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James Michael "Mike" Leahy obituary, Stonington, CT

James Leahy Obituary

Stonington - James Michael "Mike" Leahy, 71, of Stonington, husband of Deborah Kotchen, passed away unexpectedly, Friday, April 5, 2013, at the Rhode Island Hospital in Providence.

Born in Laconia, N.H., he was the son of the late Dr. Roland and Margaret Leahy and lived in Stonington for the past decade. He previously resided in West Hartford and Westport. Mike was a member of two Laconia High School state championship ski teams and was a nationally ranked water ski jumper in the 1950s. He graduated from the University of Connecticut.

Professionally, Mike spent 25 years in the advertising business in New York and London. He was executive vice president and managing director at Saatchi & Saatchi, and held previous positions with Young & Rubicam, Needham Harper & Steers and Dancer Fitzgerald Sample. His clients included P&G, Bristol-Myers, Sara Lee, M&M Mars, Xerox and the United States Olympic Committee.

In 1991, Mike launched his own consulting business, providing marketing services to Connecticut Departments of Labor, Health and Tourism, The Newspaper Association of America, Drugs Don't Work!, Special Olympics World Games, Forbes, Business Week and three Connecticut governors through the Connecticut Economic Resource Center.

Mike served on the board of directors for Special Olympics Connecticut, Stonington Free Library, Stonington Village Improvement Association and Stonington Harbor Yacht Club.

In addition to his wife, he is survived by two children from a former marriage with Carol Leahy of Westport, daughter, Wendy Leahy and her husband, Michael Grand, of Brooklyn, N.Y.; son, Michael Leahy and his wife, Aimee, of Brooklyn, N.Y.; three step-children, Elizabeth Neave and her husband, Jonathan, of Monkton, Md., Matthew Kotchen and his wife, Elinor, of Washington, DC, and Andrew Kotchen and his wife, Emily, of Irvington, N.Y.; two brothers, Richard and John Leahy both of Laconia, N.H.; and five beloved grandchildren, Ethan Grand, Mia Leahy, Spencer Neave, Grace and William Kotchen.

He was predeceased by his grandson, Charles Neave, whom he now joins to resume their exciting summer adventures.

Mike was an avid sailor and skier with boundless energy, and his sense of humor, selflessness and kind heart will be greatly missed by all who knew him.

A memorial service celebrating his life will be held at 11 a.m. April 20, 2013, at the Calvary Church, 26 Church St., Stonington.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in memory of J. Michael Leahy to Special Olympics Connecticut, 2666 State St., Hamden, CT 06517.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Day on Apr. 7, 2013.

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Dave Fairman

March 15, 2025

Rest in Peace

Robert Fort

May 1, 2013

I had the pleasure of working with Mike at CERC. He was a real pro and gifted mentor. My condolences

Pat and Dick Ernenwein

April 17, 2013

We are so saddened by the death of this wonderful man. It was our privilege to know him.

Deb Fuller

April 16, 2013

Debbie, we were so sorry to hear that Mike had passed away. It seemed that we were just getting to know him and appreciate what a terrific person he was. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers, and we know Mike is sailing somewhere on sparkling blue waters.

Sean, Amy (my dog) & me

April 15, 2013

Dear Debbie, I was so sorry to hear about your husband. Although I never met him, I heard wonderful things about him from Pat. I'm hoping I will get to see you when I come to Newburgh/Poughkeepsie the end of June. It has been many years since we've seen each other. My deepest sympathy to you and your family. Love, Karen Nadle Joyce

Sharon Bell

April 11, 2013

So very sorry to here of Mike's passing. I just knew him from table #3 at Noah's where he used to stop by to visit once in awhile and from seeing him in town - always had a nice smile and greeting. He certainly lived a full and giving life. My thoughts are with Debbie and the family. Sincerely, Sharon Bell

Jack Allen

April 11, 2013

I was sorry to hear the news of Mike's passing. He was a good natured man with a kind heart. My condolences to Deb and to all Mike's family.

Mary Farrell

April 10, 2013

My deepest sympathies to Deb and all of Mike's family. I will remember Mike for his energy, humor and good heart.

CAROL OBERFELDER-KLEINMAN

April 10, 2013

I worked with Mike in the early 70's at Needham. He was a wonderful guy and I'm so saddened to hear of his passing.

Carla Bouthillier-MacKown

April 10, 2013

Deb and Family, I am very saddened by Mike's passing. Know that my thoughts and prayers are with you. Deb, Mike was a very special man that enjoyed life and made one smile. My deepest condolences and love to you.

Mike at Opening Ceremony. Thank you Mike for being instrumental in starting the whole program!

April 9, 2013

Award ceremony at Special Olympics Sailing with Mike as the man with the medals!

April 9, 2013

Beth Wallace

April 9, 2013

While working with Mike at CERC for a few years he started off being that white haired man in the office next door. Come to find out he has a soft heart and is a man you want to know. We will miss seeing you Mike but know you are in a great new place with lots of adventures ahead. Keep an eye over us.

Beth Wallace

Anne Haag

April 9, 2013

Deb and the Leahy family, my heartfelt sympathy on Mike's passing. The Special Olympics Sailing community has lost a true friend and great supporter!

Paula Fischer

April 8, 2013

I am saddened to hear the news about Mike's passing, Deb. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

Robert Bisson

April 8, 2013

Vaya con Dios Stein. You taught me how to take a spill at 40 knots and laugh about it ! You will live on in my memories till I join you. To Deborah, John, Rick, grand kids and all the rest of our family, Sabine and I send our deepest condolences. Bob and Sabine Bisson

Bill & Sandra Bisson

April 7, 2013

Well, Cousin Mike, you've out-jumped us again - and we're so sorry you did. We'll not soon forget your zest for life, sense of fun and endless supply of stories, or your outstanding athleticism and competitive spirit. And our deepest sympathies go out to Deborah and the rest of her family. Please know that our thoughts and best wishes are with all of you.

Ray and Dana Lewicki

April 7, 2013

To the Leahy family our deepest regrets. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Ralph J Mole'

April 7, 2013

Sandra and Ralph Mole' would like to extend their sincerest condolences to Deb and the entire family...

Roberto & Solvej Freitas

April 7, 2013

The Freitas Family extends its very deepest condolences.

Bob Hennessey

April 7, 2013

Deb and family, very sorry to hear of Mike's passing. He will be sorely missed by our Sig Ep mafia.

April 7, 2013

The Freitas Family extends its very deepest condolences.

Mike with Collin Hicks in July of 2009

Jim Hicks

April 7, 2013

This 2009 photo of Mike with my grandson is the way I will remember my good friend Mike. Being generous, having fun and enjoying time on the water in Stonington Harbor.

Mike with my grandson Collin in 2009

Jim Hicks

April 7, 2013

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