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Wyatt Garfield Obituary

Mystic - Wyatt "Wye" Garfield, 89, of Mystic, and Cuttyhunk Island, Mass., devoted husband of Katharine "Kitsy" (Barney) Garfield, wife of nearly 64 years, and great-grandson of James Abram Garfield, 20th President of the United States, died on Aug. 4, 2014, after a brief illness.

Born on Oct. 8, 1924, in Cleveland, Ohio, to Newell Garfield and Mary Louise (Wyatt) Garfield, he spent his childhood in Concord, Mass. He leaves a large and loving family who enjoyed his presence in their lives every day.

Besides his wife, he leaves six children, Sarah Garfield Berry and her husband, Allen, Louise Garfield and her children, Katie Bachler and Matthew Bachler and his wife, Chrissy Lee, Wyatt Garfield Jr. and his wife, Rachel, and their children, Rebecca and her husband, Paul Aracena Oliver, Wyatt, and William Garfield, Seth Garfield and his wife, Dorothy, and their children, Dianna and her husband, Brent Robinson, Samuel, and Kassia Garfield, Angus Garfield and his children, Caroline and Elizabeth Garfield, and Benjamin Garfield and his wife, Amy.

Predeceasing him were brother, Newell Garfield and sister, Sarah (Garfield) Smith.

He attended the Shady Hill School, Pomfret School, Yale (B.A.) 1948, and Bread Loaf Middlebury( M.A.). He served in the U.S. Navy in the South Pacific at the end of World War II.

His working years led him first to Pomfret School in Connecticut for 10 years, as English teacher, admission director, and crew coach, and then on to the Bancroft School, as headmaster, in Worcester, Mass., from 1960-1981. An old farm in Princeton, Mass., was home to his family for 44 years.

He offered his skills in founding the Cuttyhunk Yacht Club in 1956 and later establishing the Princeton, Mass. Land Trust. Over the years, he served as Cuttyhunk Selectman, trustee of Pomfret and Applewild Schools, chairman of the Cum Laude Society, committee member in the NAIS, and an Eastern Sprints judge. In recent years, he volunteered in myriad ways at the Mystic Seaport, including a small role in the restoration of the whaling ship, the Charles W. Morgan.

From his father he learned woodworking, which became a lifelong passion. He built boats with his teenaged sons, and sailboats and rowboats for children and grandchildren. He mastered the art of cutting jigsaw puzzles, and built practical furniture for his house. His pride was maintaining and shingling his house on Cuttyhunk, which became the touchstone of home for his family. In later years, his large workshop there became the place for many a repair or a good sit-down-to-talk about life. There was nothing better than sharing wisdom and laughter with Wye, or taking a sail in his wooden Buzzards Bay day sailer, Beaver, his retirement gift to himself. On land his sport was tennis and on the sea, sailing.

In all the communities, schools or towns, or shipyards that Wye Garfield inhabited, there wasn't a person who didn't like or love him. From his boyhood club of escapades, the Red Devils of Concord, to his final involvements in Mystic Seaport, his spirit-silly, kind, thoughtful, caring, and yes, naughty- taught us how to enjoy life. His innate talents for teaching and for woodworking of all kinds; his humor, self-discipline, and standards, all make us better people, and the world a clearer place to enjoy. For his children and students, particularly the young, Wye loved nothing more than reading stories, or better yet, telling them with many embellishments. His self-published tales of his youth were treasured by his children and grandchildren. He always believed you could be anything you wanted to be. As much as he worked in the educational system, he put the highest value on one's being happy and enjoying work.

A deeply involved family man, he and his wife Kitsy made their island home the center of their lives, enjoying simple summer living. In time nothing came to matter more than this place called Cuttyhunk, where he could be seen walking town roads, meeting the ferry boat, and greeting everyone he met. He worked to improve places for the benefit of the community or organization, never for himself. He did not need attention and accolades for all he did. He truly left the world a better place, and people better for knowing him and having him in their lives.

He will be dearly missed by many. Flags were flown at half mast on Cuttyhunk, which says it all.

Memorial contibutions may be made to Gosnold Community Fund, c/o Community Foundation of Southeastern MA, 63 Union St., New Bedford, MA 02740; Princeton Land Trust, PO Box 271, Princeton, MA 01541; or Mystic Seaport, 75 Greenmanville Ave., Mystic, CT 06355.

A reception to celebrate his life is planned at StoneRidge retirement community, 186 Jerry Browne Road, Mystic, CT at 11 a.m. on Saturday, Aug. 16. A memorial service on Cuttyhunk will be held at a later date.

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Published by The Day on Aug. 7, 2014.

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Wells Dow

July 31, 2024

Doesn´t seem like ten years ago! Still my most influential mentor! Best to all the Garfield´s!

Will Hight

August 25, 2014

Dear Mrs. Garfield, and all Garfields,

My deepest sympathies to you. I shall never forget my times with Mr. Garfield. I look back on my time at Bancroft as a great gift , and he remains a large part of those good memories. I am shingling my new shop now, and I will raise the hammer in salute to "Uncle Wye"! May he rest in peace.
Sincerely,
Will Hight

lucinda sanders

August 23, 2014

Dear Garfield Family:

Bancroft School and Mr. Garfield are synonymous to me. As a "sandboxer", our tenure at Bancroft ran in parallel. It was my parents who seemed to return from the multiple events at Bancroft always with sincere accolades of "Wye" and how wonderful he was; I mostly remember his gentleness accompanied by his kind face and smiles. Those attributes went a long way! What a blessing he was to those he touched. My gratitude is unbounded for having crossed the path of Wyatt Garfield.

My sincere condolences to the family.

Lucinda (Reed) Sanders '71

August 16, 2014

May his memolry be eternal!

Father Solon & Joanna Tsandikos

Dr. & Mrs. James M. Grant

August 15, 2014

Wye's engaging and contagious personality left a lasting stamp on student life at Pomfret in the early 40's which as a classmate I keenly remember. And now, I have learned set the stage for a fantastic life of leadership and engagement. He will truly be missed. Our deepest condolences.

Jim & Paula Grant

Peggy Keith

August 14, 2014

Wye Garfield - a very, very special man! Peggy

August 14, 2014

Dear Kitsy,
Our deepest sympathy on the deep and profound loss of Wye. He was such a good man, always willing to help someone no matter what the task was.
I will always remember shortening pants into shorts for Wye when the cuffs were worn but he didn't have the heart to dispose of them because "they were still good."
My son was so grateful to Wye for his willingness to share his woodworking shop when he was working on his Eagle project.
The Town of Princeton suffered a loss when you moved to Connecticut but now the loss is even deeper. Our deepest condolences.
Linda and Dick Morse

August 10, 2014

Dearest Kitsy, Can't reach you. Will write. I feel very lucky to have known Wye, even a little. much love, Evie

Ted Sharp

August 8, 2014

Sharon and I, as do all friends of Bancroft, mourn the passing of Wye Garfield. He was a kind and generous mentor, colleague, and friend to all who had the privilege of knowing him. He and Kitsy generously invited us to live on their beautiful and historic farm during our initial summer, while we engaged in a search for our new home.

There is no doubt that the success of Bancroft rests firmly with the leadership of Wye.

Our deepest sympathy to Wye's family!

Ted & Sharon Sharp

Marilyn Drapos

August 8, 2014

As the mother of Bancroft alumni, I have fond memories and a deep appreciation for Mr. Garfield's wisdom and guidance...as do my children. Our hearfelt sympathy to the Garfield family.

Rebecca Mitchell

August 7, 2014

Mr. Garfield's kind encouragement and faith in my abilities continues, after half a century, to give me courage and the will to do my best. Such goodness is immortal.

Jane Weisman

August 7, 2014

Dearest Kitsy and clan-
Princeton is so very lucky to have had several decades of the Garfields' spirit of volunteerism and stewardship to set the standard. Wye quietly worked to preserve all that is precious to our beautiful little gem of a town. The Library especially benefitted from his handyman abilities and willingness to help with whatever task arose - always without a fuss - and never an expectation of recognition. He was just a humble man who loved to help folks in the town that he so enjoyed. And what fun he was - it was a joy to be with him! (I picture the twinkle in his eye when he would reveal the hidden figures in his ultra-fine jigsaw puzzles.)
The Princeton Land Trust would not be the success it is today without Wye's leadership. His common sense and integrity was respected by all.
Kitsy, I use your long, loving and happy marriage to Wye as an example for how I want to live my life. The lesson - keep it simple, enjoy your family and make a contribution to your community by doing what you love.
My heart goes out to you all.

August 7, 2014

Mr. Garfield was a great mentor during all of my years as a student at Bancroft. He is one of my role models as an educator and as a person. He made the world a much better place. My condolences to his family.

Susan (Lord) Aucock

August 7, 2014

Deepest sympathy for your loss. I will always remember him as one of the nicest dads on the Cuttyhunk.

August 7, 2014

Our life will always be blessed by the opportuity our son had to attend The Bancroft School in Worcester MA. Mr Garfield was Head of the School at that time. We were a lower middle class working couple both Working in Worcester, and with the help of "a new scholarship" Peter got to attend Bancroft. He learned French so well that a senior, his class size was 1! He then got a letter of appointment from Ted Kennedy to attend West Point and graduated in 1989. Thank you Wi for all the help.

Joy Knowlton

August 7, 2014

I have such fond memories of Mr. Garfield at Bancroft. I remememeber the "hard right or easy wrong" ( and so do my kids!) and his kindness. Blessings to all the Garfields. Joy

Barbara Groves

August 7, 2014

Wye was one of those "giants" in my life. He hired me and it was his style I tried to emulate when I became a school Head. He was a classy man, kind, engaging, supportive, and had a marvelous sense of humor. May he rest in peace.

Stuart Weisman

August 7, 2014

Kitsy, Sarah and Family,

So sorry to learn of Wy's passing away. He was truly a unique and gentle man and will be missed by many. It was a privilege to know him. My sincere condolences are with you all.

August 6, 2014

Dear Sarah, Ben and Mrs Garfield, so sorry to hear of your loss. He was such a good person.

Steve Sher

August 6, 2014

Sarah, Ben, and Mrs.Garfield I am so sorry to hear of your loss. He was a beautiful person.

Steve Sher

Heidi Harris

August 6, 2014

Seth, Dorothy, Sam and all the Garfields,
I never knew Wyatt Garfielf personally, but all that I read made me realize his spirit and his gifts have been living and will continue living on in all of you. I'm so sorry for your loss, for our loss. May we all continue to carry on his good ways. All my love, Heidi

John Peterson

August 6, 2014

Dear Garfields,

My mother, Gladys Peterson, taught first grade at Bancroft during a good part of Mr. Garfield's tenure there. I still remember, though a boy then, how highly she regarded him. She considered him a valued friend.

My thoughts and prayers to you all.

August 6, 2014

Dear Seth and Dorothy:
What a wonderful life. I know it leaves a big hole in your heart for such a man. We are thinking of you both. Betty and Tom

Joan Carlson

August 6, 2014

Dear Kitsy and all of Wye's Family,
My prayers are with you all. Wye's kindness and wisdom touched so many. I remember, so very well, when he hired me to work at Bancroft School. Such a remarkable leader and friend. He always told us to put family first, and really meant it. He took joy in helping others and especially enjoyed working with students. He was such a positive influence in my life, and I treasure the time that I worked with him.

Andrew Hastings

August 6, 2014

To the entire Garfield family...I am very sorry for your loss. I loved being a student under Mr. Garfield's watch...he truly could bring the sun out on a cloudy day. My thoughts are with you all.

Andy Hastings
Bancroft, 1982

Lisa Mello

August 6, 2014

Dear Seth, Dorothy and Family
I am so sorry for your loss. Wyatt sounded like such a wonderful man!! I will keep your family in my thoughts and prayers.

Mark and Roxanne McSherry

August 6, 2014

Dear Sarah and family,

I am so sad to hear of Wye's passing. I always enjoyed our chats on Cuttyhunk during my many visits aboard "Morpheus". Earth's cry and heaven's smile. May he rest in peace.

August 6, 2014

The hearts of all the Dows go out to our long time neighbors, all the "Garfs."

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