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Mary Hebert

1930 - 2010

Mary Hebert obituary, 1930-2010, Alexandria, LA

BORN

1930

DIED

2010

Mary Hebert Obituary

A Mass of Christian Burial for Mary Patricia "Pat" Hebert will be celebrated at 10 a.m. Tuesday, November 16, 2010, in Our Lady of Prompt Succor Catholic Church, with Rev. Dan O'Connor and Rev. Martin L. Laird officiating. Interment will be in Greenwood Memorial Park, Pineville, under the direction of John Kramer & Son.
Visitation will be held from 4 p.m. until 8 p.m. Monday and from 8:30 a.m. until 9:30 a.m. Tuesday at John Kramer & Son.
A Rosary will be recited at 7 p.m. Monday in the funeral home.
Mary Patricia Morgan Hebert was born in New Orleans, Louisiana, on July 29, 1930 and passed away in the early morning of November 13, 2010. Pat's early years were spent in Mamou, LA, in the loving care of her Aunt Melicia Soileau. She later moved to Port Arthur, TX with her parents, Emily Soileau Morgan Thompson and Thomas James Morgan, where she graduated from Thomas Jefferson High School and attended Lamar Jr. College before transferring to Southwestern LA University, (now ULL) majoring in Physical Education. It was at Southwestern that she first saw Malcolm Hebert's "beautiful blue eyes", who was entranced by Patsy's beauty and auburn hair. Following their marriage in 1950, Pat devoted herself to her husband and five children. In later years she served as Title V Employment Program Assistant Director and as Director of the Rapides Parish Retired and Senior Volunteer Program. She retired after 21 years of service to the Rapides Council on Aging. Pat was honored to receive the Governor's Legacy of Achievement Award for her valuable contributions. Mother's life work was raising and spoiling five children, their friends, and a menagerie of animals, while making our home welcoming, celebrative, and solid. An intelligent woman of courage and elegance, her strength, determination, and dedication to family has impacted all who had the honor of knowing her. Pat was an avid reader, gardener, and bourree' player, she rarely missed a game, ceremony, or performance of her children and grandchildren. Following her husband's massive stroke, Pat was a devoted caregiver for 25 years, dedicated to his health and quality of life. Her courage, strength, concern for others, and joy in reminiscing with family and friends the last few months have made us all better persons.
She was preceded in death by her beloved husband, Malcolm P. Hebert, Sr.; parents, Thomas James Morgan and Emily Morgan Thompson; her loving Aunt, Melicia Soileau; and son-in-law B. Dexter Ryland. Left to cherish her memory are five loving and grateful children, son Malcolm Paul Hebert, Jr. and wife Susan; daughters, Paulette Hebert Ryland, Tommie Hebert, and Renee' Hebert Gutierrez, all of Alexandria, and daughter Deborrah Hebert, of Vallejo, CA; six grandchildren, Malcolm Paul "Trey" Hebert, III, of Lafayette, and Clifton Bert Ryland, Jillian Ann Gutierrez, Melicia Soileau Ryland, Amelia Marydell Ryland, and John Schilling Gutierrez, all of Alexandria. She is also survived by her sister-in-laws, Maxine Hebert Meadows of Alexandria and Betty Hebert Thompson of Lake Charles; and numerous nieces, nephews, great and great great nieces and nephews, and other family and friends.
The family would like to thank the staff of Cabrini Hospital and the compassionate and wonderful caregivers and administrators of Naomi Heights Nursing Home for their caring expertise, respect, and concern for mother and our family during this difficult time. Pallbearers will be Malcolm Paul "Trey" Hebert, III, Clifton Bert Ryland, John Schilling Gutierrez, Jr., Shane Thompson, Brad Wilson, Lucas LaCour, and John Gutierrez. Honorary Pallbearers will be Martin Thompson, Tom Nash, and Leland Fontenot.
Online notes of condolence may be sent to the family at [email protected].

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Published by The Town Talk from Nov. 15 to Nov. 16, 2010.

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Marylyn and Leland and families

December 10, 2010

Dear Ones,
I know this Holy Season will be difficult for you. Please know that you are surrounded by people who love and care for you and yours. Our prayers travel over distance to offer you peace in mind, body and spirit. May God uphold you near and bring the comfort that passes understanding to your hearts. God bless.
Marylyn, Leland and families

Jon Ferguson

November 16, 2010

Sending my love and deepest sympathy to Paulette and your wonderful family upon the passing of your mother. I shall always remember her smile and her love for family. While residing in Alexandria, everyone knew Pat always had an open door and you were always welcome in her home. Although many years have passed, I remember her with fondness and I share in your loss.

Missy

November 16, 2010

So sorry for your loss. She will be greatly missed at the beauty shop. Saturday mornings just won't be the same. I have to say though, Ibet she is dancing a jig just being back with your dad.

Greg Wasson

November 16, 2010

When I was two years old I jumped into the pool at the Country Club when no one else was in it. As I sank into the water, my mother stood helpless over me, unable to swim and so unable to save me. Suddenly, out of nowhere a woman jumped in the water and rescued me. That woman was Mary Hebert.

Ronald Goudeau

November 16, 2010

I offer my deepest condolences in your time of bereavement. My God comfort you.

November 15, 2010

With deepest sympathy, you are in my thoughts and prayers at this difficult time in your life. I am sorry I could not there.
Theresa Metoyer

Renza Barber

November 15, 2010

With Deepest Sympathy, You and your family are in my prayer

Tina Wills

November 15, 2010

Our Prayers are for the entire family. Paul, you and your family stay strong with the help of the Lord holding you all in his comforting arms.

Stephanie & Bobby Belgard

November 15, 2010

Paulette and Family...very sorry for your great Loss. our prayers are with Y'all, Stephanie & Bobby Belgard

November 15, 2010

Debbie, Renee, Paulette, Malcolm and Tommie:

you have my deepest symapthy for losing your Mother. I have lost a true friend. I am so glad I got to visit with her a couple of weeks back. Gloria Ledoux, SCP Director

Gloria Ledoux

November 15, 2010

Debbie, Renee, Paulette, Malcolm & Tommie:

You have my deepest symapthy for losing your Mother. I have lost a true friend. I will deeply miss Pat. We use to talk daily. She had confile in me thru out the year and me the same. Debbie, we were planning on visiting you in Calfornia. I wanted to fly but she insisted on driving. I will keep you guys in my prayers, because when Lee and I visited her in the Hospital, I saw how close you were to her. I'm sorry I will not be able to attend the wake or funeral, because a close friend of ours, also lost her Mother, so we will be going to her wake tonight. Gloria Ledoux, SCP Director

Jeanne Van Benthuysen

November 15, 2010

Paulette, Debbie, Brother, Tommie and Renee--my prayers are with all of you. Your mom was always so warm and inclusive to everyone, especially Michelle. She will be missed!

Angella McZeal

November 15, 2010

Ms. Pat will be missed! May God Bless U all and keep U! My prayers go out to the family of Ms. Pat. RSVP(Retired Senior VOlunteer Program) of Lafayette

November 15, 2010

Dear Paulette, Cliff, Mallie and Amelia, dear all, our thoughts and prayers are always with you and especially during these difficult moments. Please let us know if there is anything else we can do to make things just a bit easier.
Robert, Irina and Andrew Ryland

Lataisha Morrisette

November 15, 2010

May God continue to bless the family in this time of sorrow. Lataisha Morrisette, Natchitoches Parish Retired & Senior Volunteer Program.

Gerrie Baker Allen

November 15, 2010

A sweet and lovely lady. Ms. Pat will be dearly missed. My prayers are with the family. Diocese of Baton Rouge Foster Grandparent Program.

Getta Prejean

November 15, 2010

I loved Mrs. Pat and it was my pleasure having her touch my life. My sympathy with the family who she was so proud of!

Getta Prejean

November 15, 2010

I loved Mrs. Pat and express my sympathy with the family. She will be greatly missed. Getta Prejean

November 15, 2010

I send my sincere empathy to the family of Mrs. Mary Patricia "Ms. Pat" Hebert. She was a good friend and a very caring person. My prayers are with the family in your hour of need. Van Johnson, Diocese of Houma-Thibodaux Catholic Charities Foster Grandparent Program Director (Houma, LA)

Susan Gremillion West

November 15, 2010

John and Renee, I'm so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with you and all the family.

Neva Jones

November 15, 2010

To the Family:

With Deepest Sympathy

Caddo Council on Aging, Inc
Foster Grandparent Volunteer Program Director

November 15, 2010

On behalf of the LA Senior Corps Directors Association we would like to extend condolences to the Hebert family. Pat was a wonderful person and RSVP Director. Her wisdom, advise and courage will be greatly missed. She was a dedicated director and enjoyed working with seniors. Michelle G. Guidry, LSCP Association President

Sue Saunders

November 15, 2010

As I long-time professional friend of Debbie, I had the honor to meet her "mamma" only once---many years ago. But I have heard countless stories of her love, humor, and courage.

May you find comfort in the many stories of her contributions. She was a lovely lady.

With deepest sympathy,

Audrey Clark

November 15, 2010

God Bless your family during this time.

Marylyn and Leland Fontenot

November 15, 2010

What a beautiful lady! Always remember that she has left the best of herself ..... in your memories, in your hearts. Remembering Aunt Pat brings to mind the many happy times we all had as children growing up in such a loving and close-knit family. Memories as we grew into adults--starting our own families, sharing special times, and following God's direction as we went our separate ways. Thank you, Lord, for the sweet treasures we have from our past and for Aunt Pat as a role model. Love to all. Marylyn, Leland,Kelley, Travis & their boys, and Kristin & Charlie

Gervais Compton

November 15, 2010

I am so sorry to hear of "Monkey's" passing. She always treated me like one of her own.

Pauline Hicks

November 15, 2010

Mrs. Hebert was the first boss I had when I was a teenager working at the Top Value stamp store in Alexandria. She was always very nice. Deepest sympathy to all her family.

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