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Walter "Wally" Raymond Cates II BLYTHEWOOD - Walter (Wally) Raymond Cates II, 60, of Blythewood, passed away early in the morning on June 22, 2012 after a long battle with pancreatic cancer. He was born July 7, 1951 to Walter Raymond Cates and Regina Lowery Cates. Wally was a 1969 Dentsville High School graduate, and was a successful Realtor in Columbia. He loved tennis, camping, off-roading in his Jeep, his weekly meals at The Villa Tronco and rooting for his Gamecocks. Wally is survived by his wife, Pamela Riley Cates; his children, Gina Cates Rieger and Abby Riley Cates; his son-in-law, the Rev. Joshua Rieger; his two grandchildren, Jackson Hall Rieger and Riley Cates Rieger; his in-laws, the Rev. Clyde Riley and Vera Riley; his sisters, Beverly C. Harmon, Donna C. Cohee and Laurie C. Kay; his sister-in-law, Sandra Lawson; and brother-in-law, Chuck Lawson; his nephews, Jeff Romig and Bryan Romig and their wives Kacy Romig and Beth Romig; niece, Angela Akey and her husband, Jason Akey; nephew, Mark Cohee and his wife, Rachel Cohee; nephew, Adam Cohee; nieces, Shelley Kay, Jennifer Kay and Sherri Harmon; nephews, Joe Harmon, Jr. and John William Kay and his wife, Stephanie Kay; as well as his church family at North Trenholm Baptist Church, where he had been an active member since 1973. Wally is preceded in death by his parents and his brother-in-law, Steven Romig. Wally will be missed by all those whose lives he touched. The Cates family would like to thank Dr. Steve Madden and nurses Paula Cox, Marie Maltz and Kim Branham at Lexington Oncology as well as nurses Ashley White and Jenny Lindler on the 8th floor of the Lexington Medical Center for their tender compassion and kindness during the duration of Wally's illness. In lieu of flowers or gifts, the Cates family requests that memorials in honor of Wally be sent to Mission to the World, Account No. 16644, P.O. Box 116284, Atlanta, GA 30368-6284 or visit https://donations.mtw.org/donate/AddDesignation.aspx?No=16644. A memorial service will be held 3:30 p.m. on Sunday, June 24, 2012, at North Trenholm Baptist Church, 6515 N Trenholm Road, Columbia. Burial will be held at 2:30 p.m. at Crescent Hill Memorial Gardens. The family will receive friends at North Trenholm following the service. Shives Funeral Home is assisting the family. ShivesFuneralHome.com 803.754.6290

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Published by The State on Jun. 23, 2012.

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Paul & Alice Poynor

June 27, 2012

Gina - we are sad to hear of your loss of your father. We will continue to pray for you and Josh as you head to England.

Lisa Tye

June 26, 2012

Abby, both Don and I were so sad to learn about your Daddy. As you and I discussed, we are both "Daddy's Girls"...so my heart is hurting so bad for you and your family. Please know we've kept ya'll in our prayers. Lisa Tye & Don Cobb (Environmental Consulting Services, Inc.

Dan & LeRores Sullivan

June 25, 2012

Pam- we are so sorry to learn about Wally's death. Wally and I roomed together in the 70s and I considered him a good friend. He was generous, caring and just a pleasure to be around. We lost a good one!

Rachel and Mark Cohee

June 25, 2012

We are so thankful we got to be a part of the Celebration of Life service yesterday. It was a beautiful service and a perfect reflection of Wally's life. You are all in our prayers.

June 24, 2012

Neil and I are so sorry to hear about Wally. What a wonderful friend and great guy he was. Our hearts grieve for you. We will miss him much.

Vickie and Neil Johnson

June 24, 2012

Tom and I are so very sorry to hear of Wally's passing. Please know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. What a wonderful light on this earth.
Tom and Vicky Lemond

Tim and Courtnie Bagley

June 24, 2012

We were so saddened to hear this news. Our thoughts and prayers will be with you in the coming days.

Tim and Courtnie

June 24, 2012

So sorry for your loss. Pam, you and your entire family are in our thoughts and prayers.

Jim and Kay McMillan

Gail Brazell

June 23, 2012

Sorry to hear about Wally. Pam you and your family are in my prayers and thoughts.

Julia Evans

June 23, 2012

Sorry to hear about Wally. Our thoughts and prayers will continue to be with the family. We have loved the Cates family for many years. The Evans family

Gilly and Frances Gillion

June 23, 2012

Wally was such a special person and will truly be missed. Kevin says he has such fond memories of him as his teacher in Sunday School.

June 23, 2012

I am so sorry to hear about Wally. I have great memories of your family when I taught at Lonnie B. God bless you. Molly Roddey

Sonja Muckenfuss

June 23, 2012

We will miss is smiling face and humorous nature. We loved him so much and will cherish all our wonderful memories. We love you guys and will keep everyone in our prayers.

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