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Cornelius Hayes Obituary

Feb. 5, 1921 - Aug. 17, 2010

Cornelius John Hayes, a.k.a "Pops" "Papa Con," 89 years young, of Vacaville, Calif., passed away peacefully at his home on Aug. 17, 2010.

Con was born on Feb. 5, 1921 in San Francisco, Calif. He served in Patton's 3rd Army in WWII as an explosives expert and survived the beaches of Normandy. After his service he made his new home in Vacaville, Calif., with his loving wife, Lois Hayes and baby daughter, Donna Marie. In the years that followed they also had 3 more children, Mary Lou, Patty, and John Edward. Con was a father that loved to take his children on new adventures. Con owned his own Barber shop called Con's Clip Shop on Main Street and Lois's Beauty Boutique in Alamo Plaza. He later became a licensed carpenter and member of the Carpenters Union. Con taught his son, John, nephew Spencer and his grandson Patrick the trade of carpentry. He enjoyed traveling to Tokyo, Japan, Baja, Mexico to visit his daughter Mary, and along the California Coast for great seafood and a great bottle of wine. Con was always the life of the party. He is dearly missed by all that knew him and especially those that loved him.

Con was preceded in death by his parents, Cornelius and Anne Hayes; his sisters, Marge and Anne of San Francisco, Calif.; his wife of 40 years, Lois Hayes; his son, John Hayes of Vacaville, Calif.; and son-in-law Donavan Phillips of Los Barriles, Baja.

Con is survived by is wife of 20 years, Yasuko Hayes of Vacaville; daughters, Donna (John) Bera of Reno, Nev., Mary Phillips of Los Barriles, Baja, Patty (Peter); grandchildren, Patrick (Kelly) Bera, Michael Bera, Christopher Bera, Gina (Shannon) Meyer all of Reno, Nev.; great-grandchildren, Pauline, Brandon, Jasmine, Jessica, Demi, Colby, Isabella, C.J. and Evan; and nephew, Spencer Lee Gibber of Sacramento, Calif.

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Published by The Reporter on Sep. 5, 2010.

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September 12, 2010

To the family and friends of Con. I too have many fond memories of Con and Lois. We were all instrumental in building our little community of Allendale while raising our families and sharing in so many happy events.
My deepest sympathy to you all at this sad time.
Nadine Thompson

Jim& Cathy Schell

September 8, 2010

We are all so sorry to hear about Con's passing. He always had a smile on his face and kind words for us all here at The Kelly Company. We will all miss him greatly, he was a true friend to us all.
Our condolences to your family.
Jim & Cathy Schell

Nelda (Cole) Fetzko

September 7, 2010

Hi Donna, John and family,

I was so sorry to hear about your dad, Donna. I have so many wonderful and precious memories of all the good times our family's had together when you and I were growing up. All the trips to Stinson Beach....oh, how your dad loved swimming in the ocean. He got us all to love it. :)

I had the good fortune of running in to him four or five years ago in downtown Vacaville. We stood on the sidewalk and visited for a long time talking about the good old days.

I know that you're all going to miss him him a lot. His smiling face and sweet disposition made him a delight to be around. You have my deepest sympathy.

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