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Bruce Hoefer Obituary

Bruce Reginald Hoefer, age 90, died April 20, 2015. He was born in Sheboygan, Wisconsin on April 10, 1925, attended Dwight School in New York City, and graduated from Northwood School in Lake Placid, NY. He attended Yale University and graduated from The United States Naval Academy, class of 1947, as Lieutenant junior grade. After receiving his Masters in Business Administration in Marketing from Columbia University in 1953, he was specially trained in foreign languages at the Naval Intelligence School. He remained in the U.S. Naval Reserve for years. He was a former Commander of the Louisiana Commandery, Military Order of Foreign Wars. He owned and operated Bruce R. Hoefer Advertising covering the Gulf South. He had a love for tennis and he could be found on the tennis courts of the New Orleans Lawn Tennis Club weekly, when not traveling. He was a long time member of the Pickwick Club and was Founder and first President of The Essex Club of New Orleans. He traveled the world with his wife, and was versed in several foreign languages, played the mandolin and the piano, and enjoyed family trips to Destin. He was known for his dry humor and for being quite a gentleman. He is survived by his wife of 63 years, Mathilde Conway Farrell Hoefer, and three sons and two daughters, Mathilde Hoefer Leary (Joe), Bruce R. Hoefer, Jr. (Libby), Richard F. Hoefer, Jezznette Hoefer Wilcox (Jim), and Karl E. Hoefer (Lisa) and by eight grandchildren, Bruce III, Grace, Conway, Claire, Jim IV, Hayley, Margaux, and Karl Jr. He was predeceased by his parents Ernst Hoefer and Jezznette Frooks Hoefer, his brother Ernst Hoefer, Jr., and his sister Enid Hoefer Lowe. The family thanks his special care-givers for the kindness and loving attention they gave him. Relatives and friends are invited to attend a Christian Service at LAKE LAWN METAIRIE FUNERAL HOME, 5100 Pontchartrain Blvd. (in Metairie Cemetery) on Tuesday, April 28, 2015 at 1:00 PM. Visitation will begin at 11:00 AM. Interment will follow in Metairie Cemetery. To view and sign the family guestbook, please visit www.lakelawnmetairie.com.

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Published by The New Orleans Advocate from Apr. 24 to Apr. 28, 2015.

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Richard Hoefer

April 11, 2024

Time moves on. It´s about 9 years now since my father passed. I´m reminded of him today because it´s his birth day. I often think of him but today I really miss him. So many things of a practical matter he tried many times to teach me but my brain resisted. I so wish that wasn´t the case. Thankfully most of his stealthy comedic methods and mannerisms for conveying information in the most peculiar of ways were injected into all of us kids and grandkids so that legacy continues.
Love you Dad!


Richard

May 2, 2015

Deepest sympathy, Mathilde, to you and your children at this sad time.
May the Peace of the Lord comfort each of you in your grief.
With fond wishes to all,
Diana Parham

April 29, 2015

Dear Hoefer family,

Our deepest sympathy and heartfelt condolences for your loss. We hope you all find peace and comfort in your memories and knowing that others care. May God give you the strength you need during this difficult time.
Thinking of you all with love,
Susan and Chuck Ives

Janet Duval

April 28, 2015

Dear Mrs. Hoefer, Mathilde, Bruce, Richard, Jezznette and Karl,
Please know my thoughts and prayers are with you all. He has a wonderful family that I am certain gave him much love and fun. What a full life! Please forgive my absence today; I could not leave the courthouse as we are in trial.

With my deepest condolences,
Janet Daley Duval

Billy Good

April 28, 2015

Karl,
Sorry for your loss. He had a good life. I hope I can live till I am 90.

April 28, 2015

I have fond memories of my tennis days with Bruce. Lucie and I send condolences.

Mark Dudley

April 28, 2015

Karl, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My prayers are with you and your family.

John Rice

April 28, 2015

I was very sorry to hear about Mr. Hoefer's death. He lived a beautiful life and leaves a wonderful legacy. My thoughts and prayers are with the Hoefer family.

Joseph Souhlas

April 27, 2015

To the entire Hoefer family I wish my deepest condolences for your lost. Our prayers are with you all at a time like this.

Leslile Morris

April 27, 2015

Very sorry for your loss. Your father sounds like he led a full and happy life.

April 27, 2015

Mathilde,
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Laura and Hughes Drumm, Jr.

April 26, 2015

So deeply sorry for your loss. May your hearts find comfort from Gods MARVELOUS future promises. 1 Cor.15,26

Robin Richmond

April 26, 2015

We are so sorry for your loss.
Robin and Randy Richmond

Liz Montero

April 25, 2015

I am so sorry for your loss

Linda Diaz

April 25, 2015

Dear Hoefer Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you all on the loss of your dear husband and father. I have fond memories of him from our days of growing up on Loyola St. next to my grandparents. May you all find peace and strength in the coming days.

Denegre Martin

April 25, 2015

heartfelt condolences to the Hoefer family and to my friend Karl. Your dad was a titan amongst men. He will surely be missed...May he be enjoying Paradise right now.

April 25, 2015

Gary and I are so sorry to learn of the passing of your dear husband. Please know that you and your family are in our prayers. Louise K. Schaefer

April 24, 2015

Jezznette and Karl,
Please accept our deepest sympathies. Your family will be in our prayers.
Charlotte Hailey Dorion

Andree Batt

April 24, 2015

Dear Hoefer Family,
We are so sorry for your loss. You will all be in our thoughts and prayers.
Andree and Jay Batt

April 23, 2015

Karl,

I am so sorry to hear of your fathers' passing. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

Joe Mangiapane

Harriet Rouhana

April 23, 2015

Dear Mrs. Hoefer, Mathilde, Bruce, Richard, Jezznette and Karl,
I am sorry to hear of Mr. Hoefers passing. He will be missed and fondly remembered as a kind friend of our parents and our entire family. May God Bless you and your family at this time.
Love and Prayers,
Harriet Hailey Rouhana

Gary Mannina

April 23, 2015

Bruce and Karl,

Sorry to read of your loss.

Prayers upward sent.

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