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Bessie McIntosh Obituary

Bessie Lee (Becky) McIntosh, 95 years old, of Palm Desert, CA, passed away June 7, 2011 at her home with family at her side. She was born in Blaine, Arkansas on November 20, 1915 to Claude Ray and Ollie Mae Durning. She came to the Coachella Valley in 1925 with her parents, two brothers and two sisters. She graduated from Coachella Valley High School in 1934. She worked for General Telephone for 38 years, retiring in the late 70's. She began her career as a switchboard operator in Thermal and worked up to the chief telephone operator of the valley. Bessie married Sherman McIntosh in Indio on Dec. 6, 1963. They were owners of McIntosh Pharmacy and Sherman's Liquors in Indio. She was preceded in death by her husband, Sherman McIntosh, both parents, all brothers and sisters, grandson, Darren York, and nephew, James Place. She is survived by son, Tom McIntosh of Palm Desert; daughter, Linda York of Indio; Grand daughter, Sarah McIntosh of Palm Desert; Grandsons, Robert McIntosh of La Quinta, Steve McIntosh of San Diego, Todd McIntosh of Palm Desert and Sean McIntosh of Texas; grand daughter, Deborah Eby of Montana; nephews, Roger Place of Thousand Palms, Jeff Place of Palm Desert; great grandson, Ryan McIntosh; grandnephew, Kevin Place of Palm Desert, and grandnieces, Alisa Place of Washington, PA and Leanne Sanford of La Quinta. She was a dynamic, loving, kind, caring, generous, and devoted woman who will be very much missed by all who were fortunate enough to be loved by her. Graveside services will be held June 17th at Coachella Valley Cemetery at 9:00am. For further information contact Forest Lawn Mortuary of Cathedral City at 760-328-3140. Forest Lawn Memorial-Parks & Mortuaries. To view and sign this guestbook please visit mydesert.com/obituaries.

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Published by The Desert Sun from Jun. 15 to Jun. 17, 2011.

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Marlyne Adelsperger-Gonzalez

June 20, 2011

My sincere condolences to the McIntosh Family. I too recall sitting at the McIntosh Pharmacy fountain looking up at the pictures of our handsome Arab football team. When I graduated from CVUHS in 1961 I went to work as a switchboard operator at Calif. Water & Telephone Co. (as it was known in those days). Becky was our Chief Operator. She was such a beautiful lady and taught us wonderful work ethics.
God bless her and her whole family.

Chris Wheeler

June 17, 2011

My condolences to the McIntosh Family. I also used to go to McIntosh Pharmacy but would get cherry cokes. During high school and college breaks I would work at the Pharmacy, deliver prescriptions and later at the liquor stores. I knew Tom and would always kid around with Sherman, "Mr Mac" we would call him. My heart goes out to the family because I just lost my father also.

Kristen Brockman

June 15, 2011

My condolences to the family. Another pioneer gone. McIntosh Pharmacy seemed to be where we all gathered at the counter for cherry 7-Ups.......and to look at the pictures of the high school football players hanging on the wall. Great memories.

Lucy Diaz

June 15, 2011

Bessie you were not only a business women but a friend to many. You and your husband left many landmarks in Indio

Carol Brockman Castro

June 15, 2011

My condolences to the family. The McIntosh's go back such a long way. We lived across from Linda & Doug for many years and, of course, I spent every break that I got from Yellow Mart at either McIntosh Pharmacy lunch counter or Budge MacAllister's shoe store (well, many visits, also, to The Clothes Line!!)! Those truly were the days! God speed, Bessie, and I'm so glad you are there to look out for us all! Most sincerely,

Donna McIntosh

June 15, 2011

Everyone call her Becky. I called her "The Beck". She was an interesting character and we had several things in common. We both are the middle children of 5 kids; both our parents were very strict and we both married into the McIntosh Klan! She was my mother-in-law. And she was a good one! I could go to her and talk freely about almost any topic and she would always listen and share her experience and knowledge. She only lived two doors down, so we'd have her over for dinner several times to enjoy her company! She will be missed by her family who loved her very much! But, I believe she is in the best place possible now . . . heaven!

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