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Erik Vestergaard Obituary

MERIDEN - On Monday, Dec. 17, 2012, the Vestergaard family of Meriden, said farewell to a beloved family member, Erik Aas Vestergaard, husband, father, Opa, uncle, brother and friend to many.

Born April 14, 1933 on the small island of Nykobing Mors in northern Denmark, Erik grew up during the time of German occupation. Erik served his country as a Royal Guard at the Palace in Copenhagen and was a member of the National Track and Field team of Denmark. He came to the United States in the mid 1950's as an Olympic hopeful to compete in the World Games in New York, where he met the woman of his dreams, Liselotte Macher, of Klagenfurt, Austria. They married and settled in Rye, N.Y., and built a family and a long marriage of 55 years. They moved to Meriden, in 1966, where he was employed by the Seven Up bottling company. He also was a familiar face at Kaye's Pharmacy and Grand Union where he worked a second job to fulfill the dream of buying a home. Just as important to him was to have his family be able to travel back to Europe to allow his children to know their relatives in Denmark and Austria. He retired from Goss and DeLeeuw Machine Company in Kensington in 1998 and could be found enjoying his retirement at any of the local public tennis courts where he played on a doubles team until 2011. He was an avid runner and he and his dog were mainstays at the Tradition Run to the top of Castle Craig in Meriden or the Daffodil festival run and he loved any of the races at Block Island. His sons, daughter, grandchildren and extended family members still participate in the Tradition Run in his honor each year. Where ever he lived his garden would stand out in the neighborhood with the distinct look of a European home. A true family man in every sense of the word, he looked out for his children, the neighborhood children and later his grandchildren.

Erik leaves behind his wife, Liselotte; son, Kenneth and his wife, Barbara, of Cheshire and Kenneth's children, Jaime and his wife, Meaghan, Kye, Madison and Levin Vestergaard; daughter, Christina Casavina, of Cheshire and her children, Ian Bell and Whitney Casavina; son, Stuart and his wife, Jennifer, of Durham and their children, Nicholas and Alexandra; and a sister, Grete Aas Degn, of Nykobing Mors.

Relatives and friends may call at the Beecher & Bennett-Flatow Funeral Home, 48 Cook Ave., Meriden on Friday, Dec. 21, from 4 to 7 p.m. funeral services and burial will be private.

The family extends a special thank you to Elim Park in Cheshire for their loving care of Erik during his time there.

To plant trees in memory, please visit theĀ Sympathy Store.

Published by The Record-Journal on Dec. 19, 2012.

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Chrisitne Laughorne

January 10, 2013

I was so very saddened to receive your message of Erik's passing. Please accept my heartfelt condolences and love.

Cheryl Bannan

December 23, 2012

I worked with Erik at kayes/CVS. My thoughts and prayers are with u all.

Michelle Velissariou

December 22, 2012

I have many fond memories working with Erik at Kaye's. What a wonderful soul. My condolences to the family.

Kathryn Klimczak Sassu

December 21, 2012

I'm sending my sincerest condolences to your family. I have fond memories of your family from when we lived on Swain Avenue.

Matthew Hansen

December 20, 2012

Erik was a true throw back, hard working man who told you how it was and never pulled any punches. Im honored to have known and worked with him. My condolences to his family.

Katie (Cunniff) Jonkman

December 20, 2012

Stuart, so sorry to hear about your dad. May your happy memories help you though the dark days ahead.

Connie & Raianne Raymond

December 20, 2012

Ken, Jamie, kye, Madison, Levin, & all the Vesterguaard family.
We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.

Love, Connie & Raianne

Art and Kate Heroux

December 19, 2012

Lisa and Family,
Artie and I were very saddened to learn of Erik's passing. He was a wonderful man with a large and loving pressence. He will be sadly missed but very lovingly remembered. Please know that we are holding you all in our hearts.

lawralee c

December 19, 2012

Christina and Whitney,
May love, peace and fond memories be comforting to you and your family as you go through these difficult times.
Namaste…..
Lawralee

Carol Ann Keough

December 19, 2012

Dear Liselotte & Family,
My thoughts & prayers are with you during this difficult time. Your Erik sounds like such a wonderful man. May all those amazing memories you have of him give you comfort during the hard days ahead.

Chris Dorsey

December 19, 2012

Ken,
Sending my condolences in the loss of your father. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Christian Aas Degn

December 19, 2012

I'll never forget the day, when he unexpectedly showed up in Viby, at the shop where i worked, and gave me a big hug. Thats how I'll remember my uncle.

December 19, 2012

My dear brother I will never forget you
I am so happy for the wonderful week we had together last year love from your sister

Todd Camp

December 19, 2012

I will trully miss Erik. He was always quite colorful, loved working in his gardens, and I loved to play tennis with him. He was a kind, hard working, family oriented man who loved life. He was a terrific neighbor, and a great friend. I will miss him . May he serve aces in heaven. God Bless.

Barbara Vestergaard

December 19, 2012

Dear Erik,
Thank you for taking me into your family and sharing your stories with me. I'll never forget our time in Denmark.
Love Barbara

Ken Tomalski

December 19, 2012

Dear Family, I always looked for Erik when I visited Kaye's. I taught European History and traveled extensively in the 1970's. We had great chats. He will be missed.

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