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Stanley Grabish Obituary

STANLEY GRABISH Mr. Stanley J. Grabish, 78, died after a courageous battle with cancer Wednesday, October 9, 2013, surrounded by family at his home in North Wales. He was a devoted husband, father, grandfather and friend. Stan cherished his small-town roots. He was born April 21, 1935, in St. Clair, PA to Stanley and Frances (Kaminski) Grabish. He graduated from St. Clair High School in 1953 and served in the US Air Force for four years. In 1961, he graduated from Penn State University, which he attended under the GI Bill. Stan's first career was at the Social Security Administration, where he retired as a public affairs officer; his second was at MetLife Resources, where he served as a financial services representative. A man of deep faith, Stan participated in religious retreats for over 40 years and was an active member of St. Rose of Lima parish. He also enjoyed travel, sports, walking, reading and gardening. He was a member of the Disabled American Veterans and commander of the St. Clair AMVETS, Post 142. He also served as president of Philadelphia's Catholic Alumni Club and St. Rose of Lima's Parish Council. He chaired the finance committee at St. Stanislaus Church and served on the board of St. Rose of Lima's CYO. He was also associate captain for the Men of Malvern Retreat House. Stan was a compassionate, loyal, brave and spiritual man whose legacy will live in the people he has touched. Survivors include his wife of 46 years Beatrice (Gallagher); ten children, Franny, wife of Ralph Irons; Beatrice, wife of Kevin Hogan; Lisa, wife of Chris Bruder; Kathy, wife of Jamie Jozefowski; Stan Grabish, husband of Beth Brennan; Mike Grabish, husband of Ana Lanceiras; John Grabish, husband of Erin Roache; Mary, wife of Steve Gaffney; Krissy, wife of Alan Birnbrauer; and Bridget, wife of Joe Shanley; 21 grandchildren; two brothers Albert Grabish (Sonia) and Msgr. John Grabish, sister Bernadette Haertsch, and many nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by his parents. Mass of Christian Burial will be held at 11AM Monday, October 14, at St. Rose of Lima Church, 428 S. Main Street in North Wales. Visitation will begin Sunday Evening, October 13 from 7 to 9PM at St. Rose of Lima Church and again Monday Morning, October 14 from 9:30 to 11AM before Mass. Interment will be in Our Lady of Czestochowa Cemetery in Doylestown. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in his memory to Sacred Heart Church, 336 N. 4th St., Allentown, PA 18102 where his brother John has served as the pastor for 12 years. Arrangements are by Simcox-McIlvaine Funeral Home in Lansdale.

Published by The Reporter from Oct. 10 to Oct. 11, 2013.
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Wow! It has been a while since Stan went to heaven. Since then, my wife, Beati, joined him there. The pain of loss lessens a bit over time & I hope that Bea and Stan´s family hove learned to cope with their loss.

Rus Gathman

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Kathy Jozefowski

September 28, 2015

Grabish family: our son Jason just told us about Stan's passing back in 2013. We are very saddened to hear the news. We always admired Stan and thought him to be a wonderful person and husband and father. He will be missed by everyone.

Rus & Beati Gathman

February 2, 2015

I'm sorry for your loss. May God Almighty give you the strength to endure until his promises are fulfilled.
Isaiah 35:5,6

October 6, 2014

We miss you so much Pop Pop I know you're watching over us and we love and miss you so much please watch over us

Your Grandchildren

May 11, 2014

Dear Mike, Ana & family,

We were stunned and saddened to hear about your dad's passing. Had we known, we would have come to the viewing and funeral. Mike, it looked like you had a great visit with him just before his passing, which must be a great source of comfort for you.
We will pray for the repose of your father's soul and for comfort & strength for your family!
Much love,
Dee & Jody

October 22, 2013

dear rev.msgr. jake, just checking uphome obits and i came across your brother stan's name..so sorry to hear of his passing.. sending love 7 prayers to you&family GOD bless you all.+++++++++++++++++++++++++++

rita ender

October 17, 2013

My condolences to the Grabish family. Mr. Grabish was a great man, role model for the community and most of all a great father. God bless you all.

Pete Bednarek

October 17, 2013

Msgr. Jake and family,
Please accept our heartfelt condolences on the passing of your beloved brother. We pray God's love and tenderness will fill your heart with peace and the loving memories you shared get you through these times. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. God bless.

Gilbert and Rosemarie Huertas and Family

October 14, 2013

I am so sorry to hear of Mr. Grabish's passing. However, so happy to have seen him late August. I will alway s remember all the Penn State football Mr. Grabish and my own father, Charles Staso inflicted upon us as children. Because of all those football parties, I'm a PSU fan today. To Mrs. Grabish, you and your family will always be in my heart and I will treasure our times together as they are some of the fondest memories I've ever had. We will miss Mr.Grabish, he was a wonderful man.

October 14, 2013

Please accept our sympathies to all the Grabish family on the loss of such a remarkable man.
Warmest wishes from Betsy & Steve Beltle

Betsy Beltle

October 13, 2013

Please accept our sincere sympathy John, Erin, Bea and all the Grabish Family.

Kathy & Tony Dietsch

October 13, 2013

My condolences to the Grabish family particularly Monsignor John Grabish who has been a good friend and spiritual influnce for many years.

Johnny & Yolanda Cruz

October 13, 2013

Dear Bea and Family,

Stan was a wonderful and loving person.
He will be missed by many.
We will pray for you.

Affectionately,

The Gorski Family

October 13, 2013

My condolences-- Stan was a friend and neighbor since 1976 and a patient for many years. He will be deeply missed.
Sincerely,
Dr.Don Sesso

Don Sesso

October 13, 2013

Bea&Family:
My deepest sympathy to you and your family.on the loss of a wonderful friend.
Within our hearts and in our memories those we love remain with us always.
Alice Machita

Alice Machita

October 13, 2013

My condolences to the Grabish family particularly Monsignor John Grabish who has been a good friend for along time.

Jim Glancy

October 12, 2013

Msgr.Jake,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time.If we can do anything for you please let us know

Sally and Rich Uhler

October 12, 2013

I am so sorry to hear about Stanley s passing . I just saw him at our 60th high school class reunion this past August. I will always have the memory of him being my date for the high school junior prom. He was a great friend and classmate. He and his family are in my prayers. Peace be with all of you. Sincerely, Mary Ann (Potts)Custodio

October 12, 2013

Stan always had a smile on his face. He was a wonderful man, his love & and joy for his grandchildren Katie & Charlie would shine through him. He always knew how to have fun & play with them. I extend my heartfelt sympathy to Bea & family. Stan will be missed and remembered with fondness.

Maggie & Wayne Marconis

October 12, 2013

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

EMIL & LILLIAN TOMKO

October 12, 2013

Bea and Family
Bernie, Al & Father Jake
Janice and I along with the girls send our sincerest condolences on the loss of Stash. When sorrow comes, think about all the laughter and joy we have been blessed with by having him in our lives.I hope your hearts will heal as you smile. He was the best.
Rick-Janice-Carla-Sara-Michelle

Richard Ferenchick

October 12, 2013

Msgr. Jake, we were sorry to hear of your brothers passing. Please accept our sincere Love and prayers for you and your entire family. God bless all of you at this most difficult time.

Ray and Peggy Gencarelli

October 12, 2013

Dear Bea and Family,

Our deepest heartfelt sympathy over the loss of your beloved husband, father, father-in-law, grandfather.

Stan was a wonderful dedicated faith filled humble giving man. Family was everthing to him. Family was his life mission. Everyone who knew Stan loved him for who he was. Always smiling and taking care of business with love and concern for the best.

None of Stan's suffering battle with his illness was ever in vain. He fought the good fight and won. Now he is home with all the other loved ones who have gone before him. Keep in mind Stan will live forever in your hearts and one day you too will be reunited with him.

Know you are all our thoughts and prayers. May God bless you and comfort you with His peace and love.

Sincerely,

Linda & Tom Morano

Linda & Tom Morano

October 12, 2013

My deepest sympathy and Christian love to Msgr. and the entire family at this time of loss. Jack has shared stories of his family's life in Saint Clair, and I know his brother was an important part of those memories. May the peace of the Risen Christ offer comfort and hope in the days ahead.

The Reverend Doctor David Charles Smith

October 12, 2013

Dear Bea and family,
So sorry to hear about Stan. I will miss are visits. He always made you feel welcomed. I'll Always remember his smile. I ask what he was hungry for I'll have the filled Cabbage. Thanks to Diane we made it happen. Also Jetta and Carol for ingriedients. I'm glad we made him happy. God Bless you Bea & family.
Love Nellie and family

October 11, 2013

Beatty and Family,
I am shocked and sadden by the loss of Stan what a special man he truly was.Please know that you are in my prayers. God Bless you all.
Your Cousin Angela McCann

October 11, 2013

I grew up with Stan in St.Clair,PA. Our parents were in each others weddings. We have been best friends for 78 years. We went thru school together, the military and then Penn State on the GI Bill. Stan was also my Best Man in my wedding. We spent many happy family events together - weddings, baptisms, birthdays, anniversaries, etc. Lenore and I are God Parents to his son, Michael. Stan was a very spiritual man, a devoted husband and father and a loving grandfather. He will be greatly missed! Love and God Bless, Joe and Lenore Stepenosky

Joe and Lenore Stepenosky

October 11, 2013

Stan was a wonderful man and we always enjoyed being in his company.He will be sadly missed,but we will always have wonderful memories. Our love to Beatty and all the family.

Bridgetta and Randall Van Horn

October 11, 2013

We have lost a truly great friend. Stan and I grew up together. We shared many events together - grade and high school, college, military service and personal events with our families. Stan was a devoted husband, father, grandfather, uncle and friend. We shall miss him dearly.

Charles & Rose Staso

October 11, 2013

Stan im gonna miss you so very much..you were like a step father to me..such a good person..your family lived next to my parents house in hatfield thru my school yrs..babysit for the girls when they were young..luv you..thoughts and prayers are with the family...luv you Bea..miss you Linda Sidman/DeSimone

October 11, 2013

Thoughts and prayers to the Grabish family.

Heather Boyd Picozzi

October 11, 2013

Stanley was an inspirational father figure and much admired by me and my family. Love and prayers to Mary, Mrs. Grabish and the entire family. Love, Carla and Steven South

Carla South

October 10, 2013

Mr. Grabish, you will be missed by so many. You and my dad were great role models for me. I will always remember how you treated me just like one of your own. I enjoyed your sense of humor and warmth- not to mention your great chili and watching Penn State games with you and the gang. Going to Phillies games with you and the boys in the Stan Van is a great childhood memory of mine. I have nothing but respect and love for you and my family feels the same way. Rest In Peace. Love, your neighbor Mike Cardamone

Michael Cardamone

October 10, 2013

We are so saddened to hear of Stan's death. Such a nice man...I will always remember his smile on his many walks around the neighborhood beaming proudly about all his grandchildren. Our thoughts and prayers to all of you.

Dick and Joanne Garwood

October 10, 2013

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