Irene Despain

1925 - 2017

Irene Despain obituary, 1925-2017, St. George, UT

Irene Despain

1925 - 2017

BORN

1925

DIED

2017

Irene Despain Obituary

Published by Spectrum & Daily News from Jan. 26 to Jan. 27, 2017.
Irene McGee Despaiin

St. George

Irene McGee Despain, beloved mother and grandmother, passed away the morning of Wednesday, January 25, 2017 in St. George, Utah at the age of 91.

Irene lived a long life of dedication to her family and the LDS Church. She was known as a fastidious homemaker and seamstress, a loyal friend with a subtle yet sharp sense of humor, and a dedicated and faithful member of her church, serving in countless callings.

Irene was born in St. George, Utah on February 20, 1925 to Ross and Elsie Gifford McGee. When she was three years old her family moved to Draper, and at the age of 13, moved to Granite, Utah.

It was while living in Granite that she met Ward, the love of her life, at the old LDS church. Their life together was a classic love story. Legend has it Ward arrived a little late to sacrament meeting that fateful day, saw Irene's beautiful red hair shining in the sunlight near the front of the chapel, and declared that she was the girl he was going to marry someday—without having yet seen her face.

Ward and Irene were married toward the end of her senior year in high school and were inseparable from that day forward, only spending time apart when Ward served in World War II. As Ward struggled with Alzheimer's during the last years of his life, Irene stayed dedicatedly by his side, caring for him even as she struggled with her own health.

During nearly 70 years of marriage together, Irene and Ward shared many wonderful adventures, most of which were centered diligently on their church service. They were tour guides for large groups in the Middle East and Europe, as well as a LDS Church history tour through the Eastern United States.

They moved several times for educational and career pursuits while raising their young family and finally settled in St. George where they would call home for almost 50 years.

They left their home for Hilo, Hawaii from 1983 to 1987 for four wonderful years of service until Ward retired from the LDS Church Education System. When they returned to St. George, they continued their church service for another 15 years as temple workers, a period of time that they cherished and made many new friends.

Irene is survived by her daughter, Mary Ann (Terry) Blackburn and her two sons: Steven (Evelyn) and David (Shelly); sixteen grandchildren, twenty-five great-grandchildren and three great-great-grandchildren.

Funeral services will be held Saturday, January 28, 2017 at 2:00 p.m. at the Metcalf Mortuary Chapel, 288 West St. George Blvd. St. George, Utah. A visitation will be held Saturday, prior to services, from 1:00-1:45 p.m. Interment will be at the St. George City Cemetery.

Arrangements entrusted to the care of Metcalf Mortuary, 435-673-4221. For condolences, full obituary, and funeral listings please visit our website www.metcalfmortuary.com.

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Steven & Dolores Higginson

January 26, 2017

I have many wonderful memories of Sister Despain. I met with her each Sunday morning to talk about Music and the Spoken Work and to administer the Sacrament for her and visiting family members on occasion. We always left better than when we arrived. I believe she blessed our lives more than we blessed hers. During our visits we discovered that she was the older sister of our good friends Myrna (Kale) Smith from American Fork, Utah. We love you and know that you are with Ward at last.

Rexine Rowley

January 26, 2017

Such great memories of your special family. Dennis served with your dad as Exec. Sec. when he was Bishop, friend to MAD, sang with Steven, and taught David in Primary. We so loved your mom and dad and you. Our thoughts and prayers to to you. Love,
Rexine (McAllister) and Dennis Rowley

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