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Howard B. Cary

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Howard B. Cary Obituary
East Lyme - Howard B. Cary of Niantic, passed away on Sept. 9, 2013.

Howard was born March 2, 1921, in Morristown, Tenn., the son of Ray and Denver (Odell) Cary.

He was predeceased by his wife of 57 years, Olivia Elizabeth (Olson) Cary and a sister, Dorothy Edith.

A submarine veteran of World War II, he served 22 years in the U.S. Navy, retiring in 1962. Howard then worked as a groundskeeper and fire chief at the former State Farm for Women at Niantic, retiring in 1978.

Howard was a lifetime member of the American Legion Post 128, Niantic Fire Department, and New London County Fire Chiefs. He added much information about the Angel Cemetery located in Union Cemetery in Niantic, where babies of inmates at the former State Farm who died at birth are buried.

Howard had a green thumb and loved his flower garden and the tomatoes he grew every year. He was a big fan of the Red Sox and UConn women's basketball team. With a sunny disposition, a smile, or a little joke, he will be missed by everyone whose lives he touched.

The family would like to thank the staff on the 2nd floor at Bride Brook, especially his nurse April, who he lovingly called "Tulip".

Howard is survived by a daughter, Susan and her husband, Joseph, of Niantic and a son, Stephen and his wife, Gina, of Mystic, her daughter, Lauren and husband, Cody Lee, of North Carolina and their children, Jovie and Lorick; three grandchildren, Todd Perkins and his wife, Linda, of Niantic, Gary Perkins of Niantic, and Rhonda Meaike of Old Lyme; and three great-grandchildren, Lane and Quinn Perkins of Norwich and Aidan Cary of Old Lyme.

The family will receive relatives and friends from 5 to 7 p.m. on Thursday, Sept. 12, at the Thomas L. Neilan & Sons Funeral Home, 48 Grand St., Niantic, with a memorial service immediately following at 7 p.m. Interment is private.

Donations in his memory may be made to the Niantic Fire Department, 8 Grand St., Niantic, CT 06357.

Online condolences may be expressed at www.neilanfuneralhome.com
Published in The Day on Sept. 10, 2013
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