Donald Phillips Wilkinson

Donald Phillips Wilkinson obituary, Groton, CT

Donald Phillips Wilkinson

Donald Wilkinson Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers on Sep. 8, 2010.
Groton - Donald Phillips Wilkinson, 54, known affectionately as "Donzo", died on Saturday, Sept. 4, 2010, in a sailing accident while racing in Fishers Island Sound.

In addition to great friends, he leaves his wife of 17 years, Anne (Hohenstein) Wilkinson and his children, Benjamin and Sarah, both students at Fishers Island School. He is dearly missed by his parents, Robert and Jeanne (Phillips) Wilkinson of Noank; his brother, Alan Wilkinson of Canterbury;, and his sister, Sheryl and husband, Tom Clukey, of New Gloucester, Maine. He also leaves his in-laws, Toby and George Hohenstein of Groton and George Town, Exuma, Bahamas; as well as his sister and brother-in-law, Cynthia and Andrew Davis and his two nieces, Ashley and Allison Davis of Sutton, Mass. The family cat, Harley, will also miss him greatly.

Donzo was born in Kingston, N.Y. on Feb. 12, 1956, and shortly thereafter moved to Noank with his family. He graduated from Fitch High School in 1974. He had a passion for sailing and boatbuilding. He started by building a Blue Jay with his father and working at Formula Yachts building Evelyn boats. He supervised the construction of Fujimo in Australia and the rebuilding of Prophet with his family and friends in their backyard. He was a perfectionist and master at finding new ways to improve boat speed

He was a member of Ram Island Yacht Club, Storm Trysail Club, Baldwin Yacht Club, Off Soundings Club, a founder and two time commodore of the Mystic River Mudhead Sailing Association.

For over a decade, he enjoyed life as a licensed yacht captain, racing at an elite level at regattas throughout the world. In the early 1990s, he came home to Noank and began a new chapter working for Lewmar Marine in sales and service for large custom yachts including America's Cup, Volvo Ocean Racers, and other innovative boats including PlayStation. In recent years, he founded Northeast Storm Protection which provided hurricane protection products for homes and businesses.

Sailing, family, and friends were his life. There were always lots of stories to tell. He raced with incredible friends in the Miami-Nassau, Admiral's Cup, Fastnet, Big Boat series on San Francisco Bay, Newport to Bermuda, Block Island and Key West Race Weeks, Antiqua, Off Soundings, and the Fifty Foot World Cup in Japan, among others.

He enjoyed summer cruises with his family to Block Island, Newport, Cuttyhunk, and the Vineyard. He loved vacationing off George Town, Exuma, Bahamas and quiet nights aboard Sirena on the mooring at Fishers Island. Other memorable events included New York YC cruises, delivering the yacht Shadow from Florida to Hawaii through the Panama Canal, and trips through the Erie Barge Canal aboard Fujimo.

He fostered his son Ben's growing love of sailboat racing and enjoyed trips with him to numerous youth regattas in his Optimist, 420, and Laser. They particularly had a wonderful time in Wales two years ago at the Optimist British Nationals.

He was very proud of his children and loved traditions such as traipsing through the woods to find the perfect Christmas tree, boisterous family dinners, planting gardens, and creating memorable birthday parties, particularly for Sarah. He was an awesome dad.

He had a larger-than-life personality with an infectious laugh and always a twinkle in his eye. He couldn't get enough of sailing and loved nothing better than messing around in boats.

A celebration of his life will be held at 10 a.m. on Saturday, Sept. 11, at the Mystic Congregational Church, 43 East Main St. There will also be a live stream of the celebration available at www.donzowilkinson.org

The family would like to perpetuate Donzo's love of sailing with a named Dyer Dhow dinghy at Mystic Seaport and to support youth sailing.

Contributions can be made to The Wilkinson Family Fund, c/o Peter Bergendahl, 135 Prospect Hill Road, Noank CT 06340.

Further information can be found on the website.

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September 23, 2010

Richard Rogers posted to the memorial.

September 20, 2010

CC Marsh Past Comm, BYC posted to the memorial.

September 18, 2010

JJ posted to the memorial.

Richard Rogers

September 23, 2010

I heard of Donzo's passing from a friend, Duane MacPhail, who sailed with him aboard Shadow, my 56 foot Soverel ocean racer. Donzo delivered her back to Southern California through the Panama Canal after she had won the 1984 SORC Class A having won 5 of 6 races earning an article in Sports Illustrated. She also won the Rolex before coming home.

While I have not seen him since then, he made a lasting impression on me by his total competence aboard Shadow and, in particular, his infectious good nature and his smile that just had to make your day.

My thoughts are with his family and those friends who had the good fortune to know him better than I.

Richard Rogers

CC Marsh Past Comm, BYC

September 20, 2010

Dear Anne, Ben and Sarah,

The Crew of Siren's Song, Mystic sends you its deepest sympathy at the loss of your Husband, Dad, Racing Buddy, Sailing Partner.

On the behalf of the Baldwin Yacht Club, I send you and your family and his family the membership's deepest sympathy.

The Marsh Family,
Rock, Cathy, Katie and Eric

JJ

September 18, 2010

I knew him from setting him up as a Storm Catcher hurricane protection dealer and helping him get started in the business. He was enthusiastic, eager to learn and determined. He was just beginning to see success in this business and I know that we at Storm Smart - Wholesale Division, Ft. Myers, Florida, and his customers in the Northeast will miss him and feel the loss.

John Fries

September 11, 2010

Anne, Ben and Sarah-

I'm so sorry for the tragic loss of your husband/father. I have many fond memories of sailing with and against Donzo. He will be sadly missed.

John Fries

September 10, 2010

Decades Ago Donzo's infectious laughter and passion for sailing made racing in the early Mud Head era a joy on any boat he spent time aboard, including the Tartan Ten "Shakin". Sail on Donzo, you have left many in your wake and in your debt. Wayne L. Burdick
Beneteau USA, Marion, SC

A. Thomas Fenik

September 10, 2010

Met Don a couple times - went on a shakedown on Bob Evelyn's first '42 - I remember there was no wind at all, but they managed to get speed out of her anyway. And then again at a party where, well, I guess I don't remember it all that well. But Donnie definitely made an impression.

Learned about Donnie's death this morning, and though I didn't know him well, he seemed like a really great guy, and a passionate and exceptional sailor. I wanted to write in and give you all my most sincere condolences.

Wish you well.

Stephanie Thurston Hagstrom

September 10, 2010

Your infectious smile and laughter and the wonderful memories of our times sailing, partying and having fun when we were young. You will be missed. My heart goes out to Anne and the children. Sweet travels my friend and love always.

George McCroskey

September 10, 2010

I knew Donzo from his days as Captain of Fujimo at Bayview Yacht Club in Detroit. I was on another fifty footer, in fact dock partner to Fujimo. Those summer days spent with him are a big part of my memories. I also had the opportunity to travel in tandem with him through the Erie Barge Canal from Block Island back to Detroit. Each evening on the canal it was always a treat to tie up along side Fujimo and discuss our day on the water. It's a terrible loss for the entire sailing community. My thoughts and prayers are with his family. Sail on sailor.
Big George McCroskey

Jon Luscomb

September 9, 2010

Anne: I am very sorry for the loss of Donzo. Karen and I wish you and your family the best through this awful time.

Annie Sharples

September 9, 2010

This wonderful man accomplished in his lifetime what others could not accomplish in six. I salute you Donald Wilkinson on a life so well lived. You will be missed.

Amy and Jack McGuire

September 8, 2010

Jack and I will miss his constant positive presence at regattas. He was always the dad with a smile, somebody the kids could rely on to ask for help, he'd help with anything. He will be deeply missed by the sailors and their parents. Our thoughts are with you Ben and your family. The McGuires

Linda Kruger

September 8, 2010

We will remember your laughter and your smile everytime we're out sailing. Many memories sailing Opti's with our kids and yours. Randy,Linda,Kolby and Riley Kruger Malletts Bay Boat Club

James Carlson

September 8, 2010

Ann,
I had some great boat rides with Donzo. I am so sorry and hope the best for you and your family.
Jamie

Alice and Blair Munyan

September 8, 2010

Our thoughts are with Donald's family and friends

Alice and Blair Munyan
Fellow Mud Heads

Lynda Sterling

September 8, 2010

So sorry to see such a tragic accident happen to one so young; my thoughts and condolences to the family.

A fellow sailor...
Lynda J. Sterling

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