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Tommy Gray Obituary
He was born Dec. 19, 1955, the son of Tommy W. Gray Sr. and Lucille (Newbury) Gray of Groton.
He is survived by his life partner, Penny Granger of Alabama; and his two sisters, Daisy L. Pritchard of Florida and Kitty E. Gray of Groton.
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Jay Allen Sanford
April 4, 2013
My best friend for almost half my life, we moved from CT to CA together in the late 70s - my condolences to his loved ones. RIP, old friend -
Laurence Carp
March 28, 2013
May u rest in peace, Tommie. I knew Tommie the past 5 years, as we lived in San Diego and worked at the same company. He was exceptionally intelligent, funny, quick witted, and a great conversationalist. During our years shared, I bought numerous collectibles from him: rare books, illustrations, and paintings. I treasure Tommie and the memories. P J, stay well and take care. Blessings.
Randall Koch
March 26, 2013
I worked with Tommy in San Diego for five years until he and PJ left for Alabama. He was exceptionally bright and we often discussed literature and especially music (a great love of his). I'm sorry to see him leave this world and will remember him well.
Robin Oddo
March 20, 2013
I am so sad to hear about the loss of my child hood friend. My heart go out to the while family. He gave me my first ring (haha) and first hair cut. There are so many memories living next door., especially the love and of course all those comic books. Love to all of you. Robin
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Charity Dell
March 20, 2013
I'm sorry Tommy left us! I used to talk to him, when we were in Chorus in Fitch Junior High School, way back in 1967--1970. May he rest in peace! God bless all his family--I really liked him and thought he was a good person. Hope he's singing for the Heavenly Choir in the New Jerusalem!
March 18, 2013
I am so sorry for the loss of your loved one. Please find peace and comfort in Psalms 65:2.
Linda Oswald
March 16, 2013
Dear Tommy, Lucille, Daisy, Kitty and extended family, So sorry to hear of Tommy Jr.'s passing. May he rest in eternal peace. Thinking of you all.
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