Darlene Jeanne Oates

1931 - 2017

Darlene Jeanne Oates obituary, 1931-2017, Vacaville, CA

BORN

1931

DIED

2017

Darlene Oates Obituary

Nov. 13, 1931 - July 18, 2017

Our beloved wife, mother, grandmother, and sister, Jeanne Oates departed this life on July 18 at her home in Vacaville.

Jeanne was born in Aberdeen, SD, and came to California as a small child. She graduated from South San Francisco High School in June 1949, hand-in-hand with her childhood sweetheart, Richard Oates. They were married on June 10, 1951, and enjoyed 66 wonderful years together. In 1957, they moved to rural Vacaville and raised their three boys, Richard Jr., Dale, and Randy. She worked at the Travis Flight Surgeons' Office at Travis Air Force Base for many years and then as an administrative secretary at the California Medical Facility, retiring from CMF in '91.

At that time, Jeanne and Rich moved to their 60 acres of land in Elk Creek and enjoyed 21 years of life there. She continued to manage the books for her family's Oates' Country Store until 2014. She and Rich returned to Vacaville and settled in Diamond Grove, June 2012.

Besides her love of gathering family together for dinners, swim parties, and birthday celebrations, Jeanne enjoyed learning about new technologies and skills on her computer. In later years, we couldn't always be certain who was the photographer in group shots because she was so skilled at inserting her own image into the frame! She also enjoyed gardening and Hawaiian vacations, taking her last trip there in 2015 to see her granddaughter married overlooking the waters she loved so well.

Jeanne was never happier than when she was surrounded by her family, and we will miss her dry wit, sweet smile, and unconditional love. She is survived by her husband, Richard Oates, Sr.; three sons, Richard (Stephanie), Dale (Traci) of Vacaville and Randy (Kristie) of Winters; sister, Sandee (Jim) Jones of Santa Clara; brother, Rod (Patty) Meiers of Mesa, AZ; sister-in-law, Sharon (Mark) Redmond of Citrus Heights; nephews, Mike and Dennis Bryant; her grandchildren were a special joy, Britney (Todd) Bladel of Encinitas, Meredith (Nathan) Miller of Vacaville, Eric Oates of Long Beach, and Jill Oates of Costa Mesa. She also enjoyed being Gigi to her great-grandson, Jackson Bladel, and a loving aunt to her nieces and nephew Steven Jones, Erica Orellana, and Melissa Sheiman.

Friends and family are invited to a Celebration of Life service held in Jeanne's honor in the New Hope Christian Fellowship foyer at 4910 Allison Pkwy, Vacaville, on Wednesday, Aug. 9 at 11:30 a.m. In lieu of flowers, donations will be gratefully received at Opportunity House at opportunityhouse.us or 267 Bennett Hill Ct., Vacaville 95688.

Published by The Reporter on Jul. 30, 2017.
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Richard and family,
Bless you all as you adjust to this unwelcome change in your ives.
You are in my thoughts and in my prayers.

Denise Mattson

August 8, 2017

To the family: I worked with Jeanne at CMF and I am sad to hear this news. I have fond memories & shared fun times with this special lady. She will be missed but not forgotten in my heart. With deepest sympathy. ❣

Marie Caron-Lyles

August 6, 2017

Our best wishes and love to family at this time of loss. Mr. and Mrs. Oates used to work the store back in early 80's and I have been a customer since Dec., 1980 to current. Our thoughts with Richard and family, Dale, Randy and all.

Richard & Kimberly Austin

August 1, 2017

All thoughts and prayers go out to the Oates family. Just know that she is looking down and keeping a watchful eye on all of you.

Rose Reed

July 31, 2017

Growing up , "Aunts" & "Uncles" , were just adults us kids didn't really interact with them so much my Aunt Jeanne , broke that idealism!

She genuinely wanted to know what you were doing , what you were into , and generally know all about you! She not only took an interest , she encouraged you to follow your passions.

How could you not love an Aunt like that?

I had the joy of going on some road trips to So.Cal. , with her and family members , in her canary yellow convertible top down the whole ride! ( "What's the point of having it , if you don't use it?" )

She had a wonderful sense of humor , and as a family member , you knew her love was unconditional and always there!

Aloha Aunt Jeanne! You are loved and greatly missed!

Michael Bryant

July 30, 2017

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