.m. July 5 at the Deep River Congregational Church. Interment will be private.

Thomas L. Neilan & Sons of Niantic are assisting the family with arrangements.

Sincere thanks to Dr. Vanessa Johnson and the entire staff at Oncology and Hematology Associates in New London, and to the Center for Hospice Care of Southeast Connecticut, especially Dawn, Sue's visiting RN.

East Lyme - Susan Morrow Skewes, 58, beloved wife of Frank A. Skewes Jr., passed away at her home in Niantic on Thursday, June 20, 2013. She died of breast cancer diagnosed 4-1/2 years ago.

Susan was born on Sept. 23, 1954, in Middletown, the daughter of Richard M. and the late Lillian (Scully) Morrow of Deep River. She was married to Frank A. Skewes Jr. on Jan. 19, 1980.

Sue started her nursing career as an LPN and later became a registered nurse through Mohegan Community College in Norwich. She worked for many years at Lawrence + Memorial Hospital and finished her career in the rheumatology clinic at the Backus Outpatient Care Center in Norwich.

While employed at L+M, Sue became the orthopedic nurse clinician and became very interested in wound and skin care while treating her patients. After much research on wound care, she developed skin care protocols that significantly reduced the incidence and severity of bedsores in her patients. She developed a new patient bathing practice that became known as the Bag Bath. The hospital adopted the Bag Bath through the entire hospital.

In concert with Incline Technologies, Sue helped develop a marketable product for the health care industry which is still manufactured and distributed today at Apodan LLC in Denmark. Susan held a U.S. Patent for the Bag Bath as its inventor. As the vice president at Incline Technologies, Sue began a 12-year adventure, with trips to England, Germany and Denmark marketing and supporting Bag Bath.

Sue's hobbies included golf (she had a hole-in-one on hole 12 at Shennecosset Golf Course); boating with cruises to Cuttyhunk, Marthas Vineyard, Nantucket and Provincetown; fishing (she holds the family record for fluke with the catch of a 29-inch monster weighing over 10 pounds); stained glass; gardening; cooking; and reading. She was also a volunteer with the Southeastern Connecticut Community Emergency Response Team (CERT). Susie was a true renaissance woman; she never stopped trying to learn more about life and what it had to offer.

She had a great sense of humor and a way with people that was endearing. She had a large extended family and many lifelong friends. She will be sorely missed by all who knew her and loved her.

She is survived by her huband, Frank; her father, Richard M. Morrow, and stepmother, Jean of Chester; her brother, Rick Morrow and his wife, Lorrie, of Chester; step-brother, Mike Riley of Deep River; step-sister, Patty Riley of Chester; sister-in-law, Beverly DeFord and her husband, Marty, of Niantic; brother-in-law, Alan Skewes and his wife, Sharon, of D'Iberville, Miss.; sister-in law, Jacki Wright and her husband, Ralph, of Morgan, Utah; sister-in law, Elaine Reeves and her husband, Tim, of Las Cruces, N.M.; brother-in-law, Gary Skewes of Washington State; sister-in-law, Jeneen Skewes of Cromwell; 15 nieces and nephews; and 17 grand-nieces and grand-nephews. She also leaves behind her close friends. Robie Grzyb of East Lyme and Debbie Gillig of Niantic.

Susan was predeceased by her mother, Lillian Morrow in 1981.

There are no visiting hours. A celebration of Susan's life is scheduled for 11 a.m. July 5 at the Deep River Congregational Church. Interment will be private.

Thomas L. Neilan & Sons of Niantic are assisting the family with arrangements.

Sincere thanks to Dr. Vanessa Johnson and the entire staff at Oncology and Hematology Associates in New London, and to the Center for Hospice Care of Southeast Connecticut, especially Dawn, Sue's visiting RN.

Memorial donations may be made to the Terri Brodeur Breast Cancer Foundation, or the the charity of the donor's choice.

Memorial donations may be made to the Terri Brodeur Breast Cancer Foundation, or the the charity of the donor's choice.

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Published by The Day on Jun. 23, 2013.

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Bernie Drabik Smith

June 17, 2024

So many years have gone by since you left us.. I still think of you often. Rest in peace my dear friend. Bernie

Bernie Drabik ( Medeiros) Smith

June 19, 2023

I will always remember my friend Sue.. how could I forget her? We often laughed so hard at the dumbest things.. she was brilliant, strong, fun and loved us all deeply. Sue.. I still miss you, my dear friend..

Robin Merrill

July 9, 2013

Thank you for bringing joy into my sister's life. You will be missed.

Diane Vigneron

July 5, 2013

Frank-
People touch our lives in many ways and I am gratefu that Sue touched mine. I always looked forward to seeing Sue whenever I visited Debbie & Frank. There was a charm and wit to her that made you smile. Those that make you smile are remembered. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

July 2, 2013

Dear Frank and entire family, I feel so very fortunate to have met and laughed with Susan who was so down to earth holding beauty both inside and out. I will cherish the antique stained window that is and will always be bringing positive light for me and others through my home as long as I am here. These lovely displays of colors bring memories of Sue for me with a renewed reflection of hope, dignity and kindness that Susan represented. Warm Regards, Rebecca Merrill of Old Saybrook,ct

M Davies

July 1, 2013

Frank, I'm very saddened to get the news today of Susan's passing. She was a beautiful lady whose smile and quick wit are most memorable to me. I wish you all the comfort possible at this time.

Robin C. walker

June 30, 2013

So sad to hear of my cousins passing. I will always remember all the good times we had as kids growing up. She wil always b in my heart.

Sheila Wallace

June 30, 2013

Frank
I am so sorry to learn of your wife's passing. May happy memories bring you comfort. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

June 26, 2013

I worked with Sue on the Orthopedic Floor on Bl years ago.
I will always remember her smile and laughter. I remember
when she created the Bed Bath....good for her and the patients.
She will be remembered with many memories by all who knew and loved her.
I hadn't seen her in over 14 years, but I still see that smile and remember how much fun we had in that first waiting room on the floor.
Love,
Debra Chapman
Physical Therapist Assistant

Charlie & Jennifer Crandall

June 26, 2013

Frank,

We are so sorry to hear about Sue's passing. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

June 25, 2013

I worked with Sue for years at L and M Hospital. So sorry about her death. What a fine nurse and good person Nancy Sheehan

Bernie Drabik Smith

June 25, 2013

Frank, I am so sorry to hear this news. To this day I remember the conversations I had with Sue when I worked at Lawrence. She was wonderful. I will remember her always. God bless you with strength and comfort. Many prayers. Bernie Drabik Smith

Dominic Tranchida

June 25, 2013

Frank, I am so sorry to learn of your loss. Sue was a lovely lady, inside and out. I remember her practicing putting and chipping last September at Shenecossett and how happy she was to see you between the 9th and 10th holes on our way by. I know she will be missed. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

sharon damato

June 25, 2013

Frank, We are so very sorry for your loss. Sue was such a lovely, shining individual. Our prayers are with you. Love, Sharon and Jeff Damato (Early Out).

Terry Larsen

June 24, 2013

Frank and Bev,
Devasting news. Sue was a beautiful shining light, super smart and wonderful with patients ...she made me laugh every day I worked with her. My heartfelt thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. Terry

June 24, 2013

Dear Frank and Skewes family,
So sorry to read about Sue. I had not seen her in years but we had many great adventures in the early days at L&M where we first started together in the 70's. Some of my best memories and fun times during that time were due to her great sense of humor and sense of adventure. Regards during this difficult time. Linda Manwaring Griffiths

Gina Lamperelli

June 24, 2013

Frank, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Your wife was a beautiful and talented person. She will be greatly missed by all.

(-=< Ray Hamilton >=-)

June 24, 2013

Dear Frank & the entire Morrow/Skewes family,

Understanding the hole left behind by so loved a wife ‘n' friend, regardless forewarning, pray this helps some wee bit...to allow...enable…the grief! So truly sorry to hear about Susan, Frank. Definitely keepin' ya in our prayers that Christ hold you close in this trying time!

When my mother died, even after a years-long battle with cancer, I was shattered by the loss…inconsolable…she was my mentor! BUT, "If your faith assures you she's in heaven, then what are the tears all about?!?" I hold eternity with God a precious, cherished, and hard-won prize...but...in the interim, the answer lies below.

SELFISH TEARS
(I EULOGIZE MY BELOVED MOTHER - MARCH, 1989)

Today we cry...must admit they're selfish tears.
You see...our faith assures your journey's done.
But it's not for you we mourn, at all, my dear;
It's for those of us you've left behind...alone!!!

We share your joy...share your happiness at rest,
Your painful fears now for forever stilled.
You've fought the good fight, passed the final test,
But you've left behind a hole that can't be filled!!!

So, until we each rejoin you some someday,
And, while your memory buoys us through those years,
We'll miss you...but continue on our way,
And, from time to time, we'll cry our selfish tears!!!

Ray Hamilton (C) March 19, 1989

My sincerest condolences and loving prayers,

Barbara Gomes

June 24, 2013

Frank, Bev & Marty, so sorry to hear of Susie's passing. She was a lovely lady & I enjoyed the few times we were all together in Florida. She gave her sickness a good fight. My sincere condolences to you & your families.

Timothy Rae

June 23, 2013

Frank, I never met Susan but I do recall multiple conversations you had about her
when we worked together.
Having known you, she must have been quite special and unique as were you. Condolences.
Tim and Carol Rae

Andrew Parrella

June 23, 2013

To the family of Sue: Sue was a delightful and caring nurse and person. Always cheerful and willing to help, her happy face and dedication to her patients and the staff at L+M Hospital will always be remembered.

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