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Lilian Williams Obituary

Lilian Abrams Williams of Indio, Calif. died Friday, October 8, 2010 in the company of her family. Born in Gwen, Mich. on August 25, 1923 as the youngest daughter of Rose and Paul Abrams, Lil and her family migrated to the Coachella Valley in 1925 and soon became prominent business owners in the Indio community. Graduating from Coachella Valley High School in 1941, Lil helped run the family business before she married the love of her life, Bob, in 1948 and started her family. Lil managed The Clothesline for her mother, Rose and brother, Paul from the 1950's on and co-owned Bob William's Menswear and Bridal and Tuxedo with her husband. Somehow she found time to raise eight children, docent at the Indio Museum, and be an active member of the Indio Women's Club. Later in life, Lil spent time with her children and grandchildren and was active at the Indio Senior Center playing bridge and exercising at every opportunity. Her husband Bob of 62 years; and her son, Chris precede Lilian in death. She is survived by her daughter, Claudia and husband, Danny; her daughter, Patty and husband, Mark; her daughter, Kathleen and husband, Aram; her son, David; her son, Mark and wife, Patty; her twin daughters, Theresa and Nancy; her eight grandchildren and eleven great-grandchildren. A Memorial Mass will be held at Our Lady of Perpetual Help on Monday, October 18, 2010 at 11:00 AM followed by a celebration of life at Indian Palms Country Club, Indio.

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Published by The Desert Sun from Oct. 13 to Oct. 18, 2010.

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Laura Gilbert

October 20, 2010

My Prayers go out to the Williams Family, My mother worked at Clothesline in 1965 until my sister was born in 1967...I too worked at Clothesline back in 1980..and have many fond memories of Lil, Rose and Bob. May you be at peace during this time of passing. God Bless You Laura Gilbert and Gloria Wood

Teresa Grigsby Besse

October 18, 2010

To the Williams Family. Your Parents were the BEST. I loved waiting on them at Bank of Indio/Eldorado Bank. Lil helped me pick out my wedding dress and sold me my first pair of hip huggers and oh yes middrift too. I just loved Lil and Bob, Two great people.

October 18, 2010

To all of Lilian's family and friends. I send my sympathy to each of you. Lil always had a smile for everyone. I recall shopping at "The Clothesline with Lil and her mother, Rose. Also, at the Men's Shop. Later, Lil was always so happy to greet us at Harris Store in Indio. She loved all of her jobs and also was in Women's Club when I was a member. I will be thinking of you at the Memorial Mass. Sorry, I live so far away. My regards to all of you. Lil is at peace with God and in heaven with Bob and their son, Chris. God Bless you. Gwen Harlow, Medford,OR.

October 18, 2010

Elena and I send our condolences to the family on your mom's passing. We fondly remember her and your dad as neighbors and the visits to the stores. Best wishes and deepest sympathies, Nina Mandala

October 18, 2010

Dear Theresa and your family,
With deepest sympathy. Wishing you comfort and loving thoughts of your mother to hold within you heart. Love and prayers are with you and your family. Barbara Rosenberg (Rancho Mirage, CA)

Debby Hawes

October 17, 2010

Dear Williams family, its been a long time since I lived in Camelot, but I will never forget my time with your family. I was a child model with Clothesline with many of you. Your mom sold me my wedding dress and gave me my first babysitting job watching the twins! I will never forget any of you, especially your wonderful parents! Im sending you much love and prayer in this difficult time.

Beverly Bergh

October 17, 2010

My thoughts and prayers go out to the family. She will be missed .

Candi Vargas

October 16, 2010

My condolences go out to Theresa,Nancy and the rest of the Williams family . Your mother was such a kind woman. ~Candi Vargas~

October 16, 2010

Lil was my Godmother. She always had a warm smile and a hug. I loved my visits to Indio and of course she was a big part of that. I would see Lil as she faithfully attended our family's events in LA over the years. I look forward to getting to know all of my cousins better, as the family circle gets smaller and larger at the same time. Bill Saleebey, Hollywood

Susie Morales Larsen

October 15, 2010

I am so sorry to hear about your mom. My heart goes out to all of you. Your mom was one of the best people I knew. Working at Clothesline and your dad's store wrapping for Christmas were the funniest times. They were some of my best childhood memories. Your in my thoughts and prayers. Much Love

Robert & Priscilla Luna

October 14, 2010

Our long lasting memories of your Mom and Dad well never be forgotten. They were turely a couple to be Together~Forever, they will be missed and our hearts go out to the Williams family. Robert & Priscilla Luna

The Cousins

October 14, 2010

We Love you Grandma

Becky Brewer

October 14, 2010

The unforgetable days on Main St. in North Indio. I remember how patient your Mother was with not only her own children but with all of their friends too. Enjoyed working for her at The Clothesline. May all your wonderful memories help get you thru this difficult time.

Rose Marie Valencia-Castillo

October 13, 2010

Dear Claudia and family, how unfortunate we are going through this same sad time together. God be with you and the entire Williams family.

Mary Alice (Swenson) White

October 13, 2010

Your Mom was the absolute best at playing beauty shop! Claudia & I would sit in the hair chairs for seriously hours on end while she did our hair, and then our make up. It was the best of times. She's probably doing hair and make up in heaven right now! I remember her infectious smile and laugh - from home to OLPH to The Clothesline. She was such an energetic joy. I know words cannot express how much all of you miss her. My thoughts and prayers are with every one of you Kids and GrandKids. God bless your hearts. xoxoxoxoxoxo

Janet Wright

October 13, 2010

My heart goes out to all of you (kids/grandkids/great grandkids) Your Mom was the GREATEST. To her what was one more kid - she even took in us neighbor kids ... She will be truly missed.. Love, Hugs & Prayers Janet

October 13, 2010

My condolences to the Williams Family. I worked with Lil at Clothesline, and she was such a sweetheart. She helped pick out my wedding dress, too.
Kathy Carter

Carol (Brockman) Castro

October 13, 2010

Sending deepest sympathy. I have countless memories of the days when I worked at Yellow Mart, got paid, cashed my check and high-tailed it down to the Clothes Line where I spent it ALL! I can still see those outfits! Those were good times with truly great people. I hate to see these people pass, but I guess they cannot stay here forever. Our memories will serve us well. I have so many of them! How nice that Lil is back with the love of her life! That's a wonderful thing! God bless you all.

Theresa Williams

October 13, 2010

Momma I miss you so much....
Your with Dad and he's probably asking you to make him a sandwich!!!
I love you, Theresa

October 13, 2010

So many fond memories of your mom. As with many of us that grew up in Indio, Lil helped my mom and I picked out my wedding dress. I recall the slumber parties at your house in Camelot, always so much fun. My sincerest condolences to all of you. Debbie (Bryan) Keefe, Indio, CA

Barbara Escoto

October 13, 2010

My condolences go out to Lillian's family. Had the opportunity to work with her at Harris dept store. She was a wonderful and beautiful person.

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