Search by Name

Search by Name

BORN

1932

DIED

2012

Raymond Stahura Obituary

Raymond Stahura died on April 26, 2012, at the Episcopal Church Home in St. Paul, Minn. Ray was born on March 13, 1932, in Youngstown, Ohio, son of Peter and Mary Stahura. He got his undergraduate degree in music from Ohio State, and while there met a music library worker named Margaret Partington, whom he married after graduation, just prior to volunteering into the U.S. Air Force.

In the Air Force he played in the Air Force Jazz Band and sang in the Singing Sergeants, at bases and on occasions around the world, including Eisenhower's first inauguration in 1952. During his years of service he and Margaret had two sons, Alan and Mark.

After discharge he earned his Master's and Ph.D. degrees in Music Theory from Indiana University, which led to a 35-year teaching career at Ripon College. At Ripon he founded the Chamber Music Series, conducted the orchestra, taught woodwind instruments, and taught in numerous classroom subjects. He was named an outstanding teacher on more than one occasion, and chaired the department for many years.

Ray retired from teaching in 1997 and worked for many years on a textbook about Musical Theater, his late-in-life passion. He travelled extensively and loved to cook. He continued to communicate with a wide network of former colleagues, former students, and artists far and wide.

He is survived by his brother, Bill, Los Angeles; sons, Alan, New Jersey; and Mark, St. Paul; and granddaughters, Eva, Elsa, and Eleanor. He was preceded in death by his other brothers, Ted and Bobby, and his ex-wife, Margaret.

Services will be held at Ripon College, with details to come. Memorial contributions can be sent to the Ripon College Advancement Office.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Oshkosh Northwestern from May 4 to May 6, 2012.

Memories and Condolences
for Raymond Stahura

Not sure what to say?





0 Entries

Be the first to post a memory or condolences.

Make a Donation
in Raymond Stahura's name

Memorial Events
for Raymond Stahura

To offer your sympathy during this difficult time, you can now have memorial trees planted in a National Forest in memory of your loved one.

How to support Raymond's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Raymond Stahura's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more