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Viola Barnes Obituary

Viola was born in Mott, North Dakota, September 17, 1916, while her parents were en route to Montana by covered wagon. The family returned to Iowa where her mother died in 1920. Viola was raised by her grandmother in Ottumwa, Iowa. Vi met the love of her life, Burdette J. Barnes (Barney) at Sunny Slope, at a tuberculosis clinic in Des Moines, Iowa where she was working at the time. During the depression, Barney went to Boise, Idaho to find work. He sent for Viola, and they were wed there on July 23, 1937. Like many other depression survivors, they followed work across the country ending up in San Luis Obispo, California, where their first child was born. After a few years they moved to Arcata, California, to work in the Barrel Factory. They then went into dairy farming in Arcata, Orick, and Klamath. In 1949, they moved to McKinleyville and then back to Arcata in 1954. Viola then went to Humboldt State to become a teacher. She graduated with highest honors while raising a family of four and working part-time. She first taught all eight grades at Bald Mountain School. She then taught at the following elementary schools in the McKinleyville School District: Airport School, Dows Prairie Elementary and Morris School where she retired in 1977. Vi was very active at the Arcata Senior Center as a volunteer. She helped out regularly until 2007 when declining health forced her to limit her work there to three days a week. She enjoyed her many friends at the center, and always had something good to report after being there. Vi was a very spiritual person and found great comfort in her Bible after losing Barney in 1964. She loved her country, gardening, reading and the ocean. She passed on her love of growing things to her children and grandchildren. She loved a house full of family, and she will always be remembered for her homemade noodles, peanut butter fudge and cinnamon rolls (Boy, they were good!). Her beloved husband, Barney, her treasured grandson, Matt, her sister Helen Oiler, and her nephew, Jim Oiler, preceded her in death. She is survived by her children: Pete Barnes (Ida Marie) of Medford, OR, Jennie Barnes, Sue Barnes-Hoaas (Dennis) and mike Barnes (Marcia) of Arcata, her grandchildren: Dawn Sisk, Stirling Barnes, Jim Barnes, Chris Barnes, Loren Harwood, Natalie Anderson, and Megan Dyke, and her 14 great grandchildren. She absolutely loved being a grandmother, and her whole family loved her and will miss her greatly. Viola was an extraordinary woman. She took life's challenges and prevailed. She never shirked her duty, and tried to be ethical in all of her dealings with others. She set a standard and expected it to be followed by her children. Their mutual success in life attests to her values. We will miss Mom, but we know she will be joining Barney now, and that makes us all happy, as we know that is what she wanted. She peacefully stated that she was ready to go home to be with her Lord, and we take comfort in knowing that we will see her again in Heaven. At Viola's request, there will be no public memorial. Her wish is for all who knew her to go to the beach (which she loved) and find a white stone. As you throw it into the ocean, say a remembrance of her. As summer comes, the family will choose a sunny day, just as Viola did, and gather at the ocean together in remembrance of Mom, also. In the meantime, we will be looking for the perfect white stone for her. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that you may make a donation either through Humboldt Area Foundation to the Matt Barnes Memorial Scholarship for 4-H, or to Hospice of Humboldt. We wish to thank the many nurses and doctors that took such good care of Viola at St. Joseph's. We particularly want to thank the Hospice staff who were such a blessing to our family for the excellent care and comfort they provided to our mother. Please sign the guest book at www.Times-Standard.com, click obits.

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Published by Times-Standard from Nov. 9 to Nov. 14, 2010.

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December 1, 2010

Deepest Sympathy and Prayers. Your Mother was a special lady and teacher. She and my Mother worked together at Morris School. Your mother the special teacher and my mother the cook (Emma Weirup) Students (my son) in your mother's classes were well prepared for their next year of school.
Gary and Kay Taylor

November 17, 2010

I'll never forget her. Love, Bev Dutra

November 16, 2010

To the Barnes family

Our thoughts and prayers go out to you. I know your mom was a special lady.

Ralph&Claudia Rogers

Palo Cedro ca.

Ella Grace

November 16, 2010

Goodbye my dear friend & co-worker. My thoughts and prayers are with your family.

Sincerely
Ella Grace

November 15, 2010

Sorry for your loss. I'm sure she will be missed by many. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the family.

Dennis & Gerry Taylor

Gary Carlson

November 12, 2010

Mrs. Barnes was my kindergarten teacher at Dow's Prairie 43 years ago, and I remember her fondly.

Tiffany Giacomnini-Holmes

November 12, 2010

The Barnes Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this time. Remembering the good times will help ease the pain of your lose.
Love, Dennis and Tiffany

November 12, 2010

To Sue and the rest of the Barnes family:
I feel like I lost another connection to my parents with the passing of your Mom. I remember coming to your house with my folks, to visit with "Pode and Barney". Where did she get that nickname? Peggy and Mac McCarty, your folks, it brings back lots of memories of the "old days in Arcata" when the Barrel Factory was a major part of so many lives. Big hugs to those of you missing a truly special lady. Linda Haines and family

Nancy Blessing

November 11, 2010

Sue, Jenny and family members,

It was a great blessing to have known your precious mother, Viola. She had a special smile that greeted me all those Tuesdays I saw her at the Arcata Community Center.
The greatest compliment I can give such a loving woman for the life she lived well in demonstration of grace and Godly virtue would be to acknowledge "a job done well" in the raising of her children.
I am proud to say I have her two daughters as my closest friends and I could have none better. Viola's strength and values live on in fruitfulness as the result of the "seeds" she planted within in children.
May the "JOY OF THE LORD" fill your hearts in this time of sorrow.

Mario Avelar

November 11, 2010

Barnes Family
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

November 10, 2010

Sorry to hear about the loss of your mother. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Laura Holverson

November 10, 2010

I remember my kindergarten teacher at Dow's Prairie School with great fondness. May God's love comfort you, her family, in the days ahead.

Megan Dyk

November 10, 2010

Dear Gram,
Thank you for always being there for me. You taught me so very much. Of all the things you have given me in my life, the most important is the gift of knowing Jesus. You were a Christian woman, practical and hardworking. You taught me that God helps those who help themselves and that He loves us all no matter what church we go to or how many times a day we pray. I was able to call on you for anything. You were one of the most intelligent people I have ever met, but so humble, and would first reach for a text book, dictionary or encylopedia to answer my questions even though you probably already knew the answer. On sick days growing up I loved coming to your house where I got to watch Sesame Street and Mr. Rogers, eat toast fingers and drink hot chocolate with mini marshmallows and then eat "worms" for lunch. We had our candy chairs and would run in the door, race to the chair to see what you had hidden for us underneath, I hope I can be as creative with my grandkids someday. You always had a garden and taught us how important it was to grow our own food and be frugal. I will keep watching our show, Days of our Lives, and keep up on all the silly drama while remembering you. You were so involved with our lives, came to every game and watched us at the fair. Even until the end, just a couple of weeks ago, making sure you paid for Gracie's special shoes.You were amazing in everyway. I know there are things I forgot to mention (riding in Wylie Bobcat for one) but all I really need you to know is how much I love you and how grateful I am to have had you as a mentor and grandmother. I already miss you so much. Now Matt will have someone to take care of him and make him lots of Indian Bread :) Love you,
Meg

Olimpia & Fred Avelar

November 10, 2010

To The Family of Viola Barnes.Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. What a wonderful woman she was, always kind and caring the way she spoke about her family showed how much she loved all of you, may the memories and love always be comfort in your hearts.

Catherine Hastings

November 10, 2010

To the Barnes family - I didn't know Vi well but in the few times I met her, I saw what a special woman she was. What a wonderful life she had! I am thinking of you all and my sympathy and prayers are with you.

Jerry Fisher

November 10, 2010

Dennis and Sue.....sorry to learn of your loss. Condolences from the Fisher Family...

Denise O'Neill

November 10, 2010

My thoughts are with you and your family.

Krissy Corning

November 10, 2010

Barnes Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you, Grandma Vi will always hold a special place in my heart. thinking of you Mike, Marcia,Sue, Megan, Ryan, Matthew, and Gracie <3

Margaret Hague

November 10, 2010

I didn't know her personally, but Marci always had such warm stories to share about her that I felt like I had. The passage in the paper told a story of a woman who embraced her life and her family. I know its a sad time for the Barnes family and we send you our deepest sympathies...Margaret & Casey Hague

Jean Giannini

November 10, 2010

May the Lord comfort you during this time of grieving. Also, may you be assured that your mom's pain has been alievated. I have known your mom and some of you since I was a toddler. I always felt joy when I saw your mom. Her smile was so warm and her sense of humor so endearing. Alice McCarty was my initial contact with you. As a toddler I lived in Alice's neighborhood and my mom would send me to Alice's home when she needed to spend extra time with my newborn brother. Jenny would be there and she would entertain me. I am Jean Kjer now Jean Giannini. I would like to meet Jenny and Sue for lunch someplace.
Your ol'time friend,

Bobby Lucas

November 10, 2010

Our thoughts and prayers go out to the family during this time. May our Lord's Grace abound and comfort you. Love you Sue and Dennis.
Your CCA Family.

November 9, 2010

I was very sad to hear about Vi. My thoughts are with all of you at this time. Vi was one of the first people I met when I moved to Eureka in 1970. She helped put wallpaper up in my new home, taught me how to make her famous cinnamon rolls and how to can tuna. She was a very kind and caring person. She was beyond a doubt an amazing woman. Her family is very blessed to have had such a positive influence in their lives.

Gay (Brown) Myers - Eureka, CA

Landy Anderson

November 9, 2010

My thoughts are with you and your family.

Kathy Schuler

November 9, 2010

My thoughts are with you all, we loved Vi so much and she will be greatly missed. I recall that twinkle in her eye, she always had time to talk and ask about you, what a wonderful person.....I'll always remember her......she's an inspiration to us all.......

Kathy Harnden

November 9, 2010

My thoughts are with you during this difficult time. As with my mother, it is good to know they are not suffering any longer.

Tracy R. Taylor

November 9, 2010

My sincere condolences. May you have comfort in knowing she lived a long, fulfilling life.

Julianne Colella

November 9, 2010

I only knew Viola for a short time but she was so sweet and touched my heart along with her very caring family. I am glad that I was able to meet her. love always, Juli

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