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Earle F. "Spence" Spencer Jr. obituary, Old Saybrook, CT

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Earle Spencer Obituary

OLD SAYBROOK, CT – Earle F. Spencer Jr., "Spence", 75, of Cove St., Old Saybrook, passed away Nov. 4, 2013 at L&M Hospital. Born January 24, 1938, he was the son of the late Richard L. Spencer and Jessie M. (Crouch) Spencer of Mystic, CT. Earle attended Groton Public Schools and Fitch High School.
Earle joined, and became one of the finest Marines in the US Marine Corps in 1955 with an honorable discharge in 1961. Earle began his career in 1957 with the State of Connecticut, Dept. of Transportation for 35 years, retiring in 1992 as the Transportation Garage Supervisor of the Higganum, CT Repair Facility. Earle's tenure there included servicing the engines of the Chester Ferry (Selden III). In addition to the State of CT, Earle worked part time for over 20 years with the Cross Sound Ferry (Nelsco Navigation) of New London, CT as a ships engineer. Earle was a member of both, the Old Saybrook Fire Dept. as well as the Estuary Lodge No. 43, A.F. and A.M. of Old Saybrook.
Along with his unconditional love of his family, friends and animals Earle was an avid outdoorsman. Earle was a lifetime member of the Rhode Island Mobile Sportsfishermen (RIMS), where he spent many hours clamming, fishing and enjoying the beauty of the ocean. He passed this love of nature and outdoor activities to his children and grandchildren. His eldest son Earle III inherited his excellent mechanical abilities.
Earle is survived by his loving wife, Cynthia A. (Robert) Spencer of 56 years, his sons, Earle F. Spencer III of Enfield, CT; Robert A. Spencer of Niantic, CT and his daughter, Joyce A. (Spencer) Murray and son-in-law Timothy M. Murray of Westerly, RI; four grandchildren, Ian J. Spencer of New London, CT, Thomas M. Murray and his wife Trang Nguyen Murray of Makawao, HI, Ross D. and Monica M. Spencer of Niantic, CT. Earle had recently become a great-grandfather to Nile Malia Murray of Makawao, HI. He is also survived by his sister, Joan G. (Spencer) Watkins and brother-in-law Gerald C. Watkins of Ledyard, CT; numerous nieces and nephews. Earle is also survived by his very special friend, James E. Lewis, Jr. and his wife Jean along with many other wonderful friends.
A celebration of his life will be held at the Swan Funeral Home, 1224 Boston Post Road, Old Saybrook, CT on Sunday, Nov. 10, 2013. Visiting hours will be 1 to 3 p.m. with Chapel and Military services at 3 p.m. A reception will follow at Clark Memorial Field, 210 Elm St., Old Saybrook, CT. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Old Saybrook Fire Dept. or the Old Saybrook Ambulance Association.

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Published by The Westerly Sun from Nov. 7 to Dec. 6, 2013.

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Jennifer Gifford

November 22, 2013

I was very sad to hear of your loss. Your husband/Dad/Grandpa was a wonderful man and his family is a testament to his life and beliefs. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Terry & Craig Cooke

November 12, 2013

Cindy, you are in our thoughts and prayers here in Florida.

Kim & Garth Meadows

November 11, 2013

Dear Cindy, Earle, Bob and Joyce, Our deepest condolences to each of you - Garth and I really enjoyed having Earle be a "regular" each morning at James Pharmacy where he would spend time with his friends. As a neighbor, we would always be inspired by the way he would care for your beautiful property and pets. I will never forget the time when I was walking on the causeway, sun setting - had little ones + dog and came across a cormorant on the verge of drowning due to its entanglement in a net. I ended up calling Earle - and what do you know - he came out - got waist deep in the FREEZING water and stayed there working on him (got dark in the meantime)until he was able to release the bird - saved its life - getting bit and scratched in the process! Didn't utter a word of complaint. That's the kind of guy he was - GREAT! So sorry for your loss - may memories bring you comfort.

Stephanie Ames

November 10, 2013

To the Spencer Family,

I am sorry I could not pay my respects in person. May Mr. Spencer live forever in each of your hearts. My sympathy to you all.

Laura LaManna

November 9, 2013

To the Dear Spencer family,
Please accept my heartfelt condolences.
"Fred" was always so kind to me, during my Old Saybrook childhood. I am grateful to him and all of you for sharing him with me.
Sincerely always, Laura LaManna

Cheryl Archer

November 9, 2013

Dear Cindy, Earle, Bob and Joyce, You are very much in my thoughts and prayers. You guys have always been like family. Earle and my dad had such a special connection and friendship over the years for which I will be eternally grateful. He was a gentle, caring and hard-working man. My deepest condolences and love go out to each of you.

November 9, 2013

Dear Cindy & Family,

We are deeply saddened by the loss of Earle. Please know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

Sincerely,
Pat & Bub Manning and Family
Old Saybrook, Ct.

Cathie Spinali

November 9, 2013

Spencer family, Deepest sympathy and condolences in the passing of your father, husband, brother.
God Bless you
Art and Cathie Spinali

Linda & Len

November 8, 2013

Earl, Len and I are so sorry for the loss of your Dad. Our thoughts go out to you and your family at this sad time.

Peggy Sue Long

November 8, 2013

Dear Joyce and Family,
So very sorry to hear of the passing of your Dad. May all your wonderful Memories keep him alive in your heart always.
Much Love and Friendship,
Peggy Sue, David and Billy

Sue Burhans

November 8, 2013

To the Spencer Family, So Sorry for the loss of your Husband and Father. As I only met him once,At Bobby house, He seem like a real kind and wonderful man. Bobby, my Thoughts and Caringness are with you and your family.May his Angel Wings hold you all tightly.. With all our Heart, Sue and Desiree Burhans

Donna Duteau

November 8, 2013

My deepest sympathy to Earle and families. Donna

November 8, 2013

Our deepest condolences Joyce to you and your family!
Sal and Norma Jean Murano

Gregory Scott

November 8, 2013

Bobby, Joyce and Family, I am very sorry to hear of your Dad. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. I have known your family through out my child hood and have wonderful memories of your dad.. May God bless all of you....

Greg Gumbs and Family

November 8, 2013

Bob and family...My condolences to all of you. So sorry to hear about the loss of your father. Hope you find peace in all the special memories you've shared together as a family. Keep your head up, stay positive and strong.

Dawn Begun marinelli

November 8, 2013

Bobby my family and I send our deepest sympathy to you and yours. Love snd god bless

Wendy Spencer

November 7, 2013

I am so sorry for your loss. You are all in My prayers and thoughts in this sad time . Remember the happy times that You all shared with Earle. He will be missed by many but never forgotten. Love,Wendy

November 7, 2013

My condolences to the family
May God provide you with peace and comfort to endure the days ahead.

Linda , Ray , Heather

November 7, 2013

We are so sorry for your loss... May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

November 7, 2013

Joyce and Family,
We are very sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May you find comfort in each other and the sharing of fond memories.
Dottie Coad & Gwen Crider

November 7, 2013

"Get em in the boat" Dad. I know you will be fishing with Dr Archer and Lee. I Love and miss you!

Bob

Dawn Fleming

November 7, 2013

Our love and Prayers for you all. Earle is at Peace in Gods House and no more suffering. Love you all, Cousin Dawn Fleming and Chuck.

November 7, 2013

Paul and I are so sorry for your your loss. We will celebrate for your father because we know he is with Jesus where there is peace in Heaven

ROBERT BUMP

November 7, 2013

With deepest sympathy, Rob, Leslie, Lauren, and Clayton Bump.

Nicole Barnett

November 6, 2013

To the Spencer family,
I am so sorry for your loss. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Earle was a great man and will be missed. May your memories bring you comfort during these hard times.
Love,
Nicole

November 6, 2013

Dear Earle, Bobby and Joyce,
I have watched you all grow up and become mature and responsible adults. I know you will miss your father greatly. Cherish the happy memories you have of him. Time will soften the edges of your loss. I have seen you handle the challenges of your lives and I'm sure this will be no different.

With much love and great sadness for your loss.

Sally Reney

November 6, 2013

Dear Cindy,
I know how profound your loss is and I wish there were something more I could do than to say how sorry I am. I hope you will take comfort in the love and caring of all your friends who are standing by your side right now.

We have been good friends and neighbors for many years. Cherish the memories of the happy times in your life and keep your chin up.

Sally Reney

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