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Hope Gelting Obituary

Hope Elisabeth Gelting COLUMBIA - Hope Elisabeth Gelting passed away peacefully surrounded by her loving family on June 21, 2014. A memorial service will be held at 2:00 pm on Saturday, June 28, 2014 at Dunbar Funeral Home Northeast Chapel. The family will receive friends following the service at the chapel. Born in San Jose, California, May 30, 1964, she graduated from Henry M. Gunn High School in Palo Alto and continued her education with a bachelor's degree from San Diego State University and a master's degree from Walden University. Hope was a devoted mother to her children and was so proud of their academic accomplishments as well as Nick's baseball prowess and Catie's dance talent. Hope was a dedicated educator and committed her entire career to helping children learn. She served as a special education teacher for over 20 years and had been on the staff at Mill Creek Elementary School since 2000. Always a passionate advocate for her students' needs she worked tirelessly to help them succeed, sometimes taking especially needy children on outings at her own expense. Animals also enjoyed Hope's affection and attention. From a young age she shared her life with many types including dogs, cats, chickens, and horses. Over the years she personally rescued many and consistently supported organizations dedicated to animal welfare. Hope was brave, tenacious, and pragmatic. Later in life as she faced a life threatening illness she remained strong and focused. These qualities were evident in her advocacy for the inclusion of breast density information in mammogram results so women can make informed screening choices. Her powerful, personal testimony helped a proposed legislative amendment pass the state senate and the bill is now before the house. Hope touched many lives and was an inspiration to everyone who knew her. All creatures great and small will dearly miss her love, loyalty, and laughter. She is survived by her children, Nick Gelting and Catie Gelting, both of Columbia; mother, Mary Catherine Carroll of Palo Alto, CA; father, Fred Ludeman of Granite Bay, CA; and brothers, Rick Ludeman of Portland, OR, and Matt Ludeman of San Francisco, CA. Please sign the online guestbook at www.dunbarfunerals.com.

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Published by The State on Jun. 24, 2014.

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Cha Diaz

July 11, 2014

I saw Hope about a year ago at Treesi's wedding. I had not seen her since she had moved to South Carolina but I knew her when she lived in San Diego. We caught up with each other that day and the one thing that was very obvious was how much Hope LOVED her children. Her love is woven forever into their lives and I pray that as they go out into the world, that they feel her love wrapped round them.

Dorothy McKoy

July 8, 2014

As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Lawana Hatfield

July 8, 2014

I have never met Hope but have heard so many wonderful things about her and her children. I know she is greatly missed and will forever be loved. My deepest sympathies to her children, family, and friends. I will think of her often when supporting her causes.

Treesi Coyle

July 1, 2014

I first met Hope when she was my student teacher in San Diego. We remained friends all of these years. My daughter and I were in her wedding as the flower girl who fell for the ring bearer and as a bridesmaid (the flower girl being my two year old). We shared so many memories of pregnancies and pets, students and IEP meetings, hikes and ballets (way before you Catie), Halloween parties and German Oktoberfests, weekends in a cabin hideaway in Idyllwild, breast cancer and the joys of being bald, the even greater joy of being a mom, and our love of a good story. Hope was one of those rare individuals who maintained an upbeat perspective no matter what life threw her way. It has meant so much to have known her and her family. She will be missed. Catie and Nick, you two WERE her life and she will remain with us through you. I have always said that the thing your mom was the absolutely most successful at in this life was being a mother. She really nailed that one down! Catie, thank you for attending my wedding last summer and know that my home will always be a place of comfort and open arms to you. I am deeply sorry for your loss (both of you) but rest in assurance that your mom is safely in Christ's ever loving arms. She has a perspective of this life we have yet to complete here, that we can only imagine. For her, the best has come.

Aimee Stewart

July 1, 2014

We were so very sorry to hear of Hope's passing. Our hearts go out to Nick and Catie.

Todd Willis

June 29, 2014

I was very saddened to hear of Hope's passing. I was her friend from elementary school all the way through high school. We drifted apart when she moved to Sacramento to attend American River College, but were able to reconnect during her graduation from San Diego State University. The last time I saw her in person was nearly 30 years ago, during our 5-year high school reunion.

I will always remember her beauty, charm, grace, quirky sense of humor, and generous spirit. I mourn her loss and want to express my deepest condolences to her family, Jack, Nick, and Catie. She was loved and adored by many.

Nancy M Cappello, Ph.D.

June 29, 2014

On behalf of our global breast cancer charity, Are You Dense, Inc., I offer our sympathy to Hope's family and friends. I was blessed to have worked with Hope for the last few years to ensure that women of South Carolina are educated of their dense breast tissue and are given information when they have a mammogram. Her relentless desire was to ensure that no other woman suffer an avoidable later stage cancer diagnosis. Our advocacy organization will continue to work with the S Carolina legislature to pass Hope's law next session. Thank you for acknowledging our Mission and the contributions in honor and tribute to Hope.

John Shealy

June 28, 2014

My condolences for your loss…my thoughts are with your family during this difficult time.

John Hodge

June 28, 2014

Hope was an exceptional person who faced her illness with grace and determination. Having known her for over 20 years, we are saddened by her loss. We were privileged to know her and spend time with her and her family. We will miss her, her smile, and determination.

Cathy Collins

June 28, 2014

Our profession has lost one of the best and most dedicated educators. She will be missed dearly and I am thankful to have had the chance to know and work with her. My condolences to her children and family and I pray for peace in the days to come.

Nyhart Family

June 28, 2014

What an honor to know you, and to have been friends with you over the years. We will miss you so very much!

Mary Fallon

June 27, 2014

Our family as known Hope since her marriage to Jack. We enjoyed their visits to Boston with Nick and Catie, especially the visit to Charlestown where we discovered John Joseph Sweeney Square, named for an uncle nobody knew because he lost his young in the First World War. We had a lot of fun that day! We were hopeful that Hope would live to see her children grow into young adults. We offer our deepest sympathy and prayers. Hope has left two beautiful and wonderful children as her legacy. We hope that their mother's love will sustain them in the difficult day ahead. Mary Fallon

Mia (Horlbeck) Rapport

June 26, 2014

I knew Hope through our children's daycare and early grade school. I am so sad to hear of this news. She was a special person and always very nice to everyone. Thoughts and prayers for her children and all her family.

Rob Ede

June 26, 2014

I met Hope after she first moved to South Carolina and she was a great friend. Our dogs (Red Sox and Darcy) would play together. I'll never forget the great birthday party Hope had for Red Sox - party hats for all of the dogs and a cake made out of dog food. It was chaos when she put the cake on the ground for the many dogs that were present. Hope was a special person with a great outlook on life and I loved how she spoke her mind. She'll be missed. Our prayers go out to the family.

Jack Gelting

June 26, 2014

I'm luckier than most of y'all because I knew Hope longer. To those blessed to have known her even longer, I say thank you for your love in shaping my beautiful hero, my wife Hope Elisabeth Gelting.

To the young, especially Nick and Catie, I say: The future is yours, Be Like Hope.

Love and Peace of God,
Jack Gelting

Lori Washington

June 25, 2014

Catie I am praying for you and your family. I am very sorry for your loss.

Dan Raguse

June 25, 2014

Though I only knew Hope though her brother Rick, reading this guest book confirms for me what I had suspected—this caring, giving woman bettered the lives of those who knew her. The legacy she leaves will live on in hearts and minds. My thoughts are with the surviving family, that they find strength and comfort in each other and in the wonderful memories Hope created.

June 24, 2014

Hope has been a very important and loved member of The Columbia Dog Park. Hope will be so missed! Tinamarie Heckman

RON

June 24, 2014

I am sorry to hear of the loss in your family. Please find comfort during this difficult time by reading Eccl. 7:1 in your Bible.

Bambi Douglas

June 24, 2014

Ms.Gelting will be missed. She did so much to help Cody and he got so much farther with her by his side. She was such a support helping me with the ins and outs of having a child with a special learning issues. We love you and miss you

Laura Kane

June 24, 2014

Such sad news! We remember Hope fondly from our younger days at USC. Our prayers go out to her family.

Laura Zahler

June 24, 2014

I was able to see Hope about two weeks before she passed. I was at awe with her positive outlook - talking about going to Australia when she got better - and her only concern was her children. It's hard to find someone that is facing such dire circumstances, yet keep their head and chin up, looking to the bright side of things instead of the negative. She earned even more respect from me that day because I don't think I could even come close to being as positive as she was.

I worked with Hope at Mill Creek for four years. When I got to know her, I found out we have the same birthday and middle name, which instantly connected us. Then, during those four years, we have laughed and cried, joked and ignored, but most of all, we have been good friends. I used to get on her nerves quite a bit because she would have to call me to release the kids to go to her. I'd always be like, "I'm sorry, we were just at the BEST part of the lesson," to which she would reply, "Ok, send them on down, please" or some other remark that would make me laugh at her.

When I found out the cancer had come back after the first bout, I was devastated. However, I prayed for her and thoroughly thought she would be cured this side of Heaven. However, because HIS ways are higher than our ways and HIS thoughts higher than our thoughts, we don't know why HE decided it was time for her to go home.

Despite that, her memory will live on in the lives of the people she touched and in the heart of the students she taught, not to mention, the likeness of her in her children and family.

Hope, you will forever be missed by me. It is my hope that I can keep your legacy alive by remembering you and the example that you led. Family, you will be in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time. May GOD comfort and hold you in the palm of HIS hand while you are grieving for her and comfort you as only HE can.

Marilyn McMillan

June 24, 2014

I'm so very sorry for your loss. Hope was an incredible woman. She will be painfully missed by all who have the honor of knowing her.

Sharon Moore

June 24, 2014

Hope, truly a dedicated person, she will surly be missed. Thoughts and Prayers to the family.

Cannon Beach, Oregon 2005

Krista Ede

June 24, 2014

I am so sorry to hear this news. We really enjoyed our friendship with Hope when we lived in South Carolina, and had stayed in touch after our move. Let us know if there is anything the family needs.

Yvonne Means

June 24, 2014

Thanking God for her service to students and praying for your comfort as you celebrate all that was good, kind and loving about her. God bless your family.

Maria Jimenez

June 24, 2014

Ms. Hope will forever be remembered in my heart as a warrior. I will miss her passionate response to the things that matter and our conversations about family and school. I'll miss you Hopie! Rest easy.

Elisabeth Taylor

June 24, 2014

Hope, I only knew you through the eyes of Catherine Moss and your dog Catcher.

Your Life touched me because we shared an enemy "Breast cancer" I was pulling for you...but God had other plans for you.

Elisabeth Taylor

Shemaine Thornton

June 24, 2014

Prayers for your family. Hope was very special to me over the years that we worked together. I will miss our talks about children, pets, and just the daily happenings of life. She will be missed.

Kelly Stanton

June 24, 2014

Peace and love to the family and may Hope know that she was loved and will continue to be through her children.

Francene Bee

June 23, 2014

The Gelting Family is in our thoughts and daily prayers.
Ms. Bee and members of the Church of Christ of King Street, Camden SC.

Tommie Glover

June 23, 2014

Mrs. Gelting will be miss. I considered her as a friend ever since I began working with her at Mill Creek Elementary. She was always dedicated to her students. I dreamed of her last night. In the dream, she was walking with her students down the hall. I asked," What are you doing here? You should be resting." She smiled and replied,"Well, you know I have to be here for my kids!" She was there for them doing what she does best. TEACH! I will miss our conversations, debates, and the good times that we shared. My son sleeps with one item every night since the day that he was born. A hand-made blanket that she gave us covered in hot-air balloons. She was so giving and caring. I will miss her fast talking and her laugh. I hadn't met a person who could read as fast as she could out loud yet. She will definitely be remembered. I won't say sorry for your loss, because believers don't lose. She believed in love, she believed in people, and she believed in the Almighty.

Mischa Sumter

June 23, 2014

“I am so very sorry for your loss. But may her love live on in your memories and bring you peace.”
May God be with you.

Anne Brasington

June 23, 2014

I worked with Hope at Mill Creek. I will miss her dearly. I am praying for your family during this difficult time.

June 23, 2014

To Hope's family,
I had the pleasure of knowing Hope and working with her in special education. What a lovely and caring person she was. We will miss her very much. I am so sorry for your loss and will keep you in my prayers.
Linda Macdonald (Columbia, S.C.)

Audrey Andrieski

June 23, 2014

Hope I know you will be missed. I'm so sorry we never got together. I know the last time I saw you you were very happy. May God bless you and you will always be in my prayers.

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