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Groton - Victor Bryant Burdick, 83, of Noank, beloved husband of 63 years to Kathleen (Valentine) Burdick, passed away Monday, Sept. 26, 2011, at home.

Vic, "Tom" to family and old friends, was a native Noanker, born on Elm Street in 1928 and moved to Davis Court on West Cove in 1935. Leaving school at 16, he spent the rest of his life working long and hard, paying attention to the details, becoming the intuitive engineer and master craftsman. He could fix or build anything. A man's man, ready for anything physical or adventurous, he was also the most loving softie with family, friends, and pets. In Noank in the 50s and 60s his Great Pyrenees "Mickey" had the run of the village from Noank School to the Universal grocery store.

Vic joined the Merchant Marines, shipping on the Liberty Ship Booker T. Washington and then joined the 82nd Airborne as a paratrooper. He felt his 33 year career at Electric Boat was his finest tour, where, "we built the best ships with the finest people." Starting in 1951 as an electrician's helper working for his father Thomas Eugene, as an electrician he participated in the clean-up of the Chalk River, Canada nuclear accident, two tours to Idaho to build the USS Nautilus (SSN571) reactor prototype, and one tour to New York to build the USS Seawolf (SSN575) prototype. Promoted to operations management in the 60s, Vic was ship's manager for numerous SSBN and SSN new construction submarines and concluded his career as engine room area manager for 688 Class construction. Vic was honored by the company as "trigger man" for the launching of SSN709, Hyman G. Rickover.

While proud of his EB career, he was most proud of his family and always put family first. Though working 12 hour days, he still found time to play pirates in the New York woods and would stomp around on the roof with sleigh bells late on Christmas Eve so the children would know Santa was near. Boats and sailing were his lifelong avocation, so summers were filled with cruises to Maine and the Massachusetts islands. Working third shift allowed day time hours for building seawalls and the dock and the endless effort of trying to keep ahead of the 1820s home. After retirement Vic and Kathleen did extended cruising, including three cruises to Florida.

Vic was predeceased by his brothers, Herbert and Leroy.

Along with wife, Kathleen, he is survived by his sisters, Alicia Crossman and husband, Errol, of Noank, and Vivian Smith and husband, Franklin, of Noank. In addition, he leaves behind sons, Bryan and wife, Therese, of Noank, and Wayne and wife, Joyce, of Mt. Pleasant, S.C.; and daughter, Rev. Victoria with partner, Verne Ray, of Groton. Also surviving are granddaughter, Sarah Caron and husband, Jeff, and great-grandchildren, Richard and Rebecca of Plymouth, N.H.; grandson, Joshua and wife, Jolynn, and great-granddaughters, Madeline and Samantha of Nashua; granddaughter, Amanda Simas and husband, David, and great-grandson, Connor of Warwick, R.I.; and granddaughter, Morgan Morrone and partner, John Lavigne, of Berkeley, Calif. The list of loved and loving extended family and friends spans the country from Hawaii to Florida to Maine.

Always one for a party, Vic's life and love will be celebrated at 11 a.m. Friday, Sept. 30, at Noank Baptist Church. Calling hours will be from 4 to 6 p.m. Thursday, Sept. 29, at the Dinoto Funeral Home, 17 Pearl St., historic downtown Mystic. Burial will be private.

In lieu of flowers, donations in Vic's name may be made to the Noank Baptist Church and/or the Noank Historical Society.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Day on Sep. 28, 2011.

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September 30, 2011

Vickie and family,
I read about your dad's death and wanted you to know I was thinking of you.
Terri (Cheesman) McDermott

Roberta, Geoff , James MacDonald

September 30, 2011

Kathleen, Bryan, Wayne, Vickie, Alicia, Vivian and the rest of the family,
Spring Street has lost one of its greatest smiles and cheeriest neighbours. May your many wonderful family memories comfort you at this difficult time. Hugs to you all.

Jim & Kay Lawrence

September 29, 2011

Bryan, Kay and I are deeply saddened to hear of the death of your beloved Dad. After hearing so many wonderful stories over the years, it is easy to see where your enthusiasm for life, myriad interests and deep appreciation of friendship come from. Know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers for comfort and peace in the coming days.

Sharon Harvey Poulton

September 29, 2011

Dear Kathleen, Wayne, Bryan, and Victoria and all Vic's Loved Ones,

Please know we are with you all in heart and spirit every step you take. We love you all and wish we were there by your side to share and contribute to the hugs, love and compassion we can only imagine this amazing man brings, and will continue to bring through his memory, to this earth and her people. I know this lives on tenfold in all of us thanks to his being and the privilege of having known him.

Blessings and Peace,

Sharon and David Poulton and our children, Brett and Anna

Jim McGill

September 29, 2011

Brian, Sorry to hear of your father's passing. Your father and I spent many days and nights working to resolve design/construction problems on nuclear subs when he was the ship's super. He was the "go to" guy when you wanted something done in the shipyard. Vic was an Icon!
My condolences to you, your mother and brother and sister

Deborah Pierce

September 29, 2011

Vick, Its the dash that makes the life, and your dads dash was filled with life, love, and Buffalo Hunter moments. Love and sympathy to you, Mrs.Burdick, Bryan,Wayne,Amanda,and Morgan.

Tom Reed

September 29, 2011

To Mrs. Burdick, Vicki, Wayne, and all the Burdicks: My deepest sympathy to you all on Mr. Burdick's passing. God's peace be with you all.

September 29, 2011

Brian, I am so sorry that you lost your Daddy. I send you and your family my thoughts and love.
Tazewell Eure, Columbia, SC

jenni butler

September 29, 2011

I am very saddened to hear of the passing of Vic. What an exceptional man!I will miss his hugs, and stories about kayaking and yard work. :) He was a man that you could just meet and it was just a natrual reaction to love him and his family. I feel greatful to have been able to know him and his family.
Rest in peace Vic. You will be missed!

David Farrington

September 29, 2011

To the Burdick Family,
I wish to extend my sincere condolences to Wayne and to the rest of the Burdick family. I am very sorry for your loss. The news of Noank travels far, and even over the distance I can close my eyes, and go back in time and in place and remember the presence of Vic and his family in the village.

Bill Diamond

September 28, 2011

Love and hugs from Beth an I and all the Diamonds, you are always in our thoughts and prayers. We will celebrate Vic's life this week remembering his warmth and integrity...a life well lived, a man in full.

Chris Gill

September 28, 2011

Kathleen, Bryan, Vickie, and Wayne - I was saddend to hear the news of Tom's passing. He was a great man and a great and cherished friend to my Dad and Mom. He will be missed.

Bruce & Michele Valliere

September 28, 2011

To that happy place you tell us so much about Victoria. Dad is in the best of hands as you would say.
Our hearts are with you.

Bill Zembruski

September 28, 2011

Bryan, Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal. ~From a headstone in Ireland
So sorry to hear about your dad. It sounds like he was a super human.

Clark Burdick

September 28, 2011

My heart aches for you aunt kath, Bryan, Wayne, and Vic. Uncle Tom was so wonderful to be around. I miss him so much.

Nancy Jensen

September 28, 2011

Dear Extended Family. Kathleen, Vicki, Wayne and Bryan. The news of your beloved Tom's passing has saddened me beyond words. God bless each one of you.

(-=< Ray Hamilton >=-)

September 28, 2011

Dear Bryan, Therese, and the entire Burdick Family,

I’ve worked over the years with Bryan on a few projects, and always enjoyed our encounters at the local blues jams as well; have lost both parents myself and know, all too well, the very special loss!

Understanding the hole left behind, regardless the inevitability or forewarning, pray this helps some wee bit...to allow...enable…the grief! So truly sorry to hear about your mom. At least now she’s at peace with our Lord…definitely keepin’ y’all in my prayers!

When my mother died, even after a years-long battle with cancer, I was shattered by the loss…inconsolable…she was my mentor! I like to think that I got my character from my father, but my mind and its capacity from m’dear sainted mother!!! BUT, "If your faith assures you she's in heaven, then what are the tears all about?!?" I hold eternity dearly close...a cherished, hard-won prize...but, in the interim, that answer lies below.

SELFISH TEARS
(I Eulogize My Beloved Mother - March, 1989)

Today we cry...must admit they're selfish tears.
You see...our faith assures your journey's done.
But it's not for you we mourn, at all, my dear;
It's for those of us you've left behind...alone!!!

We share your joy...share your happiness at rest,
Your painful fears now for forever stilled.
You've fought the good fight, passed the final test,
But you've left behind a hole that can't be filled!!!

So, until we each rejoin you some someday,
And, while your memory buoys us through those years,
We'll miss you...but continue on our way,
And, from time to time, we'll cry our selfish tears!!!

Ray Hamilton (c) March 19, 1989

My sincerest condolences and prayers,

David Rathbun

September 28, 2011

Deeply saddened to hear of the passing of one of the truly great people you meet in life. Vic was that type of man. We worked closely with him at EB and it was a relationship in true respect. My condolences to the family.

Brad & Cynthia Burgess

September 28, 2011

Vic's family and those of us fortunate enough to have been friends to the family had the great opportunity to witness a "Man's Man" as he walked tall through us all.

Charlie Green

September 28, 2011

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Richard Mitchell

September 28, 2011

Kathleen, Alicia, Vivian and all,
Our thoughts are with you. May the peace that comes through faith be with you all.
Linda and Dick Mitchell

Paula Doiron

September 28, 2011

Bryan and T, I am so sorry for your loss.
May the love of friends and family carry you through this time of grief. Let me know if there is anything I can do, even if it is to talk.

Richard Flagg

September 28, 2011

My deepest condolences to Bryan and Vickie. I worked with Vic on the Wet Dock at Electric Boat. Vic was very knowledgeable of submarine construction as well as being a great leader.

Janet Pluth

September 28, 2011

Kathleen & Family, May the Lord comfort and bless you duing this difficult time. You are in my prayers. He will be missed much in the neighborhood for his cheery greetings and kindness.

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