BORN

1934

DIED

2017

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Carol Brentlinger Obituary

Brentlinger, Carol A.

Carol A. Brentlinger of Ithaca, NY passed away June 12th, 2017 at her home. Carol was born on February 27, 1934 in Wilmington DE. She married John Brentlinger of Chadds Ford, PA and moved to Ithaca in 1978, where they spent many years traveling the world sport and fly fishing. Carol's record sailfish that she caught in Costa Rica is on display at Cornell University where both Carol and John were very much involved. After John passed away in 1996, Carol became an Ombudsman for the State of NY, and volunteered as a loadmaster on a B-17 crew with the Commemorative Air Force - Arizona Wing who toured the iconic World War 2 aircraft "Sentimental Journey".

Carol is survived by her sister, Anna May Davis of Manassaas Virginia; brother, Robert Talarowski of Mission Viejo, California; son, Andrew L. Mitchell, Jr. of Kennett Square, PA and his children Gabrielle, Aly, and Talon; Daugther, Donna Ignasz of Smyrna, DE, her daughter, Lauren Riley and Carol's great grandson, Nathan of Dover, DE. She was predeceased in death by her son, Kenneth Mitchell, survived by his daughters, Jessica, Angela, McCawley and Jaclynne, all of Wilimington, DE. She is also survived by her great grandsons, Ryder, Benjamin and Landon. Carol is also predeceased by her brother, Bill Talarowski. She leaves behind many nieces, nephews and close friends.

At Carol's request, there will be no services and she requests no flowers. Her final wish was having her ashes scattered in a private ceremony at Treman State Park in Ithaca, NY.

Published by Ithaca Journal from Jun. 23 to Jun. 26, 2017.
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We miss this beautiful lady so much she still brings such wonderful memories and has shared so much with us. Her wonderful stories were always so interesting and when you spoke she was always focused listening to what you were saying. A very gracious lady and we miss her so much.

scott and judith ADAMS

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June 10, 2019

Carol had such strength, generosity, and good sense. What a vibrant, courageous person. I miss her and am grateful for the chance to have known her.

alice fulton

July 13, 2017

So very sad to hear of the passing of Carol. She was such a warm and caring person. I used to love teasing about Cornell vs. Harvard. I smile knowing she has just convinced God to take off his Crimson hat and don Cornell colors. :<0) My thoughts and prayers are with the entire family during this difficult time. May you rest comfortably with Mitch in the loving arms of God. With deepest sympathy!

Bill Greto, Jr.

June 28, 2017

Carol was a remarkable person and a remarkable, true friend who stood by us in our difficult times, even as she faced tragedy and sorrow. She was a wonderful cook and a gracious, vivacious host, and kept a beautiful, welcoming home. She was a gifted story teller with many stories to tell from her travels and life adventures, and had a wonderful sense of humor. She adored and was very proud of her grandchildren. For all these things, and especially for her kindness and her warmth, we will miss her.

Robert Thorne and Syau-Cheng Lai

June 24, 2017

Carol I will truly miss your stories and of course all the goodies you made for me over the past five years, you became a good friend. I hope someday to see you again. I am sure you will have a lot to tell me. Until then I will miss you, Tama Stotts

Tama Stotts

June 24, 2017

I was a caregiver for John and supplemented the care that Carol provided for him. Over the years since John passed, I would meet her in a store and catch up on family news and learn how she was providing support care to others. Please accept my condolences .............

Diane Dougherty

June 23, 2017

A great and fascinating lady! I always loved hearing her stories of her 'Sentimental Journey' adventures.

Peter Lees

June 23, 2017

Such a classy dear friend. Enjoyed seeing her driving in her sporty car. Loved her stories we could talk about anything..and we did. She will truly be missed.
Lori Carr
Ithaca

June 23, 2017

Such a dear classy wonderful person. Loved to see her driving her sporty car. So enjoyed her stories.. we could talk about anything and we did. She will be truly missed.
Lori Carr
Ithaca

June 23, 2017

Rest in peace, Mom

Donna

June 21, 2017

The most wonderful friend and woman we have ever met. She will be missed dearly and our lives have been enriched just knowing her. She has been a great comfort for us and I'm sure all who have had the privilege of knowing her.

judith and scott adams

June 20, 2017

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