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Troy Whittemore Obituary

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Matthew

Troy Matthew Whittemore, a lifelong resident of Ithaca, passed away at home with his loving family by his side on Thursday, April 17, 2014 at the age of 23. Born in Ithaca on June 28, 1990, Troy was the son of Matthew Whittemore and Jodie Meyers. After graduating from Ithaca High School in 2008, Troy attended Tompkins Cortland Community College and received his AS degree in Criminal Justice in 2010. In the Fall of 2010, Troy was admitted to SUNY Cortland and began work toward his BS, and even though he encountered obstacles he never stopped pursuing his degree. Troy was inducted into the Alpha Phi Sigma National Criminal Justice Honor Society in 2013. Troy's lifelong goal was to be a NYS Trooper. Troy is survived by his loving brother, Trevar Max, who will greatly miss Troy's presence, along with aunts, uncles, cousins, second cousins and many very special friends. Troy will be welcomed to heaven by his Grammy (Shirley Meyers), Papa (Roland Meyers) and grandmother (Beverly Brooks), his great grandmothers and very special friends, Dick and Fran Ramin, whose family continued to play such a special part in his life after their death. It is of great comfort to our family to know that Troy will be reunited with his best friend, Christopher Bordoni, who he missed so much since his untimely death in 2012 after being wounded in Afghanistan while serving as a United States Marine. Troy had the good fortune to work with the Cornell Police as a member of its Auxiliary Police and part-time for two summers at Bolton Point in Lansing where he made some very special friends. Golf was truly a passion of Troy's after being introduced to the game through a summer camp program at a local golf course when he was twelve. Troy was a member of the Ithaca High School and TC3 golf teams. Troy was also an avid hunter and enjoyed shooting any and all types of guns. Troy was a very special young man and good friend to all who knew him. His family and friends were an important part of his life and you could always count on him to make you laugh. We were blessed to have him in our life, but are deeply saddened by his passing at such an early age, with so many things left he wanted to experience. A memorial service will be held on Saturday, April 26 at 2:00PM at the Danby Federated Church, 1859 Danby Road, Danby NY. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to a scholarship fund which will be set up in memory of Troy at Ithaca High School. Donations to the Troy Whittemore Memorial Scholarship can be sent in c/o Mike Kasel at 320 Elm Street, Ithaca NY 14850. Bangs Funeral Home will be assisting the family.

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Published by Ithaca Journal from Apr. 19 to Apr. 24, 2014.

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Therese Yacobelli

January 10, 2024

Hello. This is Mrs. Zadi- TrevorĀ“s kindergarten teacher. I was thinking about Trevor today, just randomly wondering how he is doing, and I happened upon his brotherĀ“s obituary. I am so sorry to hear this sad news. This is so sad and my heart goes out to Trevor. You know that he was my favorite. Please reach out to me if you can. My email is [email protected]. I would like to hear how Trevor is doing.

Jackie Hopkins

May 20, 2014

truly sorry for your lost. in my prayers

Annemiek Haralson

May 5, 2014

I'm so sorry for your loss! I remember Troy as a kid, and his wonderful smile. There are no words, so sad.

MA

April 30, 2014

I am truly sorry for your loss. He sounded like a young man with dreams waiting to be fulfilled. We all look forward to the day when he can be seen again. John 11: 25,26

Sue (Chamberlain) Sullivan

April 28, 2014

Jodie
My heart is breaking for your family. I am so sorry to hear of Troy's passing. May you find comfort and peace in your memories and the love of your family and friends. You are in my prayers.

Michael Kobre

April 26, 2014

RIP Troy Whittemore... You where an Awesome neighbor, friend and student. Jody, Matt and Trevor, so sorry for your loss, my deepest condolences. Betting Troy and Christopher Bordoni are living it up together above us.

Doug Griffen

April 26, 2014

matt and Jodie I am so sorry to hear of your loss

Harold Shoemaker

April 25, 2014

Matt And Jody
I am very sorry for your loss of Troy,please accept our deepest Sympathies.

Lorraine Pruitt

April 24, 2014

Jodie,
I am so sorry to hear of Troy's passing. I have heard so many wonderful things about Troy from my sister Jeanette. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. May the beautiful memories you have of your precious boy give you peace and comfort in the days ahead.

April 24, 2014

Matt and Jodie...How sad I was to read about your beloved Troy. I remember his grandmother Shirley being on cloud nine the day he was born! I'm sure you've had some wonderful days and years with Troy; he sounds like a wonderful son and brother. My sincerest sympathy to you and Trevar. Louise McEwen

April 24, 2014

My heart goes out to you for your deep loss you must be feeling for your beloved Troy. How sad to lose someone so loved and so needed. May you find comfort in prayer and in one another. (Jeremiah 29:12,13)

jennie & tanya oltz

April 24, 2014

Matt and Jody,
We are so very sorry for your loss. youre family is in our thoughts

Jacqueline Wright

April 24, 2014

May this handsome angel soar to the heavens and rest in peace. Please accept my deepest sympathies.

Tamme Suggs

April 23, 2014

Matt & Jodie:

I was so sorry to read about your son. I have you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.

God Bless,

Tamme Egan Suggs

Kate Connor

April 23, 2014

Jodie, Matt, & Trevar - I am so very sorry for your loss. Troy was and is such an inspiration to me. I feel so blessed to have been able to be in his presence. He will always hold a very special place in my heart. Love to you all.

Kate Connor

Julius and Linda Rutty

April 23, 2014

Matt and Jody,
We are so very sorry for your loss. We didn't know Troy, but have heard many good things about him. Its truly a great loss. Julius and Linda Rutty

Christine Finnigan

April 23, 2014

I am deeply saddened to read this. Troy was one of my very favorite students in all my years teaching at Enfield School.

lary newby

April 22, 2014

J
odie and matthew iam so sorry for your loss. my prayers are with you and your family at this time

Rachel Giordano

April 22, 2014

Jodie and Family,

I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your son Troy. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Lyman Baker

April 22, 2014

The Veteran Volunteer Firemen's Association members send their condolences to the Whittemore family.

Nick and Sandy McCabe

April 22, 2014

Dear Matt and Jodie,

We are so saddened for your loss. May your most precious memories bring you peace and comfort in the days ahead.

With our deepest sympathy,

Randy Poyer

April 21, 2014

Matt & Jodi, the years seem to pass so quickly now,from our early days.... yet the memories are still vibrant... after learning of your son passing I was deeply saddened knowing how your hearts must be grieving... my prayers will be always with you, yours and Troy...

Susan Bard

April 21, 2014

Matthew and Jodie, So sorry to hear of your loss. Thoughts and prayers, Faith and strength to get through. Amen

Amy Ruta

April 21, 2014

I am so saddened to hear of Troy's passing! My heart goes out to both of you.

Scott & Cindy

April 21, 2014

Matt & Family
Our hearts go out to you at this time and in the days ahead.

Jackie Kippola

April 21, 2014

Matt and Family,
I'm so sorry for your loss and pray warm thoughts for you.

Margo Umholtz

April 21, 2014

Matt and family,
I am sorry to hear of Troy's passing. May it comfort you to know that even though we are miles apart, that I still try keep up with my Tompkins County friends. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.

Jimmy Bower

April 21, 2014

Dear Whittemore Family:

I had the pleasure of working with Troy while he was at Bolton Point. He was a very exceptional person. Troy was one of the most positive and motivated people I have met. He came to work every day with a smile on his face and took great pride in his work. Troy showed a lot of quality characteristics that are not often found in people his age. Sorry for your loss.

Bob Spencer

April 20, 2014

Matt and Jodi so sorry for you loss.

Kathy FOX

April 20, 2014

Matt and Jodie,
No one should ever have to loose a child.Please take some consolation in knowing what wonderful, loving parents you were to Troy and that his
his memory will live forever in your hearts. With my deepest sympathy,
Kathy Fox

Jack Bush

April 19, 2014

Matt,

May your happy memories with Troy help you through this difficult time. God Bless.

Lisa S

April 19, 2014

Went to elementary school with Troy and ive lost touch with him since high school and I was extremely saddened to hear he passed away. Someone so young with so much life it is extremely sad. I will be praying for his family especially his parents. No parent deserves to see their son pass. I wish the best for his family and I will be praying for him.

Kevin and MIchelle Fullagar

April 19, 2014

My husband and I had met Troy through working at the CU police Auxilary. We would like to extended our deepest sympathies to his family and friends. He was always so nice to work with and this is such sad time for anyone who knew Troy. A life cut way too short.

Bill fox

April 19, 2014

Matt and Jody troy will be missed what a great kid had so many good times and laughs together but now he is in a much better place no more suffering. God bless

Michael & Kelly Rogers

April 19, 2014

Matt And Family So Sorry For Your Loss Our Thoughts And Prayer Are With You All.

Rich Sundquist

April 19, 2014

I am deeply saddened to hear of your loss.

Brett Emilo

April 19, 2014

Matt and Jodie, I'm very sorry for your loss.Troy is in a better place now and my heart goes out to you and your family.Rest in peace Troy.

Trisha Combs

April 19, 2014

troy and i went to graid school and midle and highschool togeather ... he made us laugh in high school math all the time... ayou will be missed troy alot i will remember the good times in high school with u...

Ardell and Jack Allen

April 19, 2014

Matt, Jodie and Trevor, our heartfelt condolences go out to all of you. We think of all of you often and some of our best memories of the house on Hayts Rd. were of all of you! Especially the Easter Egg hunts; remember how Troy and his buddies pranked us all? He was a great kid and the wonderful memories you have will keep him with you forever. God bless!

April 18, 2014

Jodie - I am so sorry for your loss. All of you are in my prayers.
John McKeown

Jeanne Boodley-Buchanan

April 18, 2014

Matt & Jodie, My heart breaks for you and the loss of your son. Please know that many who you do not see everyday have you in their thoughts and prayers. Much love

Tom, Lynn & Kaitlyn Fox

April 17, 2014

Troy has blessed our lives more than he will ever know. So young, so brave and so strong. Rest peacefully, Troy boy.

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