Hugh D'Orsey Tildesley
Hugh D'Orsey Tildesley
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Born in the small town of Rosemère, Quebec, Hugh developed an early love of sports. He played hockey, competed in swimming, and was the quarterback on the Rosemère High football team. From the age of ten he knew that medicine was his calling, and after a Bachelor's Degree in Mathematics at the University of McGill, he went on to pursue his MD at the same university. In 1975 he met his wife, Deborah, and together they moved first to Matheson Ontario, then to Stony Plain Alberta, finally settling in Vancouver in 1984, where Hugh took a position as an endocrinologist at St. Paul's Hospital. Over the next 32 years, he held positions as Head of Endocrinology, Director of the Diabetes Centre, and created the Western Canadian Insulin Pump Centre and Endocrine Research Society. An innovator, Hugh built the Internet Blood Glucose Monitoring System, which allowed patients to report their blood sugars via a web-based interface. Hugh loved photography, his dogs, tailored nicknames, a new practical joke and an Old World wine.
Hugh was not only a good friend to many, but also a coach and a mentor. In 1997, he expanded his practice to include a gap student program, which provided prospective medical students with clinical research experience. He spent countless hours coaching his son, Donovan, to four Paralympic Games in the sport of swimming, where he won five medals and broke three World Records.
He was a devoted family man, who relished the time he spent with his wife and three children. Golf was his other passion, and he cherished relationships formed at the Point Grey Golf Club. He will be remembered for his tireless work ethic, unwavering positivity, and his often irreverent sense of humour.
A Celebration of Life will be held at Point Grey Golf Club, Tuesday March 22 at 4PM. In lieu of flowers, please make donations to Pancreatic Cancer Canada at pancreaticcancercanada.ca.
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Chris & Ruth ( Killingbeck) Swartz
July 17, 2021
I was very sorry to find Hugh’s obituary. My sister in law and I were talking about who worked in Matheson with my Dad, Dr Robert Killingbeck. Dad so enjoyed having Hugh, and Al Jones in Matheson. I know he popped in to see my patients, when they retired in Winnipeg. We Goggled looking for him, and found this! Very sorry for your loss.
He will be remembered
Verna & Bob Korkie
April 17, 2021
What a shock it is this moment five years after Hugh's passing, to read of his untimely demise. I am still reeling. Hugh was a large part of the 'save the (Stony Plain) hospital' team under the incomparable leadership of Dr. Donovan Ross. And together they did.
I remember one evening in 1982 when he and Debbie joined my husband Bob and me for dinner at our country home, along with Patti and Graeme McCauley. During this time together, I referred to Debbie as his wife; Hugh gently corrected my assumption, saying that they weren't married. For some odd reason this blindsided me and I blurted out, "Well, you should be!" I guess he took my advice as they did indeed go on to marry. They eventually gave birth to their very special son who became the namesake of Dr. Donovan Ross, whom Hugh had admired greatly.
In a serendipitous event, Bob and I moved that same year to Rosemère, Quebec for a sabbatical, where we lived just two blocks from Hugh's family home and school. Six degrees of separation for sure.
In ways that he knew about then and now, Hugh has had a profound impact in the direction of my life.
William Ogilvie
January 24, 2019
Very sorry to learn of Hughes passing. We were classmates at Rosemere High School. Hugh was active in school sports, leading the basketball team and jr football team to championships.
After graduating in 1967 I saw Hugh a few times. Once in Montreal while he was studying medicine at McGill, and a few years later in Matheson, Ont. where he was practicing.
mike MAMACOS
November 16, 2016
I waas shocked to read about Hugh's passing in a medical journal. I referred many pt's to him and we met annually at the Greek Auction dinner. I met Donovan on a number of occasions and Hugh was such a proud father! I will miss You. Mike
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Linda Mona Turner
June 17, 2016
Last night I dreamed of my best friend from Mrs. Bickford's grade 1 class in Rosemere, and this morning I googled Hugh. I am so sad to hear he is gone. He was the most lovely six-year-old, so kind.
My condolences to you all.
Ellen Burgess
May 26, 2016
My deepest condolences to Deb, Donovan, Hamish and Catherine. I am stunned to hear of Hugh's passing. He was a great friend and a fine physician. I will never forget the support he and Deb gave me when I was dealing with cancer back in 1982, nor their wedding in Stoney Plain. Rest in peace, Hugh.
Agnieszka K-A
May 4, 2016
My sincerest condolences to the whole family. I was deeply saddened to hear of this news. Dr. Tildesley was a smart and witty man and was a pleasure to visit with, all the while keeping me on my scientific toes. To the family, may the memories give you strength at this time and may his star shine upon every one of you going forward.
Debra Legge
April 28, 2016
My deepest condolences to Deborah and family on the passing of Hugh. I just recently learned about his recent passing. You are in our hearts and prayers.
Tracy Leclerc
April 26, 2016
So sad to learn about Hugh's passing. He was an extraordinary man who donated his time to his family and the community. He was an amazing swimming coach to all of us who grew up at RCC.
April 21, 2016
For many years I trusted and learned from Hugh's knowledge and compassion,as we shared patients.A dedicated and kind physician,he will be sorely missed.May his memory be for a blessing.
Dr. Arturo S Manes
Dara Behroozi
April 17, 2016
A very fine and caring physician. I enjoyed working with Hugh during our (successful) attempt to save St Paul's from closing some years ago.
He will be missed by colleagues and patients who held him in deep respect.
John Lovett
April 14, 2016
My deepest condolences go out to his family and friends. I have been seeing Dr. Tildsley for thirty years and he ways had time to listen. When I saw him it was not just clinical, he would always talk about family life, mine as well as his. I remember watching this hour has 22 minutes and talking to him and laughing about all that went on behind the scenes. I considered myself a lucky man to have our paths cross as they did. He gave me an opportunity to enjoy my family growing up that would have never happened if not for him.
Sincerely
John Lovett
Dave Anderson
April 12, 2016
My deepest condolences to Hugh's family, friends and colleagues. I knew Hugh as we were growing up in Rosemere, and was fortunate to have him as a trusted friend. He was the coolest guy we knew- he was intelligent, athletic, daring, and he had a car-a great combination! I will always remember him and of our coming of age adventures. It is only fitting that he leaves behind a life of service and accomplishments.
Madeline Murphy-Brown
April 11, 2016
I met Dr. T many years ago at the diabetic Clinic at St.Pauls Hospital. When he took up office on Davie St I followed him there. Only 4 short years ago I cried on a visit telling Dr.T of my husband demise to pancreatic cancer.
Little did I know I would have to say goodbye to an incredible man and Dr to this silent killer. He will be missed by the many whose lives he touched. I will carry a picture of him in my heart that I observed of him on my last visit to his office, at the time I
I had no idea I was saying goodbye.
may the love for his family, friends and patients continue to bring comfort as time goes on. To his wife and children I know you will feel his arms around you each and every day. I ask God's Blessings to you all now and always.
Kathryn Kungl
April 7, 2016
I am so sorry to hear of the passing away of Dr. Tildesley who treated me for Diabetes for over 20 years. Dr. Tildesley was a kind , compassionate man who always took the time to listen to what I had to say. I will miss him very much. My sincere condolences to his Family and Friends.
Catarina Lourenco
April 3, 2016
I was greatly saddened to hear of the loss of Dr.Tildesley. He was my doctor for 20 yesterday, and in those years I valued his knowledge, respect and kindness towards my care. He will be greatly missed. My famíly and I send our deepest condolenses to yours. God give you peace and continual comfort as you grieve your loss - Catarina Lourenco
Vincent Taylor
April 3, 2016
Dr Tildesley was a wonderful, gentle, compassionate and caring human being, I had known him for ten years and always enjoyed our conversations about Aviation and Sports.Hughes passing is a terrible blow to the Medical Community and he will be greatly missed by everyone who had the pleasure of knowing him.
kaoru Tanaka
March 31, 2016
I thank you for your great help, you were very Doctor can read the patient's mind, you are my Father Theressa and we all love and miss you.
Kaoru Tanaka
Peter Russell
March 31, 2016
We cannot express how deeply saddened we are to read of Dr. Tildesley's passing. Gone way too soon. Such a wonderful man. We extend our heartfelt condolences all to his family.... wife Deborah and children Catherine, Donovan and Hamish.
He was always full of patience, caring and kindness. We shall miss him. dearly.
Marilyn Aitken
March 29, 2016
I am trying to put words together to express my memories of Hugh, and to offer you all, my sincere condolences. I swam on the Rosemere team when we were in our teens. Memories I will never forget. Hughsie, as we called him then, was an amazing swimmer, Even then, a serious guy, with a wicked sense of humour. I met Hugh again, in Montreal, years later, when he was at McGill, in Med school. He had grown, and I knew he would be a fabulous physician, someday. Through all these years, we have all grown, I now have children following in Hugh's footsteps, and I would love to think that he had an impression on all of us back in the 60's. My heart goes out to you, his family and current friends, we will all miss him, xx Marilyn
March 27, 2016
Deb and Family. Hugh was a good friend of over 5 decades. We shared some some great memories of swim team days in Rosemere; racing his Bentley around track at Le Circuit; cattle round up in Stony Plain; and more recently, enjoying Grey Cup at BC Place. A fine friend who will be truly missed. Rest in peace buddy.
Bruce Taylor, Ottawa, On
March 23, 2016
An amazing Dr and friend. Condolences to his family and work mates.
Tom
Treena Hansen
March 23, 2016
My condolences to Dr. Tildesley's family. I worked with him at DTTC for 10 years, he will be missed.
RIP Dr. T
March 23, 2016
I have been a patient of Dr. Tildesley for over 25 years, and a diabetic for 60 years. Dr. Tildesley always had my best interest at heart, and added new insulins which I am sure have added to my longevity with the disease. I wish his family strength in his passing. He is one of best things to happen to many diabetics who have been helped by his knowledge and personal commitment to our welfare. Thank you. Allen Hunt
martyn fowlds
March 23, 2016
I met Dr, hugh in 2003 when I was first diagnosed with Diabetes.I thought my life was over he convinced me otherwise.I have always thought that he saved my life.
I will miss his wisdom and his witt.
Sleep well Hugh.
Joyce Yee
March 23, 2016
I cannot express how deeply shocked and saddened I was to receive the news of Dr. Tildesley's passing. I extend my sincere and heartfelt condolences to his wife and family.
Dr. Tildesley took care of my father from 30 years ago until I lost him in 1997, and then took care of my mother until now. I attended every appointment with my parents and have never admired, respected and truly liked another doctor as much as I did Dr. Tildesley. He was ever so full of patience and humour but especially of kindness. I will miss him dearly.
March 22, 2016
My sincere condolences to the family. I was a patient for about 20 years and he took great care of me. I will miss him terribly and pray that God grant his family the strength to bear this great loss.
Freda D'Souza, New Westminster, BC
Wai Szeto
March 22, 2016
I am deeply saddened to learn of Dr. Tildesley's passing. My deepest condolences to the Tildesley family. I have been under his care for 28 years and am grateful for his understanding and patience as I struggled with the ups and downs of Type 1 Diabetes throughout the years. He will be greatly missed.
March 22, 2016
To Deborah, Donovan, Hamish, and Catherine, my sincere condolences. I was one of the Rosemere high schoolers who played football with Hugh, ran track with Hugh and swam with Hugh in the summers. The weekends were pretty good too. He will be sorely missed by all who knew him.
May you rest in peace my friend.
Ian Campbell
Andrew Sims
March 22, 2016
I was saddened to learn of Hugh Tldesley's passing. My association with him was in Edmonton when he led the Interns and Residents in their initial organizing and negotiating efforts. I thought then he would be an ideal doctor and it appears that is what he became. My condolences to his family and to his patients.
sandra donofrio
March 22, 2016
I am deeply saddened. Your father was a great man and physician. He took good care of my mother for over 30 years and after me for 4. We will greatly miss our visits with him. Our deepest condolences.
John Kearns
March 22, 2016
I will never forget how Dr Tildesley listened so intently, and understood me so completely. I was always a person first, and his patient second. I am forever grateful for his care and kindness.
May he rest in peace.
Kim Proudlove
March 22, 2016
My condolences to the Tildesley family. Dr. T was an excellent Dr but an even better person. As a long time patient of his I will miss his humor and support.
Hugh Peck
March 22, 2016
I am saddened to learn of Dr. Tildesley's passing. I was lucky enough to be a patient for these past 16 years. He had such a great sense of humour and was so encouraging. My condolences to his wife and family.
Chris Curr
March 22, 2016
I was so saddened to hear of Dr. T's passing. He was truly my "rock" in dealing with personal diabetes health issues.
My condolences to his family and colleagues.
Sincerely,
Chris Curr
Sophie P
March 22, 2016
I met Dr Tildesley when I was 19 years old and facing complications from diabetes. He was the first doctor that I ever had that made me feel truly understood. He was kind, non judgemental, and honest. He was one of a kind and he will be greatly missed.
Margot Kuo
March 22, 2016
Dr. Tildesley was a wonderful doctor to me, making a great difference in my life, for which I am so grateful. He was obviously in love with his family and I pray that brings you great comfort during this time of loss and, going forward, gratefulness for the time you had.
March 22, 2016
Words can't express my sadness in hearing of Dr. T's passing, even though just early last month he sat across from me, telling me how pleased he was with my Type 2 diabetes. He has been my beacon for the past 20 years and never once criticized when I wasn't doing well, but always encouraged me to do better. He talked of his family and oh how proud he was. He always asked me about my family and we exchanged stories of Stoney Plain. We have lost a brilliant man, much to early. His contribution to the medical community is immense. Thank you Dr. T, you will always be in my thoughts. S. Bordeleau
Dennis
March 22, 2016
My condolences go out to Hugh's wife and children. Dr. Hugh Tildesly will always be one of my biggest heroes.
I was one of the fortunate people to have been able to call Dr. Hugh Tildesly my endocrinologist. He introduced me to insulin pump therapy with one of his pump studies which was life changing for me. His confidence, guidance and diabetes management helped shape my future. This life changing experience has given me the freedom to feel normal again.
Thank you Dr. T
Arlene Johnston
March 21, 2016
You wil be thoroughly missed Dr. Tildesley. I am deeply saddened by his untimely passing and would like to pass my condolences to his family, friends and the staff who worked with him. Thank you for all the times you helped me and several other patience through difficult times with the management of diabetes. Your creation of pump therapy program and bi-monthly reporting through email really helps people suffering with this chronic illness feel less along because you were always there when we needed you. May God be with you. Rest in peace.
March 21, 2016
It is with great sadness to hear of Dr. Tildesley's passing, we made the trip from the Okanagan every six months, just to see him. He was always so kind and patient! He always spoke so highly of his family and was a very proud Dad! We will miss him! The Skeard Family - Okanagan Falls, B.C.
Gino Pellizzari
March 21, 2016
To the Tildesley family- I met Dr T when I was 18 years old, I'm now 49. His talks with me during my visits kept me motivated to do my best at controlling my diabetes. I will truly miss him, as a Doctor and as a friend. God bless you all.
Diane Campbell
March 21, 2016
I have been Dr.T's patient for 25 yrs. I had no idea he was terminally ill. I cried today when I found out he was gone and I feel such an incredible loss. He was an amazing doctor and took such an interest in my health. We had great chats when I saw him and I will miss him so much. My deepest sympathies to the Tildesley family. He was a great man. RIP.
dorino hrvatin
March 21, 2016
it is with great sadness and shock to hear of dr.tildesleys death...he was a wonderfull gentle man with a fine sense of humor...he will be greatly missed by me dorino and my mother pierina who was a patient of dr tildesley for many years
Neville Gosling
March 21, 2016
I just returned home to find an email advising that Dr.Hugh Tildesley had passed away. This was a complete shock and I am very saddened by his untimely passing. Dr. Tildesley has been my endocrinologist for the past 8 or 9 years and his advice, assistance and encouragement has always been very beneficial to me. I send my condolences to his wife and family. Dr. Tildesley was one of the very best and will be greatly missed.
S. McAdam
March 21, 2016
My condolences to Dr.Ts family. He was truly the living embodiment of a great physician. I am going to miss him immensely.
Lon Rosen
March 21, 2016
I extend my heartfelt condolences to the Tildesley family on the loss of your remarkable husband, father and brother. Dr. T was my doctor and friend for 30 years, the rock on which my diabetes management rested. I am deeply grateful for his engaged and compassionate care, his incisive mind, his sense of humour, his willingness to fight for me, and his enjoyment in sharing membership in the mathematical brotherhood with me.
Philip Carter
March 21, 2016
Doc...you were a great friend and your guidance was a life saver for me. I will miss our shared love for Goldens and chats.
RIP
Philip Carter Nanoose Bay BC
Barry & Anna Adamson
March 21, 2016
We are so sorry to hear the news of Dr. T's passing.
The good die young.
Condolences to his family.
Robert P.L. Peden
March 21, 2016
It was indeed a shock to hear that Dr. Tildesley had passed away. He was my Type 2 Diabetes Doctor for over 10 years ever since meeting him at the St. Paul's clinic. He was ever vigilant with my care and he and I would debate back and forth the pros and cons of Insulin. It was always a joy to visit him on my annual visits as we would spend time talking about politics, world affairs and the ever changing real estate values in Vancouver. A Great and Gentle Man who will be sorely missed in our community. God Bless and Ciao Dr. Tildesley!
Pat Gleeson
March 21, 2016
To Dr. Hugh's family, my condolences. I am one of the patients whom he has helped find my way through the trials and tribulations of type 1 diabetes. But it must be said that he was not only a great doctor, but he was also a great man in every sense of the word. Words can not express the kindness he exuded, his sharp wit and gentle demeanour. I know I am not alone in thanking Hugh for his kindness. He was truly extraordinary as a human being. And that is a great epitaph that we should all be so lucky to be remembered for. May he rest in Peace.
Cathy Harvey
March 21, 2016
I was surprised and saddened to read Hugh Tildesley had passed away. As a family doctor, I referred my patents to Dr. Tildesley for many years and always knew they would be well cared for. I also knew Hugh and his family through our neighbourhood and extend my warmest, most sincere condolences to them for their terrible loss.
Ron Emerson
March 21, 2016
So sad to hear of the passing of a very special guy. I met Hugh through golf and went on a most enjoyable trip to the Masters in 2009 with a group from Point Grey and Shaughnessy Golf Clubs. I was not aware of his cancer issue and feel bad that I never had an opportunity to say goodbye. My deepest sympathy to the family as I know he leaves a very large void in your lives.
Jens Nilausen
March 21, 2016
I am one of the very lucky patients who has benefited from knowing Dr. Tildesley for over 30 years.
His personalized care, compassion, focus on facts and sense of humour are all trademarks of how he turned the management of my Type 1 Diabetes into an art.
A visit to Dr. T was always about understanding the total picture, having all the facts and then develop the strategy. I am forever grateful for his positive mentoring, guidance and companionship as a doctor and as an exceptional human being.
His blog is a testament to the extraordinary man he was and how lucky we have all been to know him.
Mike Paul
March 20, 2016
Dr. Tildesley was a wonderful man and he helped keep my Type 1 diabetes under great control for over 30 years. He was a leader and he will be missed!
Rosemere Swim Team, Rosemere Quebec
Trish Mahoney
March 20, 2016
Memories of growing up in Rosemere will always include Hugh, a childhood friend who will forever hold a very special place in our hearts. Deborah, Donovan, Hamish, and Catherine, you already know this....Hugh was the best! He will be sadly missed, but never forgotten.
In sympathy and friendship,
Trish & Henry
Susan Davis
March 19, 2016
Warmest thoughts and memories from a grateful patient. Dr. Tildesley cared.
Ollie Currie
March 19, 2016
As we remember the loss of a great individual and friend. I was fortunate to have worked with Hugh and Murray at three Paralympic Games as the Canadian Swim Team Manager. We were inspired by his accomplishments and his unwavering genuine compassionate character. Cherish the wonderful memories Donovan and sincere condolences to your family.
Brad Taylor
March 19, 2016
My condolences to Dr T's family, friends and patients. His passions and dedication are an inspiration.
While he may not be with us, he lives on through the amazingly positive impact he has had on all our lives.
I am grateful for having met him and the advice and care he gave me as a patient.
Rest In Peace.
Wanda Walk
March 18, 2016
Dr. T. is the reason I am alive after 54 years of Type 1 diabetes. Never judgemental, always on my "TEAM", I felt I could achieve anything. He is truly one of The Good Guys. Thanks to his family for sharing such a treasure with us. I cannot imagine the hollow space his passing has left you all in. "Greatness" is a word I would use to describe the mark of this remarkable man on the world. I feel privileged to have experienced his care and guidance.
March 17, 2016
To Deborah, Donovan, Hamish and Catherine.
I knew Hugh from his Rosemere days, at high school and the swim team before you entered his life. He was always a great role model, a friend and mentor. He will be greatly missed by all that knew him. My condolences.
Sincerely Hector Campbell
David Johns
March 17, 2016
I don't know what my diabetes would have done to me without Dr. T. I was on the phone to him and emailing reports for 30 years, and my control is good. He was a nice guy!
Anne, Ali & Ben Longhurst & Wennes
March 16, 2016
Beautifully written obituary. What an incredible journey he paved and shared with you Deborah, Donovan, Hamish and Catherine.
Sending you our love and prayers during this difficult time.
Jeanette Price
March 16, 2016
I am so sorry to learn of Dr. T's death, I was looking forward to exchanging some stories next week when I met my "new Dr. T" for the first time. I will forever remember his encouragement, never critical of us mortals with diabetes! He was a man to admire and emulate. RIP. My thoughts and prayers are with his family, friends and patients as we all deal with this great loss.
J.N. Miller
March 16, 2016
RIP from one of his many patients.
Ken and Wendy
March 16, 2016
Our hearts go out to the Tildesley Family we are sorry for your loss. We only known Hugh for a short time but found him to be a kind gentleman with wicked sense of humor in his blog which we will miss.
lionel seepaul
March 16, 2016
As a patient of Dr. Tildesley, and a neighbor to him (though we never met in that location) in Matheson, I offer my celebration of his life, some of which, in our conversations, he impressed upon me. A man of genuine compassion, he exceeded the boundary of Medicine, in being most empathetic to human suffering. I rejoice to have met him; and, envisage his departing soul being received by an angel with outstretched wings welcoming him to that blissful region we call Heaven or Paradise. Shalom.
Reid Dewson
March 16, 2016
One of the finest gentlemen you will ever meet and a great guy. I am honoured to have been tagged "Radar" by Hugh. We'll miss his humour and fellowship at the Five O'clock Club (If you're gonna pitch you better be able to catch.) and I'll miss the occasional fiver I won when his beloved Habs lost. My sincerest condolences to Debra, Hamish, Donovan and Catherine.
jim hilton
March 16, 2016
I met Hugh and Donovan when they were with the 89th cub pack. Rest in peace, Hugh. A life well lived.
Arun Masand
March 16, 2016
Hughs' indelible impression will live on in all his Children and they are a testament to the wonderful human being he was. He will be missed. A life well lived. Thank you for sharing your life, humour, intelligence, caring, body of work and passion with us.
Peter Butler
March 16, 2016
Missing him in many ways - his strong character and fine quality will live in our hearts forever. He lived life to its fullest to the very end. Love and Condolences to Debra, Donovan, Hamish and Catherine.
March 16, 2016
It is a sad day for his many friends and family. I treasure the time we spent together as idealistic, young residents - little resources but lots of energy. RIP Hugh.
Derryck Smith , Vancouver.
March 16, 2016
Donovan and family
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your Dad, my thoughts and prayers are with you
Cathie Spencer
Anne Barbeau
March 16, 2016
A wonderful teammate, coach ,and friend, he was always the best!
He will be sadly missed!
Very sincere condolences to Debra, Donovan, Hamish and Catherine
Fe Evans
March 16, 2016
In Hawaiian, the pancreas was his Kuleana, which he accepted with grace and dignity. He is a bright and shining star and his light will shine forever. Our sincere condolences to his family. Sincerely, Steve, Fe, Leah, and Sam Evans
Ric Hawkesworth
March 16, 2016
I am sad to hear of Hugh's rather sudden passing. His blog was so full of hope and inspiration that I thought he would continue for a long time. I am currently in Lumbini Nepal, Buddha's birthplace and as I was planning to visit the temple this afternoon I will remember him there for the wonderful human being he was
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