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Reader, Jeffery Darwin

Jeffery Darwin Reader, 57, of Fond du Lac, passed away unexpectedly on Friday, January 18, 2013, at St. Agnes Hospital with his family by his side. He was born on November 11, 1955, in Fond du Lac, the son of Gerald and Marguerite "Muggsy" (Wacholz) Reader. On June 23, 1984, he married Kathleen "Kathy" Kramer in Fond du Lac. Jeff was a graduate of San Diego State University with a degree in Journalism with an emphasis in advertising. He worked a long career at many area newspapers with his most recent being at the Sheboygan Press.

"Skee" was an avid sports fan, especially the Green Bay Packers; he was a shareholder. He enjoyed playing softball, bowling, golfing, and deer hunting. "Meff", a former chef, was passionate about cooking and spending time with friends and family and his cat, Tucker.

SURVIVORS: His wife, Kathy, two children, Brandon Jeffery, Nicole Kathleen, his parents, Jerry and Muggsy, one brother, Ken (Sue) Reader, all of Fond du Lac, and other relatives and friends.

VISITATION: Wednesday, January 23, 2013, from 3 to 6 p.m. at Faith Ev. Lutheran Church, 55 N. Prairie Rd, Fond du Lac. FUNERAL: Wednesday, January 23, 2013, at 6 p.m. at Faith Ev. Lutheran Church, with Reverend David Haugly officiating. Cremation will follow the traditional services. Interment will take place at a later date at Shrine of Rest Mausoleum, Ledgeview Memorial Park.

He was the best husband, father, son, brother, and friend that anyone could ask for. He is loved by many family and friends.

Additional information and guestbook can be found at www.ueckerwitt.com

Uecker-Witt Funeral Home is in charge of arrangements.

Published by Oshkosh Northwestern on Jan. 21, 2013.
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Wow, this is really unbelievable. I worked with Jeff in Oshkosh 15 years ago and I've been thinking about him lately, perhaps this is why. Never thought when I Googled him today that I'd find this. The thing that kept coming to my mind recently was the interaction he used to have with another Northwestern co-worker (who also passed too soon), Greg DeBroux. Greg used to talk shop about ads with Jeff and after Jeff had left and gone down the hall, Greg would call him back. When he returned, Greg would always ask: "Hey Jeffy, how far would you be if I hadn't called you back?" And Jeff always knew it was coming but he played along anyway (sometimes even saying the words along with his jolly tormentor). He was a good man and a fun person to be around. While I haven't seen him in a long time, I know the world is a little emptier without him. "How far would you be, Jeffy?" I'm betting somewhere just past the pearly gates.

Mark Engel

April 17, 2013

I am so sorry for your loss I've been sitting home for 6 weeks after back surgery just found out today shocked he was always so pleasant will miss him at shuffs last resort

Jim & Diane shufflebotham

February 13, 2013

My thoughts and prayers go to Kathy, Brandon and Nicole. I had the pleasure to work with Jeff at the Press. He could always make me laugh and was one of the sweetest person around. Jeff was more than just my advertising teammate, he was someone I called my friend. He will be so very missed and from the number of people who attended his service, he was very loved...Going to miss ya Jeff!!

Eileen Hoffmann

January 25, 2013

To a friend that made the advertising world fun. We switched position, you to the Reporter and I to the North Western. I enjoyed all the times we worked together. Rest in peace my friend until we meet again.

John Helz

January 24, 2013

Jeff, you were one of the kindest men I have ever known. I will always remember your laugh and smile. You lit up any room, you walked into. I am so thankful I got to work with you at The Reporter. I am also glad to call you my friend. You will be missed! RIP...

Pamela Svec

January 23, 2013

Kathy, I am so sorry for your loss.

Susan Clarke

January 23, 2013

I had the pleasure of working with Jeff at both the Northwestern and the Reporter. His knowledge of the newspaper advertising industry was second to none and sitting across the desk from him was so much fun.
He always had a smile or something funny to say to make a tough day better. I will miss you my friend. You are gone too soon. My prayers go out for your family.

Connie Drexler

January 23, 2013

Kathy, my deepest sympathy to you and your children. You and Jeff were always an inspiration.

Julie Welsch

January 23, 2013

Jeff had a shining personality that I think everybody that knew him saw. He will be deeply deeply missed by so many people and that is just a testament to his character. Such a fun, outgoing, enthusiastic guy. I only had the liberty of knowing Jeff for the past year and I am a better person because of it. I feel deeply for his family and everyone that knew and loved him. We love you Jeff.

Zach

January 23, 2013

I feel so blessed to have worked with you at The Reporter, as many can attest to. You were such an amazing, good hearted man that will be missed tremendously by many. You were taken too soon. Many prayers and condolences to your family.

Chelsea McKay

January 23, 2013

Jeff was a shining light no matter where he was and always had a ready smile for everyone. He will be deeply missed by many. My thoughts and prayers to his loved ones.

Colleen Kottke

January 23, 2013

Please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers.

George and Kay Sell

January 23, 2013

Diane and I were saddened to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers go out to all.

Richard Gjertson

January 23, 2013

I was shocked to hear of Jeff's passing. I knew him as a fellow member of the Town of Fond du Lac planning commission. We spent a lot of time sharing stories about the Kramer fmily and Winnebago Farms Dairy. We will all miss his thoughtful input. My sincere sympathies to the family.

January 23, 2013

My deepest sympathy to Jeff's family. I worked with Jeff at the Post-Crescent and he was such a kind wonderful man. It was a true honor to have known him. He has touched and made so many lives better. My prayers to out to all of his family. Rest in peace Jeff.

Ruth Gilkey

January 23, 2013

We are so Blessed to have spent New Years Eve with You and Kathy. You both are dear friends. Our Prayers go out to The Reader Family. I'm sorry I did't use the big ... plates.We will miss you dear friend
Ken and Ann Reinke

January 22, 2013

My prayers are with you Kathy.

sue Backhaus

January 22, 2013

Jeff was a very special man and will be missed by everyone who knew him. Our deepest sympathy -

Steve & Sandy Dankert

January 22, 2013

Mark and I share your grief. Please let us know if we can help you in any way during this sad time.

Erin Stahl

January 22, 2013

The entire DealChicken family sends our condolences to Jeff's family. We are deeply saddened to hear of his passing and hope they are able to find peace.

Jo Hettwer

January 22, 2013

I feel blessed to have known Jeff as a great friend and coworker. He was my rock at every event and fundraiser. Always telling me "We will make our goal". And we did. Remember the 1000 brats? His smile, his laugh and the great memories are forever in our hearts.

Tami Whicher

January 22, 2013

Thoughts and prayers to Jeff's family. Jeff was a great guy and I enjoyed working with him at The Reporter. You will be missed, Jeff.

Michelle Olson

January 22, 2013

Jeff was a very good friend of mine, and will be Remembered and Missed by all. He always had a smile for everyone. SINCERE SYMPATHY to Kathy, Brandon & Nicole

Wesley Walther

January 21, 2013

I'm so sorry for your loss. I enjoyed talking with Jeff the short time I got to know him. I am deeply saddened at his passing.

Tammy CNA

January 21, 2013

I've known Jeff for a number of years but never worked closely with him until he agreed to come and work at The Sheboygan Press. I feel blessed to have worked with him. He was so upbeat, so positive and he truly enjoyed helping his customers. We're all going to miss him. My deepest condolences to his wife and children.

Lowell Johnson

January 21, 2013

To know you was a pleasure. You will be dearly missed.

Courtney and Travis Smith

January 21, 2013

Jeff was a great friend in high school, one of the good guys. I have so many memories right now. I am so sorry for your loss. I know he will be deeply missed.

Ellen Pieper

January 21, 2013

It was great working with Jeff at Fond du Lac's Action / Reporter. You always greeted me with a smile and were fun to work with. After our careers changed and our paths crossed there was always a "Hows it going"! You will be missed.
My thoughts and prayers go out to Jeff's loving family.

Steve Wendt

January 21, 2013

We shared many laughs at many meetings while I was with the Herald Times Reporter in Manitowoc. Super guy and so sorry for your lost.

Susan Bartels

January 21, 2013

To the family, There wasn't a better "newspaper guy" than Jeff. He was more than a co-worker, but a friend. One of the greatest compliments from his customers was how he helped their business grow. Jeff, "keep the presses runnin" in heaven.

Dave Liebelt

January 21, 2013

Jeff, my bowling buddy and friend...you were one of the best. Your smile and kindness was so transparent. My prayers are with you Kathy and kids, God bless you all..love ya, Lindee

January 21, 2013

Easy to talk to, easy to laugh with....
Jeff's friendship was a treasure, genuine and true. This remarkable guy will be remembered by many. Deepest condolences to his loving family.

Paul Krasin

January 21, 2013

Our thoughts and prayers to the Reader family. Jeff was someone you could always count on whenever you needed help with anything whether it was cooking brats, putting up a tent for an event or just needed a good laugh. We will cherish our memories hanging out with Jeff and working with him at The Reporter.
Jennifer & Eric Sorenson

Jennifer Sorenson

January 21, 2013

I am so saddened by your loss. Know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Vi Lamers

January 21, 2013

Jeff i am so glad to have had the opportunity to meet you and Kathy. For all the stories that were told i would have never really understood how much fun you and my Jeff had back in the good ole days. You were truly a good friend and a very loving and caring person. Kathy and your children are very fortunate to have a wonderful husband and father as you were. Always a smile and a great sense of humor to go with that smile. You will be deeply missed by Greeno and myself. Rest in peace Jeff and God watch over Kathy and Family and we pray for peace and comfort at this very sad time. Rest in Peace Jeff. You will never be forgotten. Jeff Greeno and Rachel

Rachel Weber

January 21, 2013

Jeffy always had a smile for everyone.

Patty Tharp

January 21, 2013

My thoughts and prayers go out to the Reader family. May you find comfort in the Lord during this difficult time.

Meghan Ryan

January 21, 2013

It was my privilege to work with Jeff while at the Reporter. He was a joy to work with and very creative. He was supportive and super nice to everyone. How sad today is for so many people. Linda Rescheske

January 21, 2013

I worked with Jeff @ The Reporter. He was such a great guy w/ a great sense of humor. My thoughts & prayers go out to your family.

katie keifenheim

January 21, 2013

Thinking of your family in this very difficult time.

Sherri & Jeff Bucher

January 21, 2013

Jeff, you always helped when help was needed, gave advice when advice was needed and told the stories we loved to hear. I'll miss you my friend sorry to see you leave us so early.

Todd Sharp

January 21, 2013

Jeff & Claire Tadman Family

January 21, 2013

OUR PRAYERS ARE WITH FAMILY AND FRIENDS.

Ralph and Joan Leisten

January 21, 2013

Jeff was a friend and an incredible colleague. His infectious laugh and sense of humor will be always be a part of my memories. Anyone who knew him is blessed. My love to Kathy and the kids.

Lani Dorlack

January 21, 2013

Jeff, you will truly be missed! We will miss your great sense of humor and friendliness. I especially remember our chats as "Brandon's Dad" and "Jake's Mom." It was nice to compare child-rearing notes and encourage/console each other as needed! The Lord must have had plans for you in Heaven to have taken you so soon. Our loss is His gain!

Jana Fraser

January 21, 2013

Jeff was a great coworker to me and I will miss him greatly. Kathy and family you have mine and Connie's sympathy

Scott and Connie Olson

January 21, 2013

My thoughts and prayers go out to the Reader family. May the Lord be with you and give u strength during this rough time.

Abby berg

January 21, 2013

Jeff, rest in peace my friend. Your smile and your professional approach were second to none. You will be missed by many.

Mike Knuth

January 21, 2013

My heart goes out to Jeff's wife and children and to the rest of the family! May you turn to God for His peace and His comfort!

Stacy (Van Enbergen) Dietzen

January 21, 2013

Jeff - loved working with you on the dreaded PIPL.. RIP my friend

John Sheimo

January 21, 2013

So sorry to hear about Jeff, he was truely one of the "good guys" and will be misssed. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.

Jeff & Janet Hopper

Jeff & Janet Hopper

January 21, 2013

Jeff was a wonderful mentor and friend to me when I interned at the Oshkosh Northwestern. I have never met a kinder man with a bigger heart. Take comfort in knowing you have a special guardian angel looking over you. Jeff was certainly one of the good guys.

Stephanie (Selk) Plehn

January 21, 2013

Jeff will be missed by many for a very long time. What a sweet man, full of wit and conversation! I'm glad I was blessed with the honor of getting to know him. My prayers are with the family as you grieve your loss. May God bless you with a peace that surpasses all understanding.

Christine Klemmer

January 21, 2013

I'm so sorry to hear about Jeff. He was one of the nicest people mthat I have ever met. Rest well my friend.

Larry Rupp

January 21, 2013

Jeff, I will miss hearing that laugh of yours, and also the "Jeffisms" that made you so uniquely you. You were taken too soon - the world has lost a great man.

Mel Kolstad

January 21, 2013

My prayers go out to the Reader family. Jeff was a very nice person. God Bless all of you.

Rochelle Stubbs

January 21, 2013

Jeff, your love and devotion for whatever you were involved in, be it work, play, family or friends, set the bar for all others. Your passion and dedication is admirable and you truly cared and always strived to make a difference. Thanks for paving the way. You are deeply missed.

Jen Memmel

January 21, 2013

Jeff,from one "outlaw" to another, you will be missed but NEVER forgotten.

Joette Kramer

January 21, 2013

Jeff was a truly wonderful man with a big, big heart. He left the world a better place for having graced it with his presence. Now he will make Heaven even more wonderful. I will miss you, Jeff and your smile, your jokes, and your upbeat, positive attitude. Rest in peace my friend.

April Showers

January 20, 2013

Jeff: I consider it ah honor to have known you. It is rare to find someone who was so liked and admired by so many people. --Lee Ninman

January 20, 2013

Jeff you were the kindest, most warm hearted man that was my pleasure to know. It was an honor to know you and to work with you at The Reporter. You will be greatly missed.

Julie Todd

January 20, 2013

Thanks for all the great memories Jeff. You made every day enjoyable. You where a great boss and friend! You will be missed!!!

Jessica R Ziegelbauer

January 20, 2013

An amazing person, friend, co-worker, son & father! I am lucky to have known you & call you my friend. You will be deeply missed by many and taken way too soon!

Shelley Bach

January 20, 2013

Jeff was a great co-worker. He was always smiling.

Sarah Riley

January 20, 2013

Rest in peace Jeff.

Melissa Gardner

January 20, 2013

Jeff, I will always admire your kindness for everyone and your great sense of humor. You were a wonderful man to work with, and I looked forward every day to come into work and wonder what our next conversation would be. Your life was cut way too short and you will be greatly missed by all of us. Take care of the rest of the angels up there -- you'll be sure to make them laugh.

Jackie Stenson

January 20, 2013

You will be missed.

Heather Holmes

January 20, 2013

Jeff thaks for being that mentor that always cared and always moved us to do more than required because he did.

Don Tharp

January 20, 2013

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