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Thelma Toman Obituary

Thelma Toman, a 29 year resident of Desert Hot Springs, passed away in her home on August 14, 2010. Born in Sisseton, S.D. on February 11, 1929, she was preceded in death by her husband, George Toman. After moving from La Habra, Calif. to the desert, they were active in the American Legion, Moose Lodge, and VFW. She is survived by their son, Brian San Souci of Garland, Texas; and George's children, Maureen Owens, Tracey Johnson, and Jeff Toman of Washington; eleven grandchildren and two great-grandchildren. Thelma also leaves her sister, Bernice Weisler of Fresno, Calif.; and daughters, Patti Adams of Salem, Ore., and Chris Roath of Wildomar, Calif.; four grandchildren, and four great-grandchildren. Thelma was an avid boater, water skiing to Catalina back in-the-day. In recent years she enjoyed football and hockey from her living room. Always a gracious hostess, she valued her friends and family. Private interment has been arranged by Rose Mortuary. A Remembrance service will be held in Idyllwild, Calif. in October. In lieu of condolences, please make a donation to the Boy's and Girl's Club of Desert Hot Springs, Calif.

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Published by The Desert Sun from Sep. 10 to Sep. 15, 2010.

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joe weisler

September 17, 2010

Auntie was the only name I ever called her growing up and always. I didn't know her name was Thelma until I was older. Family only called her Mom or Auntie. She always had a smile and laughing all the time. She never had a harsh word for anyone. I love her so much and will be missed by us all. Joe & Mom ( her sister )

Keith Adams

September 16, 2010

I do miss her.

Lea Moore

September 16, 2010

A cheerful lady who always had something fun to talk about.

Elizabeth Adams

September 16, 2010

I will always remember spending summer days in the sun with my beloved grandmother.
We must not demean life by standing in awe of death. ~David Sarnoff

Patti Adams

September 16, 2010

I know Mom found comfort in Hope's note to her following George's death and appreciate the sentiment sent to us now. Patti

Chris Roath

September 13, 2010

I'll miss you, mom.
Love, Chris

Hope Cross

September 10, 2010

Thelma was such a sweet person, mentor, & supervisor. My thoughts are with the family she left behind. She was an amazing person.

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