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Carl T. Ducote

A Mass of Christian Burial to honor the life of Carl Tristan Ducote will be celebrated at 10 a.m. Saturday, August 11, 2012 at St. Francis Xavier Cathedral with Rev. August Thompson officiating. Entombment will follow at the Alexandria Memorial Gardens Mausoleum, Woodworth, under the direction of John Kramer & Son.

Carl T. Ducote, 54, of Alexandria, entered into eternal rest on Thursday, August 9, 2012 at Rapides Regional Medical Center.

He is preceded in death by his parents, Gordon W. and Lucille P. Ducote, and one brother, Gordon S. Ducote.

Mr. Ducote attended St. Francis Xavier School, where he was an altar server, Alexandria Junior High School, and Bolton High School. He attended St. Francis Xavier Catholic Parish. He worked various trades including foreman on the lock and dam projects (a.k.a. Carlo). He was also a roofer in the family owned roofing business. No one could swing a hot tar mop like he could or as meticulous. He loved gardening, his music, loved to "pass a good time", and helped everyone he could.

He is survived by one son, Darrin Ducote; three sisters, Deborah McCarley (Mike), Lucille Ducote, and Donna Ducote; nine brothers, Michael, Donnie, Greg, Freddy, Alex, Gary (Tinsley), Edmond (Helen), Ralph, and Tony (Mary); very special friends, Dale Spurlock and Charlene Antee.

The family would like to say a special "thank you" to the friends and staff of Hilltop Nursing Home for their outpouring of love, support, and prayers. God bless you all.

Those honored to serve as pallbearers are: Greg Ducote, Gary Ducote, Jacob Ducote, Caleb Ducote, Leonard Spurlock, and Abby Blalock Jr.

Visitation will be held from 4 p.m. until 8 p.m., Friday, August 10, 2012 and from 8 a.m. until 9:30 a.m. Saturday, August 11, 2012 at John Kramer & Son. Recitation of the Rosary will be held at 7 p.m. Friday at the funeral home.

Notes of condolence may be sent to the family online at [email protected].

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Town Talk on Aug. 10, 2012.

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Patti Powell

August 13, 2012

I just wanted to add that Donnie dated my sis and we had lunch with him not too long ago at Cathedral fish fry. Also, I loved the part in the obituary that said nobody could swing a tar mop like Carl. That made me cry more than anything. It is the beauty of the everyday that lives forever. I just wanted to remind the family that the essence of a person never dies but is eternal. Carl's spirit continues to be among us. Feel his presence when you are sad. Also, when my mama died, I almost died too. It broke my heart so badly. Then I read in a priest's book that there is no such thing as time in heaven, and so we are all together already there. Think on that. He experiences us with him now. It surely has kept me from missing Mama's physical presence so much. Again, hugs all around...and that is a lot of hugs! xo

Patti Powell

August 12, 2012

I love me some Ducote family. My dad and Carl's dad were pals. Mr. Ducote put the roof on 1812 Levin St. Gordon was my brother Ted's best bud for years. He also dated one of my dear pals. The people you grow up with have this special place in your heart. It is a soft and sweet spot that makes you feel safe when you think of them. I was crazy about Greg and actually nuts about the whole bunch! Once I spent the night and Mrs. Ducote pulled out a side of bacon and a couple loaves of bread and three dozen eggs. I will never forget how amazed I was! It was more fun and joy than the circus. I am with you all in spirit. And I bet I could tell a true story about each one of you! Let me know if you need me. You know where to find me. I still live in your hearts. xo

Aunt Ruby and Connie Sloan

August 12, 2012

We share in your grief and loss. He was loved by many and will not be forgotten
by his devoted family and countless friends.

Anne Blalock-Armstrong

August 11, 2012

Aunt Deborah, I am so sorry for your loss. I love you and am thinking and praying for you and your entire Ducote family.

August 11, 2012

Carl was an amazing young man. Ernest and Shirley and all of the family have your family in our prayers. We love you.

Judie Lyles

August 11, 2012

My Love and sympathy goes out to each of you It is hard to lose a loved one . We all want to believe he is resting in peace with our Lord and Savior
Jesus Christ
Love YOU ALL
Judie Lyles

Lisa woodson-Neal

August 10, 2012

Carl was a dear sweet person who made me laugh. I will always think of "Riley" with good thoughts. My thoughts and prayers go out to the family, Love you dearly.

August 10, 2012

I am so sorry to hear of Carl's passing. I lived next door to him in the nineties and he was a good friend. My sympathies to Carl's family and friends. He was a good guy with a good heart. May he rest in peace.

Sheila Belgard

August 10, 2012

I cannot believe you are gone. I have so many special memories of you, Donna and all of your family. You were always happy and I will never forget you. Love always, Sheila

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