Mary Carter

Mary Carter

Mary Carter Obituary

Published by Legacy Remembers from Oct. 4 to Oct. 6, 2010.
The Honourable Madam Justice Mary Y. Carter (nee Munn) October 11, 1923 October 1, 2010 Peacefully, surrounded by family at Sherbrooke Community Centre, Saskatoon, after a rich and full life balancing the roles of mother and grandmother with a distinguished career as a lawyer, magistrate and judge. Loving and dearly loved wife of the late Roger Colenso Carter, Q.C., O.C. Beloved mother of Stephen (Jacqueline), Sarah (Walter), Martha (Brian), Michael (Karen), Mark (Lois) and Adam (Marnie). Doting grandma to Marshall, Colleen and Alexander Carter, Mary Hildebrandt, Catherine, Elizabeth and Rebecca Ulmer, Naomi Schaab (Darcy) and great-grandson Emmett, Rachel Mowat (Brad), Caleb and Zachary Carter, Susanna and Eve Keller, Ava and Samuel Carter. She was aunt to many nieces and nephews. Predeceased by her brothers Dixon, Gordon, Bill and Sandy (Alexander) and sisters Betty Barber and Shirley Hamilton. Mary was born in Cromer, Manitoba and she lived in Elkhorn, Virden and Carberry, before the family moved to Saskatoon in 1938. Her great-grandparents and grandparents were Manitoba homesteaders. Independent, strong women were in the genes. Her grandmother Nurse Mary Munn of Carberry arrived in Canada from Glasgow in 1908 as a single mother of two. Mary's father William G. Munn was employed by United Grain Growers and her mother Jean Munn was an ardent CCF/NDP activist. Receiving her LLB from the University of Saskatchewan in 1947, Mary married fellow law student Roger Carter that year. She practiced with Roger in the Saskatoon firm Makaroff, Carter and Carter from 1948 until the birth of the first of six children, in 1953. In 1960 she was appointed a magistrate. Her work concerned matrimonial disputes, child support and custody, and cases under the young offender legislation. She was appointed to the District Court in 1978 as part of a pilot project for a Unified Family Court and in 1981 she became a judge of the Court of Queen's Bench where she sat until her retirement in 1998 at age 75. Molly Irvine was beloved caregiver to the Carter children though all the years of Mary's legal career. Mary was a walking encyclopedia of the birds and flowers of the prairies and parkland. She could grade wheat, a skill learned from her father. She and Roger had a beautiful flower garden nurtured over many years. A wonderful cook, and an excellent seamstress, Mary sewed most of her own and daughters' clothing for decades. She was a voracious reader and life-long learner, taking great delight in learning French in recent years. Despite all of this activity, Mary found time to speak to many organizations, particularly women's groups. Typical was her brief to the Royal Commission on the Status of Women in 1968 on legal matters she felt were at the heart of the problem of the status of women. Balancing a career with family (and she always insisted family was her first priority and greatest pleasure), Mary was a true trailblazer. Special thanks to the caregivers at Sherbrooke and with Bayshore Home Health. A celebration of Mary's life will be held at the Saskatoon Funeral Home at 11 a.m. on Saturday, October 9. Donations in Mary's memory may be made to the Mary Y. Carter Scholarship in Family Law at the College of Law, University of Saskatchewan, 15 Campus Drive, Saskatoon, SK, S7N 5A6. Condolences may be emailed to [email protected] Arrangements are entrusted to the SASKATOON FUNERAL HOME 244-5577.

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October 9, 2010

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Art and Rose Boyle

October 9, 2010

To Mike,Karen,Naomi,Rachel,Caleb,Zachary,
and little Emmett

On reading about your Mother and Grandmother.....She was a Fantastic women and a Credit to all her children.
Our thoughts are with you.

Love Aunt Rose & Uncle Art
-a touching obituary-

Jill Coggins

October 9, 2010

Sarah and Martha and family - My condolences on your mother's passing. Though it's been many years, I still remember being wowed by your mother as she hosted you and I, Sarah, for a drink at the Faculty Club after work one day. Her kindness and patience in explaining to me some sentencing matter (I think I was 22!) stays with me to this day. My deepest sympathies on the loss of this fine lady...

Grit & Scott McCreath

October 8, 2010

Dear Carter Family,
Mary was a very special person, whose presence, joy and inspiration will continue to live in the memory of many people whose lives she touched. May your own happy memories be a source of comfort to you now. Our family grieves the loss in yours, and we send our love.

Jeff Kalmakoff

October 8, 2010

My condolences to Steven and the rest of the Carter family. She was truly a remarkable woman.

October 8, 2010

My thoughts are with you the Carter family , as you suffer the loss of your precious Mother ! I have many wonderful memories of your family ! Your parents were warm and loving ! They are now gone , but may the wonderful memories linger on , and bring comfort in your loss ! My thoughts are with you dear family ! Remembering you with fondness ...... Nettie Fehr

Donna Greschner

October 7, 2010

Dear Mark, Martha, Steve and other members of the Carter family:
In your time of loss, I hope that you find comfort in the fact that your mother inspired generations of lawyers, especially female ones, with her energy, compassion and erudition. Hers was a life well-lived, an exemplar of the value and joy that comes with love for family and friends, and service to community and province. She and Roger are dearly missed. I remember well their hearty and frequent laughter, a reminder that in the midst of raising a family, having a career and making the world a better place, one can - perhaps must -always have a ready sense of humour!

Kelly Howsam

October 7, 2010

Dear Carter Family
I want to send my sincere condolences to all of you. Growing up beside the Carter family was a privilege to us and I will always have very fond memories of your wonderful mother. My heart goes out to you today.
Kelly Howsam(Johnson)

Donna Brown

October 7, 2010

On Behalf of two old school friends from Carberry Man. Joyce and Beryl Coutts, I send regrets for her loss.ALsoto let you know that her grandmother, Nurse Munn delivered members of my family in Carberry

Billie Hanson

October 6, 2010

Martha, Brian and girls. My sincere sympathies. Mary was truly an amazing woman and a wonderful inspiration. From the time I first started hanging out at the Carter home way back in high school days, I always loved it there.It was filled with great warmth, love and laughter - inspired and so much a reflection of, your wonderful mother and grandmother. I know you will miss her always but hopefully take some comfort in all that she achieved during her life.

Sheila Morgan

October 6, 2010

To all the Carter family,
My sincere sympathy on your mother“s passing, I have many happy memories of family get togethers.
Sheila Morgan(Coleman) and family

Joyce Elaine Munn

October 6, 2010

Herb and I send our condolences to the family. Mary was an exemplary woman, who lent to the Bench the sensibilities of a mother and a very good social worker. She cared.
She was a strong role model to me in my early years as a young mother.

Bob & Brenda Strelioff

October 6, 2010

Dear Mike, Karen & family,

Our heartfelt condolences on the passing of your dear mother. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Don & Marilyn (Nesdoly) Shaver

October 6, 2010

Dear Stephen & Jacqui and Sarah & Walter,
There is no easy way to say "Good-bye" to your mom. Know that we are praying for you.

Betts Douglas

October 5, 2010

I remember Mrs. Carter from working at the Bank many years ago. This lady was in a"Class all of her own." She will be remembered and dearly missed.It was my pleasure to have met her.

Teneille Houle

October 5, 2010

My love and thoughts are with you all. I didn't directly know Mary Carter, but i know she was a spectacular woman. I am sure even with her passing she will live through the many people who were so priviledged to know her.
My thought and prayers to the Carter's and family <3

Karen Kowalenko-Evjen and Gary Evjen

October 5, 2010

Dear Martha, Brian, Rebecca, Elizabeth and Catherine, Gary and I wish to express our sadness in the loss of your mother and grandmother, Mary Carter. In her lifetime, she accomplished and achieved a great deal, not the least of which was raising her children. Judge Mary devoted her life to others and we will never forget her devotion to making things better for the people of Saskatchewan.

October 5, 2010

Dear Brian, Martha & all the family: Sincere condolences of the loss of your mother. Blessings.
Daphne Tkachuk

October 5, 2010

Dear Stephen & Jacqui and members of the family,

Please accept our deepest condolences on the loss of your mother.She was a formidable woman and a wonderful example to all of us who followed after her in the legal profession.

We wish you many sweet memories as you celebrate a life well-lived.

Warmest regards,
Chris & Rosemary Weisgerber
Prince Albert, Saskatchewan

Jill Webber Hrabinsky

October 4, 2010

All my thoughts and prayers are with Adam, Mark and family.

John Hamilton

October 4, 2010

We send our love and condolence at this
difficult time. Your Mother was a
wonderful person.
JOHN,MARY,ROBBIE HAMILTON

JOHN

October 4, 2010

i was very young when my my guardianship came before judge mary carter and she asked me how i felt, i will never forget her kindness and her thoughtfulness when she asked me a 12 yr old how i felt about what was going on and she changed my life for the better, i went on and lived a good life and finished school and accomplished my goals, i thank her for that very nice lady and it is almost never somebody can make a positive impression on a young person, because usually voices of the young are never heard but i am very grateful to this woman for the day she heard me...rip in peace you are home with the angels..

October 4, 2010

My love and condolences to you the Carter family in the passing of your dear Mother ! She was a wonderful person ! I have many very fond memories of your family ! As busy as she was , it was always evident , that family was her priority ! I remember her Boston Brown Beans and her Spaghetti Sauce just couldn't be beat ! She was a very good cook ! My thoughts and prayers are with you the family !

Florence Flynn

October 4, 2010

What a joy and privilege it has been for me to know Mary. She has been and will continue to be an inspiration and an amazing and influential part of my life.

I am thinking of you children today. My heart and thoughts are with you and I will be remembering each of you now and always.

Love and best wishes. Florence

Hank & Jacquie Goliath

October 4, 2010

A very accomplished lady

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