Olivia Engel Obituary

Olivia Rose Engel

Olivia Rose Engel, 6, left Sandy Hook Elementary school and joined the angels in Heaven on December 14, 2012.
Born July 18, 2006 at Danbury Hospital to Shannon (Merlino) and Brian Engel, Olivia brought immediate joy to all those around her with her ever-present smile and adorably infectious giggle. Quickly growing from a happy, bouncing baby who clung tightly to her stuffed lamb into an enthusiastic, loving little girl who always wanted to do and see more, Olivia's zest for life began early. With help from her adoring parents, she quickly developed an affinity for all things fun. On any given afternoon, one could just as easily find Olivia twirling in a pink tutu in dance class, developing her swing on the tennis court, kicking the winning soccer goal, drawing, painting and gluing things in art class, or honing her inner songstress in her community musical theater class. The budding swimmer also loved to join her dad or grandpa on their boats, so she could explore the world from the water.
As Olivia continued to grow, she developed a love and affinity for math and reading, arts and crafts, and her parish. Participating in her church's CCD program and leading the family's Grace each evening were sources of great pride for Olivia, as was being a big sister. Ever patient, Olivia took joy in helping her three-year-old brother Brayden explore the world she'd grown to love. This smart, bubbly NY Yankee fan and Daisy Girl Scout would instantly light up a room with her humor, charm, and wit. She was a sweet and appreciative six-year-old with a lot to live for. Her physical loss will deeply be felt every day by those who loved her most, but her sparkly spirit will live on forever.
Olivia is survived by her parents Shannon and Brian, and brother Brayden, maternal uncle JR Merlino, grandmother Suanne Merlino, great grandmother Esther Galligan, paternal grandparents Christine and Richard Engel, as well as countless aunts, cousins, and close friends. Olivia has joined her maternal grandfather Jeffery Merlino in Heaven.
Olivia's wake is being held this Thursday, December 20, from 4 - 7 p.m. at Honan Funeral Home, 58 Main Street, Newtown, CT with her funeral Mass occurring Friday, December 21, at 1 p.m. at St. Rose of Lima Catholic Church at 46 Church Hill Road, Newtown, CT.
In lieu of flowers, contributions in Olivia's honor can be directed to the Newtown Park and Bark.

Published by The Hour on Dec. 19, 2012.
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Hopefully, Olivia,s smile is shining down on us and guiding people to use guns responsibly!!!

Theresa Dziatko

Friend

February 10, 2024

May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
AFFECTIONATELY AND SINCERELY
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Friend

February 7, 2024

Olivia, let your angelic light keep shining on our tortured world, which is in the clutches of this deadly corona virus!!!

Theresa Dziatko

Friend

December 18, 2020

Olivia and Family

As you walk with the Angels Olivia - May Your Rays Of Sunshine Surround Your Family & Send Them Your Warmth.

Thinking Of You

Heavenly Hugs
A Mom Of An Angel Cam

December 17, 2020

Keep watching over us in this terrible time,especially during this lenten season. It reminds us of the tragedy at your school, which took place during the Christmas Holiday season. We still remember!!!

Theresa Dziatko

April 4, 2020

My heart has dropped over the current COVID pandemic that's affecting the whole world. You would've been heartbroken by this...

Alex

April 2, 2020

Hey there...
Alex L.

February 19, 2020

Hi Olivia,
It still boggles my mind how you aren't here physically. The amount of grief your family endured after the tragedy comes to mind for me.
And you were a wonderful girl....

Alex

February 2, 2020

May God lovingly bless you!

Alex

December 29, 2019

It's hard to believe that 7 years have passed us by, but you are not forgotten. Merry Christmas here and in heaven. Keep looking down on us!!!

Theresa Dziatko

December 16, 2019

My family and I wish you a very Merry Christmas and a happy New Year in heaven.You and so many others have not been forgotten you are always in are hearts,thoughts and prayers.

Sandra Alastor

December 15, 2019

Prayers & blessings....

Alex

December 14, 2019

Danielle Utica NY

Danielle Brucker

June 27, 2019

Your light is still shining on all of us on this earth. Keep giving us hope!!!

Theresa Dziatko

June 27, 2019

Your light shines on, little angel.

June 25, 2019

July 18, 2018

July 16, 2018

Dear Olivia, It's been 5 almost 6 years since you went to heaven and left the legacy of your smile at such a young age, I did not know you personally, but I see you as an inspiring friend someone I can look up to you did so much for your young age, which makes me want to do certain things like you did too while I'm still young. Stay Smiling Little Angel!

JoJo

June 18, 2018

June 17, 2018

April 18, 2018

March 13, 2018

Danielle

February 7, 2018

February 6, 2018

Dear Olivia, it is now 5 years that you have been an angel watching over all of us on earth. You are giving guidance to all the young angels in your Christmas play at church this year. Hope is being sent to this world at this most glorious time of year!!! God Bless Us Everyone!!!

Theresa Dziatko

December 14, 2017

December 5, 2017

November 7, 2017

August 19, 2017

happy birthday olivia,love you

July 18, 2017

SWEET ANGEL......PRAYERS

Valenda Newell

June 20, 2017

Olivia may you remain in gods loving arms forever.

Brian

May 1, 2017

Easter is fast approaching and I've been busy participating in St Andrew's Passion Play. Seeing many young children performing, reminded me how you might have been involved in such Easter events. Keep smiling down on us!!!

Theresa Dziatko

April 15, 2017

happy easter olivia,love you

jimmy

April 13, 2017

love jimmy

james

March 11, 2017

merry xmass

james havens

December 16, 2016

It was nice seeing photos of your classmates and teachers on tv today. We all remember you and the event at Sandy Hook School 4 years ago. Olivia you are looking over us and your smile beams out the Christmas message of hope and peace!!!

Theresa Dziatko

December 15, 2016

love you jimmy

james havens

November 10, 2016

love you olivia jimmy

james havens

October 15, 2016

olivia went to the play wizard of OZ,know you would have loved it ,was thinking of you ,love jimmy

jimmy havens

September 12, 2016

lolly pops for you olivia ,from my heart to yours ,love always jimmy

jimmy havens

August 2, 2016

Happy Birthay to a beautiful angel, Olivia. Another year has passed and you are remembered by all. Your legacy is seen in your elementary school yearbook, the playground erected in your honor, and the many other rememberances. God is watching over you and the whole world!!!

Theresa Dziatko

July 18, 2016

happy birthday to olivia ,love you jimmy

jimmy havens

July 17, 2016

Erin

June 12, 2016

It was nice to hear that many of your classmates and all the adults are being remembered in your elementary school yearbook. How time flies! You would have been in that graduating first grade class!!! We'll always remember you.

Theresa Dziatko

June 11, 2016

you are always on my mind ,love jimmy

jimmy

June 6, 2016

love you jimmy

jimmy

May 11, 2016

Easter Blessings Olivia .. give my love to all the children and teachers.

Danielle

April 14, 2016

Danielle

April 14, 2016

love jimmy

jimmy

April 13, 2016

happy easter olivia ,a easter bonnet for you ,love jimmy

jimmy

March 23, 2016

My little girl Olivia Engel in their hearts will all way's be my words to share theose moments with the one we lost my heart will cry to you Olivia your heart will be my light to heaven someday.

John Cheeks

February 13, 2016

miss olivia happy valentines day to you ,love jimmy

jimmy

February 9, 2016

We will miss you little angle upon of us

Nevaeh Baldwin

February 6, 2016

always thinking of you olivia,love jimmy

jimmy

January 14, 2016

wishing olivia and her family a merry xmas, love jimmy

jimmy

December 17, 2015

Danielle

December 16, 2015

3 years have gone by and your beautiful face and soul are still in our thoughts. Your angelic being has joined with all the other angels to watch over us,guide us and pray for us and the whole world. We will always remember you!!!

Theresa Dziatko

December 14, 2015

On this Anniversay, your beautiful life is remembered. I know you are dancing with the Angels today.

Susan VanderWyden

December 14, 2015

bella

December 13, 2015

I know it's a little early but Happy Thanksgiving Olivia Rose.

sandra alastor

November 19, 2015

love you jimmy

jimmy

November 18, 2015

olivia engel with the sweet smile wishing you a happy halloween love you jimmy

jimmy

October 15, 2015

thinking of you today miss olivia, love you jimmy

jimmy

September 4, 2015

a candle for olivia rose engel

jimmy

August 5, 2015

I'm so sorry for the loss of your beautiful child. Keeping your family in prayer.

Natalie

July 29, 2015

Once again you're having another birthday in heaven. Your angelic spirit watches over your family, friends and the whole world. May that essence continually spread hope, peace, and joy!!!

Theresa Dziatko

July 18, 2015

Happy Birthday sweet Olivia!

Brenna

July 17, 2015

happy birthday to the sweet little girl with the great big beautiful smile,olivia rose engel,love you always jimmy

jimmy

July 17, 2015

olivia wishing your dad a happy fathers day ,love you jimmy

jimmy

June 17, 2015

for olivia ,love you jimmy

jimmy

May 13, 2015

olivia engel,happy easter,be thinking of you ,love jimmy,ps love your smile

April 1, 2015

olivia i wish you a happy valentines day ,love you jimmy

jimmy

February 10, 2015

I was so glad to hear that you have a new baby sister, Evelyn Rose. May this bond be an eternal connection between our earthly and heavenly realms. You will be able to guide her, and she will be a great comfort to you along with your brother, parents, grandparents and friends. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!!!

Theresa Dziatko

January 15, 2015

hey olivia , thinking of you on this winter day,i will always love your smile, jimmy

jimmy

January 14, 2015

I want to join others in expressing my sincere sympathy for your loss. Olivia was a beautiful, young girl. Two years has passed and even today, I'm pretty sure we all can still learning from her innocent curiosities. May our Heavenly Father continue strengthening the family and dear friends...for His eyes are upon those who are right at heart.

December 17, 2014

Please know many still remember you and your lovely little girl. As you continue to heal my your memory and the words of Psalm 147:3 "He heals the brokenhearted. Be a source of comfort.

Henderson

December 16, 2014

Two years have passed, Olivia. Your smile lives on in those who love you.

December 15, 2014

It has been two years since you and all the other little angles were taken.There isn't a day that goes by that i think what if.I just want to say have a Merry Christmas and all the other angles to.

sandra alastor

December 15, 2014

Ana was a cute, little girl. Two years has passed, but her innocence still remains among those who loved her, as well as to cherish every memory of her. My thoughts are still with Ana's family. May our loving God continue giving you all comfort and endurance to cope with your loss, and (John 5:29) be assured that our Lord will keep her memory close to him.

December 15, 2014

Rest in peace. God Bless your loved ones and help them through these difficult times.

Margaret

December 14, 2014

It has been 2 years that you have been looking down us from heaven May all worldly and heavenly prayers join together to end senseless violence and bring peace on earth, especially during this blessed season!

Theresa Dziatko

December 13, 2014

R.I.P. Olivia, and may God bless your family.

Carole Ann Davis

December 13, 2014

Thoughts and prayers of healing for Olivia's family and friends - RIP
Karen D

December 13, 2014

Rest in Peace

Scott Chamberland

December 12, 2014

olivia engel, two years this sunday ,two years of tears ,always love your smile jimmy

jimmy

December 10, 2014

Thinking of you and your family today little Angel.

Karen

November 24, 2014

R.I.P. Olivia, and may God bless your family.

Carole Ann Davis

November 23, 2014

It was nice to hear that all 26 of you are being honored separately each day until Dec. 14. I will be thinking of you during this holiday season.

Theresa Dziatko

November 22, 2014

be thinking of you olivia On thanksgiving, love jimmy

jimmy

November 19, 2014

love you jimmy

jimmy

October 15, 2014

love you jimmy

jimmy

September 11, 2014

thinking of you olivia, love and miss you ,jimmy

jimmy

August 14, 2014

R.I.P. Olivia, and may God bless your family.

Carole Ann Davis

July 23, 2014

Happy Birthday to you!! Happy Birthday to you!! Singing joyfully !! our blessed mother is putting her protective arms around you!!

Theresa Dziatko

July 19, 2014

HAPPY BIRTHDAY OLIVIA ROSE, I THINK OF YOU ALL THE TIME

Derek

July 18, 2014

Danielle

July 18, 2014

olivia rose engel, the sweet girl with the great smile, i wish you a happy birthday .you are my beautiful sunshine, we all love and miss you ,jimmy

jimmy

July 18, 2014

Happy Heavenly Birthday, sweet angel. RIP

Amy

July 17, 2014

Wishing you a happy birthday on Friday sweet angel!

Brenna

July 15, 2014

Praying for your family,

Susan

July 2, 2014

R.I.P. Olivia, and may God bless your family.

Carole Ann Davis

July 1, 2014

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