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Robert Mellander Obituary

Robert P. Mellander, 89, of Palm Desert, Calif., passed away from consequences of a stroke at 8:45 PM, on Thursday, September 2, 2010. He was born Paul Robert Mellander on March 17, 1921, in Chicago, Ill., the son of Paul C. and Lydia Swenson Mellander. Bob grew up in St. Charles, Ill., graduating from St. Charles High School in 1939. He attended Glendale Junior College in California, and Augustana College in Rock Island, Ill., before serving in the U.S. Army. He made his home in Wheaton, Ill. and worked most of his life as an insurance broker in the Chicago area before he retired to Palm Desert in 1984. It was there that he met the love of his life, Delores Concoby. They were married on October 1, 1988. He was a passionate golfer, a member of Shadow Mountain Golf Club, and a proud member of AA for 35 years. In addition to his wife, Dee; he is survived by sons, Paul (Angeles) and Jeff; daughters, Beth (Jerry Oberndorfer), and Jane Brodt. He is also survived by step-children, Beth Concoby (Don Donoughe), and Gary Concoby (Barbara), with whom he was very close. Combined he is survived by 15 grandchildren, 22 great grandchildren, and three great great-grandchildren. He was preceded in death by his parents; sister, Lois; and an infant daughter, Paula. At his request, services will be private, and donations shall be made to a charity of your choice.

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Published by The Desert Sun from Sep. 9 to Sep. 14, 2010.

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Julie Concoby

June 11, 2024

Dear Delores,
Robert or as my dear son and your grandson calls him "Uncle Bob" was the only grandpa that Matt had the joy to know growing up, after Howard´s sad passing.
He was nothing but the kindest man in the world to our little boy.

Suzanne Lynn

September 15, 2010

I am so sorry to hear of Bob's passing. I will remember him fondly from seeing him for so many years at Shadow Mountain Golf Club.

My condolences to you and your entire family.

Suzanne

Veronica G

September 11, 2010

I just found out about Bob. My condolences and deepest sympathy go out to Dee and her entire family. I knew Bob from where I worked and he was the nicest man, always had a smile ready to give. Bob will be deeply missed.

Patti Travland

September 9, 2010

Bob was one of the good guys and will be missed. My deepest condolences to Dee and family. Patti Travland

Helen Shepard Petersen

September 8, 2010

I remember Bob well from our class of 1939 at St. Charles High School. I lost my husband about a year ago, so I know what you are going through. My deepest sympathy to you, Dee, and all the Mellander and Concoby families. Helen Shepard Petersen

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