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Kathy Minzy Obituary
Kathy was born on Jan. 20, 1955, in Groton, to Tom and Eleanor Kelsey, both of whom predeceased her.
Kathy achieved much during her 55 years graduating from N.F.A., Mohegan Community College, Eastern CT College and Bay Path University, always overachieving at every level. She received her nursing degree while raising a child and working maintaining her "honor" status throughout. She chose psychiatric nursing as her specialty and spent 32 years caring for patients at the Norwich State Hospital, Valley Hospital, and finally South Eastern Mental Health Authority. Kathy touched the hearts and souls of patients and co-workers alike. Kathy loved traveling the world, gardening, antiques, chickens and blues music.
Kathy will be sadly missed by many people including her fiancé, Mark Lineweber, daughter, April Samoker; son, Kyle Minzy; sisters, Sonnie Bresnan and her husband, Sid, and Wendy Corrigan; brothers, Sid Bresnan and Todd Bresnan; granddaughters, Torrie and Madison Samoker; and her special friend and pet, "Tootsie", along with many friends.
Calling hours with an informal service will be held from 11 a.m. to 2 p.m. on Saturday, May 22, at the Church & Allen Funeral Home, 136 Sachem St., Norwich. Burial will be private at the convenience of the family.
In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made in her honor to the Connecticut Humane Society or Hospice of Southeastern Connecticut.
Please sign the online guestbook, leave a memory, and view the movie at www.churchandallen.com.
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Memories and Condolences
for Kathy Minzy
charolette macdonald
September 15, 2010
Kyle,
I never had the pleasure of meeting your mother but Kelsey did and I have had the pleasure of meeting you and I can say that your mom must have been truly wonderful because she has raised such an awesome young man, never forget always remember hold on to the laughter and always make her proud.and when times are dark light them up with her memory think about all the good things that she has done and all the lives she has touched she is your forever angel and will always guide you my deepest sympathy and heart felt thoughts to you and your family
Kyle Minzy
June 2, 2010
hey mom i love you and miss you sooo much idk how im gunna make it through life without your love and guidance i miss you so much mommy i would do nething just 2 hear your voice again i want you 2 hug me again and tell me everythingss gunna b ok i just want my mommy back...
Lindy Bellerue-Gannon RN
June 1, 2010
Kathy, you will be missed by everyone who knew you. I watched and learned much from you as my Head Nurse. Our lives at CVH are impacted by each other and your impact was huge, you demonstrated to everyone how to be a patient advocate, you taught that everyone has value no matter their circumstances. You were wise and compassionate...I will miss terribly knowing that someone as dedicated and filled with grace as you were is gone from this particular existance...
Bob & Pat Macek
May 24, 2010
Mark, April and Kyle,
Kathy was special person that was just plain nice to be around. Always remember that that she loved you all. If you need a hug, a smile or words of encouragement they aren't any farther than a thought away. Right there where she left them.
Misty Coteau
May 24, 2010
Kathy I can't believe you are gone and are now flying with the angles. You spread your happiness by your kindness and touched peoples soles by your love. I learned so much from you: not just about work but about lifes lessons as well. I never will forget our talks and you will always be in my thoughts and prayers. You will be truly missed by all.
Elizabeth Minzy
May 22, 2010
I will always remember all the great times I spent with Kathy growing up. You will be greatly missed. Rest in peace.
May 22, 2010
Dear April and Family,
Our sincere condolences to you and the children on the loss of your mother and grandmother. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Peg & Ed Corrigan, N.Stonington, CT
Joan Pralgowsky
May 22, 2010
Dear Mark and family:
My sympathy goes out to you and all of her family. I knew and worked with Kathy at Norwich and was sadden to hear of her passing which was all to soon. She was a wonderfull nurse, co-worker and friend. Kathy you will be missed, be at peace.
taneha eason
May 22, 2010
kathy, it was a joy getting to know you. you were pleasant, helpful, and friendly. you were truly one of a kind here at dutcher hall and you will be greatly missed by all.
Kyle Minzy
May 21, 2010
Mom,
I love you always and forever. I've had it hit me a couple times now where all I wanted was to hug you and have you tell me you love me and it's hard knowing I'll never hear that again... I miss you so much mom... It all happened too fast. I want my mother back.
May 21, 2010
Kathy,was a very beautiful person,full of love,life and fun...I will remember her infectius life...Keeping you all in my prayers..Carolyn Kramer,Gales Ferry,Ct.
Jean Patsiga
May 21, 2010
April,
My thoughts and prayers are with you and the girls. A Mothers love never dies.
April Samokar
May 21, 2010
Dear Mommy, I still can't believe that you're gone. I miss you soo much already. You weren't just my mother, but my mentor--my best friend. However, I know now that you are flying with the angels...and i just hope that it's everything you always expected....I love you sooo much mama, that words can't even express it. By the way, I'm still waiting for your laugh while I'm in the shower...YOU PROMISED!!! And I'll be looking for feathers. Loving you forever in my heart and soul...Love, April Jean
Gary & Pat Hanley
May 21, 2010
To Mark, Kathy's family and friends,
We send our heartfelt thoughts, prayers and condolences to you all. We know that the Love and Happiness that Kathy provided you all will give you the strength and courage to carry on in her absence and to live life as she would want you to do.
Lynnette Outlaw
May 21, 2010
The last time I worked with Kathy we talked about the old times at Norwich Hospital, and the trip down memory lane started there, the conversation is not over yet, and I am sure that anyone who knew and worked with Kathy will continue this conversation. Peace be with you all.
Donna (Spicer)Milnarik
May 20, 2010
To all of kathy's family, our sincerest condolences at this time. Kathy was a kind person and a good mother, she will be missed. She's now a angel in heaven with other angels to watch over her. Our prayers and thoughts are with you all.
Rick & Donna Milnarik and family.
Latasha McGhee
May 20, 2010
My deepest condolences goes out to Cathy family. When I really got to meet Cathy I was on a temporary transfer to her unit. Cathy made me feel welcome from day one and all the days after. Cathy will be truly missed she has a big heart and a loving spirit. I'm very happy I got to meet and have cathy in my life for the short period of time.
Tracy Stedman
May 20, 2010
To Wendy & Family,
May the strength of Gods loving grace be with you all.
With Sincere Sympathy,
Craig, Tracy, Travis & Corby
May 20, 2010
April,
I'll always remember my "big sister" in nursing. Your mom was the best. Remember when she won the best "father" for being a single mom when you were young? I stil have that picture. Her love was big and it will stay in my heart. I was sorry to hear of her passing. My prayers are with you.
With love, Renee Savage
Take me along....
Denise Fitzsimmons
May 20, 2010
"Sorry for Your loss" seems as effective as holding up a freight train with a tooth pick in this case.
Having spent some time with this incredible lady, I am most impressed by her devotion to her children. You will always hear her voice just at the right moment. She would never leave you.
God Bless you all...
Brigitte Bibeau-Yattaw
May 20, 2010
April and Family:
I will keep all of you in my thoughts and prayers. She was wonderful and always had a smile. She will be missed.
Barbara Cephas
May 20, 2010
Dear Mark,April,and kyle
my deepest sympathies. I will always remember kathy as full of life,and a great caring nurse.
Fly fly away the angels arms are around you.
Dave & Lou-Ann Martinez
May 20, 2010
We have so many fond memories of Kathy. She was a special lady and will be missed. Our deepest sympathy to Mark and Kathy's family.
Christine Orris
May 19, 2010
Mark, Kathy's family and friends.
I am so sorry to hear of Kathy's passing. She was a beautiful person and this is a great loss.
I pray for God's peace be upon each of you to get you through this difficult time.
May 19, 2010
Dear Kyle, April and family, I am so saddend by the loss of Kathy. I always loved seeing her and especially with you Kyle. I am truely sorry you have to endure this so young. It was always a delight to see her on my schedule. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Sincerely,
Christy Lillibridge Socha
Jon and Natalie Lamont
May 19, 2010
Dear Mark and Family, We are holding you close in our thoughts and best wishes tonight. Kathy graced our lives by her presence, and she will be missed.
Kim Post
May 19, 2010
Our Condolences to Kathy's family- our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this very difficult time.
The Post family
Sue McCombs
May 19, 2010
Dear Mark, Sonnie and children and grandchildren, I've known Kathy since she was a little one and her cousin Sherry and I used to babysit her. She lost her Mom at a young age and her sister Sonnie became her 'Mom' after that and adored her. She came to work with us at Norwich Hospital and was a wonderful nurse. And then at CVH. She was always a bright star in everyone's life and always was happy to see you. She is a good soul and will be missed but we will all see you again one day.
Sue McCombs
Mike Lafayette
May 19, 2010
Mark, April and Kyle,
We're so sorry for the loss of our friend Kathy. To your family, we sincerely offer our condolences and love at this sorrowful time and hope Kathy's spirit lives long in all of us. Love, Sandy and Mike Lafayette
larry wise
May 19, 2010
My condolences to the family, I knew Kathy many years ago and have great memories of those days. God bless her soul and bring comfort to those she left behind
carolyn mazza
May 19, 2010
Dearest April,Torrie,and Madison
So sorry to read about the loss of your mom/grandmom.April, I will never forget your kindness during an extremely difficult time in my life,and I hope that hearing from people who care about you helps you also.
love,Carolyn Mazza
Brian Swanson
May 19, 2010
Kathy Was a great friend. We love Kathy dearly. Having a Bowling team with Kathy on it was wonderful. Having Kathy work in the education department at Norwich Hospital was great and watching her grow educationally showed you her great determination. Going on a weekend with Kathy and Mike to Cape Cod to listen to Big band music was heavenly. Kathy was and will always be one of the truest examples of the wonderful family at Norwich Hospital. Mark, and all of Kathy's family our deepest love and respect. Love Brian and Meliss Swanson.
Sonnie Bresnan
May 19, 2010
Dear little sister, you will live in my heart. The words we always speak, "I love you, bigger than the moon, higher than the sky, and brighter than the stars." I will be with you some day.
You loving sister,
Sonnie
Sonnie Bresnan
May 19, 2010
My dear little sister, you will live in my heart forever the words we often said "I love you, big as the moon, higher than the sky, and brighter than the stars." I will see you soon.
Your sister,
Sonnie
Sharon Reilly
May 19, 2010
To Mark,Kyle,April,Gretchen, and "Tootsie",
Kathy will forever be missed for her vibrance, high energy, and kind heart. She was a great nurse and I loved her as a friend and co-worker. We will forever be spirtually connected. I feel blessed to have known her. My deepest sympathies, thoughts, and prayers are with you.
Cathy Martin
May 19, 2010
I knew Kathy at Norwich Hospital. She always had a smile on her face and was such a pleasure to talk to. My heartfelt sympathy goes out to her family. She will be missed but remembered fondly in our hearts.
Charlene Gadue
May 19, 2010
I had the pleasure of meeting Kathy one time when we went to play bingo. She left such an impression on me with her laughter, smile and compassion. She was really funny. I was hoping to have the pleasure of her company again. Rest in peace Kathy. You will obviously be missed by all of the lives that you touched.
Gary & Kelly DePolito
May 19, 2010
Dear Mark, April and Kyle, We are so sorry about your loss. Kathy was a great friend and co-worker.Her sense of humor and love of life will be sorely missed. May your memories of her keep you's strong through this painful time.Please know that your friends and family share your great loss with you. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Erick Lagerberg
May 19, 2010
My sympathy goe's out to all her family and loved one's.Tho I only knew of her thru talking year's ago with Sid Bresnen,while he had a store in Dayville Ct.Sid seemed proud of his family and loved one's
May Kathy rest in the Lord's arm's,and be at peace.
May 19, 2010
Dear Mark & family: I loved Kathy very much & I will miss her. She had so much compassion for people & for her profession. She was my "backbone" @ work because of her kindness, thoughtfulness & awesome organizational skills. She went beyond her call of duty. Kathy & I both shared a love for flowers, especially hydrangea. So, I will always think of Kathy when I see them, which will be often because they're in my yard. Kathy will always be close to me & that gives me joy & peace. Mark & children, I am so sorry for your tremendous loss. You are in my thoughts & prayers.
Sincerely, Deborah Howley, Middletown
Jen Bennett Pendergast
May 19, 2010
Im so sorry for your loss, Kathy will be missed by all for her great spirit and smile. Take comfort in knowing you have a guardian angel...
June LeClair
May 19, 2010
Co-workers often become extended family and one loss is a loss to all of us. We will keep the happy memories of a life well lived.
Susan Wojciak
May 19, 2010
Dear April, Torrie & Madison, We are very sorry to hear of the loss of your mother/grandmother. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Sue & Melissa Wojciak and Sasha & John Smallridge
May 19, 2010
Kathy,We are all going to miss your love of life. Gary & Virginia Strong (Taftville CT )
Ohana
May 19, 2010
Ohana~
Your life on Earth has ended. You are now at peace and free from pain.It was a priviledge to share your journey from beginning to the end. Even though you were ill, Gretchen, you and I found a way to laugh and smile.Fly with the Angels my dear friend~.I love you and will treasure our memories, talks, and our vacation in Hawaii.
Mark..you are the definition of a real man taking such wonderful care of Kathy, tending to all her needs and wishes.
My sympathy to the rest of the family. Love Janice (pickle)
Kelley O'Hara
May 18, 2010
Kathy,
You were like another mother..
you will be greatly missed.
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