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Violet Barber Obituary

passed away on June 11, 2011 in Eureka at the age of 85. Born on March 6, 1926 in Fort Sill, OK, she was the daughter of William Emil Kidd and Edna Pearl Garland Kidd. Violet Josephine Kidd met Herbert William Barber in 1946 while both were employed at Cottage Gardens Nursery in Eureka. After a short courtship, they were married in Reno, NV on September 7, 1946, and spent the next 37 years together, until Herbert's death in 1983. Their love and devotion for each other and the family they raised never wavered and Violet loved and missed him still, after all these years. Now they are united in love once again. Violet loved spending time with and taking care of her family. She was an avid gardener in the past and she always loved having her yard filled with flowers, her favorite, of course, being the violet. She enjoyed crocheting for years and made many beautiful afghans, and made sweater sets for each of her grandchildren and great grandchildren as they were born. As her health declined in recent years, she spent her time watching soap operas, her favorite being Young and the Restless. She also loved watching the Giants and the 49ers when they came on TV. She enjoyed working crossword puzzles and watching QVC-she became one of their best customers! She especially loved the Cooking With David show and kitchen programs, and was delighted whenever she received a delivery of a package. Violet is survived by her children, Herbert W. Barber, Jr., Susan M. Hinds, and Michael E. Barber and his wife Mary Barber, all of Eureka. She is also survived by eight grandchildren, Tina M. Barber of Marysville, CA, Herbert W. Barber, III, of Ridgecrest, CA, Joseph E. Miller of Eureka, Kimberly A. Bushnell of Vancouver, WA, James R. Hinds, Jr. of Cave Junction, OR, Christopher Barber of Eureka, Michael E. Barber, II of Eureka, Dustin Barber of Eureka, as well as 23 great grandchildren, 5 great-great grandchildren, numerous nieces and nephews, and former daughters-in-law, Janice Kraemer, of Wheatland, CA and Jean Barber-Villneauve, of Minneapolis, MN. She was preceded in death by her parents, her beloved husband, Herbert W. Barber, her siblings, William E. Kidd, Jr, Dorothy L. Duarte, Shannon O. Kidd, Edna M. Yandell, twins Faye and Frances Kidd, her niece Linda Lee Galvez, and her grandson Michael B. Barber. The family would like to extend their heartfelt thanks to the staff at St. Josephs Hospital, especially Dr. Raimhatu and Dr. Zinn, of the ICU, for their excellent care and consideration during this difficult time. Visitation will be at Sanders Funeral Home, 1835 E Street, Eureka on Wednesday, June 15, 2011 from 9 a.m. to 12 noon with the funeral service starting at 1 p.m. Violet's favorite color was purple, therefore in her honor please wear something purple to her service. Private interment will be at Sunset Memorial Park, Eureka. Memorial contributions may be made to the American Cancer Society. Please sign the guest book at www.Times-Standard.com, click obits.

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Published by Times-Standard from Jun. 14 to Jun. 15, 2011.

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sue hinds

December 26, 2011

MERRY CHRISTMAS MOMMA, WE GOT THRU CHRISTMAS EVE. IT WAS VERY HARD WITHOUT YOU. I MISS YOU SO VERY MUCH AND LOVE YOU WITH EVERY BREATH I TAKE. I WATCHED YOUR GRANDKIDS HAVE FUN CHRISTMAS EVE. I SAW YOU IN EVERYONE OF THEM. YOU HAVE LEFT A VOID IN OUR LIVES THAT WILL NEVER BE FILLED. WE JUST NEED TO LEARN TO GET THRU TOMORROW WITHOUT YOU. IT IS HARD MOMMA BUT I AM REALLY TRYING. I LOVE YOU SO MUCH AND SOMETIMES IT IS HARD TO GET UP AND GET GOING. YOU WERE MY LIFE FOR SO LONG, I DON'T WANT IT TO CHANGE. MOMMA, UNTIL I AM WITH YOU AGAIN, I WILL LOVE YOU AND REMEMBER THE LIFE WE HAD TOGETHER. REMEMBER SAVE ME A SEAT AT THE TABLE, I WILL BE THERE SOON. LOVE AND MISS YOU MOMMA

SUE HINDS

November 24, 2011

HAPPY THANKSGIVING MOMMA! MISS YOU SO MUCH. THE HOUSE IS QUIET WITHOUT YOU. I SEE YOU EVERYWHERE AND I SWEAR I HEAR YOU AT TIMES. YOUR SWISS,SWISS NOISE YOU MADE WHEN YOU WALKED. I LOVE YOU MOMMA SO VERY MUCH. THE PAIN IN MY HEART GETS REALLY BAD AT TIMES. ARE YOU ALL SITTING AROUND THE TABLE ENJOYING EACH OTHERS COMPANY? I WOULD GIVE EVERYTHING TO HAVE YOU ALL AT THIS TABLE HERE LIKE OLD TIMES. YOU GIVE EVERYONE MY LOVE AND TELL THEM I MISS THEM AND LOVE THEM SO VERY MUCH. MOMMA, I LOVE YOU

susie hinds

October 11, 2011

momma it's been 4 months since I have heard your voice or felt your arms giving me a hug. It's been a long four months, I see you and hear you all the time. In the middle of the night is worse. Momma, I love and miss you so much. At times it like I can't breathe or even move. I bring you flowers every other saturday and a cup of coffee, last week I brought one for dad. Momma, I remember when your momma left, I saw your pain but I never understood it till now. The pain goes deep and doesn't go away. It feels me with such sadness at times that I wish I was with you. You were my life for so long and I enjoyed taking care of you thru the good and bad. momma I love you with all my heart and please wait for me as soon I will be there. love forever, your loving daughter susie

Herbie The Terd

July 24, 2011

All three are smiling down on you right now Dad because they know how hard it is for you to open your heart and speak from it. They have pulled the seat out for you at the head of the Barber Clan table. I am honored to sit at that table with you.

herb barber

July 23, 2011

Well Mom I gues it is time to tell you goodby. It is real hard but it has to be done. You can tell daddy and my son Mike that I also say goodby to them. I loved you more than I ever said, but a lot of things go without saying. So it is really not goodby but so long until I join you all again. Love to you. Herb Jr.

sue hinds

June 29, 2011

momma tomorrow is the first birthday in 62 years that i won't hear your voice saying happy birthday darlin. momma i am having a real hard time letting you go. it hurts so much. momma you were the wind under my wings that kept me going. i will miss you forever. momma i love you very much. look for your coffee, i bring it to you all the time. susie

Great Grandma Barber

Chelsea Ramos

June 20, 2011

Tahnee and Great Grandma Barber

Chelsea Ramos

June 20, 2011

Great Grandma Barber with her great great granddaughter Izabella

Chelsea Ramos

June 20, 2011

Chelsea Ramos

June 20, 2011

Great Grandma Barber I love you and miss you a lot. I am happy you had the chance to meet all of my children. I know that is a rare chance when you can say I have a picture with my great great grandma. I wish they just could have had the chance to know you better. Everytime I garden Ill be thinking of you :)

Denise Hayes-Bales

June 20, 2011

Gma Barber touched many peoples lives and will missed terribly.

Teniya Barber

June 18, 2011

Love you great grandma barber

Kim Bushnell

June 18, 2011

Well grandma, it's been a week now since you have been gone, and I just can't seem to get rid of the ache. People say that it fades over time, but right now, I just can't imagine what life will be without you. You taught me so much growing up that I will never forget. From cooking to crocheting, you were always there to answer my questions and give me advice. Katie and Kyle will never forget all of the Saturday nights they spent with you and mom. You gave all of us memories we will treasure forever. We love and miss you....
Love Kim, Will, Katie & Kyle

Herbert W. Barber III

June 18, 2011

Words can never express how you will be missed. Your great grand children would light up every time I would say Grandma Barber was on the phone. Littlest Herbie says Herbie the 1st is happy because you two are together now and i know that will ring true. A match made in heaven are now together there. I will be able to look up at the desert sky every night now and see you and Grandpa dancing across the sky. I got to share with Teniya, Herbie, Autumn and Divinity a trip to the South Jetty the other day, it seemed so empty and it wasn't because of the lack of campers and fishermen it was because you and Grandpa weren't out there Surf Fishing. Eureka will always be a special place for me. It is where I got to grow up under your and granpa's loving care. You were more than a Grandma to me and Tina and you will forever be in my heart. Tell Grandpa and Mike we love them and I am glad they have you up there now to knit them an afghan and to make sure they are eating their bread and butter. Momma Vi is there now Mike I know you will be well taken care of.

Herbert W. Barber III

June 18, 2011

susie

June 15, 2011

momma, we said goodbye to you today as you began your next life. i want you to know that i was honored to be your daughter. it was very hard to leave you today. i hope the lighted cross keeps you in the light and the feet warmers your feet warm. i know that the photos of all your family will surround you always. share them with daddy so he can see how his love has grown. momma, what do i do now that i dont have you to tuck in everynight and hear you say i love you susie, thank you for being with me. it is so hard momma, i will miss you forever. momma, i love you so very much.

Helen Mattson-Shields

June 15, 2011

I will miss you Auntie Violet and though I haven't seen much of you the last few years I'll always remember what a sweet person you were, and how kind you were to me when I was little. I know my mom, Eleanor, thought the world of you. Be sure and say hi for me to her and Uncle Bud.
My love and thoughts go out to Susie,Mike and Herbie and your families. It's hurts to think of a world without Auntie Vi in it.
With love always your cousin Helen and my family.

June 15, 2011

I'm going to miss your sweet smile and the twinkle in your eyes. I know you were happy with your wonderful family all around you and now you'll be happy with the rest of your family.
I'll miss you
Diane

June 15, 2011

Some of Michael Brandon's best memories were of the times he spent at Grandma's. He loved sleeping between Grandma and Grandpa when he was a child, and remembered how they jokingly called him "Michelle".(Grandma even named a cat Michelle, after Mike) After Mike and I were married, he made sure that I cooked all his favorite Grandma dishes: mocha pie, pumpkin rolls, cream wafers, and although he always wanted me to make chili cups, it just sounded like too much work. Grandma also passed her QVC love to me, and everytime we visited, we would talk about the Days of Our Lives characters just like they were real people. Mike has the comfort of Grandma now. She was one of a kind, loved her family above all, and is truly missed.
Love you Grandma,
Athena

Herb Barber

June 15, 2011

how do you say goodby. I couldn't tell daddy goodby. and I couldn't tell my son Mike goodby, so how can I tell you goodby. If I can't say goodby it means you are allways with me. Herb jr.

Mary Barber

June 14, 2011

mom,how do you say goodbye to someone that you love, admire and respect so much? you have taught me so many wonderful things in life, from how to clean, cook and baking how to play atari,(I never did win at frogger) how to shop on qvc how to raise our children, and how to love.not only did you give me unconditional love you gave me your son to love.this was the greatest gift of all, as your love will continue to grow and be with us thru Mike. our boys will miss you forever, but they have so much of you in them that their children will grow up just as you would want. Thank you for every little thing you did for me from buying silly jammies, to cookie flowers(they are my favorite)to joining me for a cup of coffee.Everything you ever did for me, was always done with great thought and a lot of love. Christmas Eve will not be the same without wondering what you got us??(did you hide them somewhere?)When you look down on us, just look for Mike Jr's lights and you will be able to find us. LISTEN FOR THE TINKLE OF THE WIND CHIMES AND KNOW THAT WE ARE WISPERING TO YOU SO LISTEN CAREFULLY.I AM GOING TO SAY SEE YOU LATER KEEP THE LIGHT ON.I LOVE YOU WITH ALL MY HEART AND SOUL

jerry crnich

June 14, 2011

Our thoughts and prayers go out to your family during this very dificult time. we appreciate all the years of her baseball pool oversight and will miss her annual call saying "Jerry I got your numbers". She will be missed by many. from the entire Crnich family

Raven Norman

June 14, 2011

Great Aunt Violet, I will miss you my sweet flower and i hope to be your little bird forever and always. I know you are one of my guardian angels now
Love, Raven ~Your Sweet Little Bird~

June 14, 2011

Aunt Violet I will think of you everyday and I know you are with Mom and Uncle Herb I love and miss you so very much until we meet again, Vicki

Vicki Norman

June 14, 2011

I miss you and love you so much Aunt Violet I'll never forget the jellies you used to make when you were babysitting me as a child and the love you gave me. Until we meet again

michael Barber ll and family

June 14, 2011

grandma,
not a day goes by your not thought of.seems just like yesterday i was walking across the street to have you comb my hair for school or staying up late playing nintendo helping you rescue the princess.i know you will be looking down over me keeping me safe and out of trouble.i love and miss you grandma.

love always
mike,susy,kelly,mariela,crystal

p.s. you can't buy 4 pa ks of pall malls for $20.00 anymore.

June 14, 2011

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. She is now in a much better place. God be with you all.

Lloyd & Keron Bishop

mike ll

June 14, 2011

Love you grandma

Michael Barber II

June 14, 2011

Grandma,
not a day goes by I don't think about you.Seems just like yesterday that i was walking across the street to have you comb my hair before school,or staying up late with you playing nintendo trying to help you rescue that princess.I know you will be looking down on me keeping me safe and making sure I stay out of trouble.I love and miss you.

Love always
Mike,Susy,Kelly,Mariela,Crystal Barber

(P.S.)You can't buy 4 packs of Pall Malls for $20.00 anymore.

Dusty (your favorite grandson),Sandy,Little D

June 14, 2011

Grandma we love you and will miss you. We think about you everyday it will never be the same without you.

Dusty,Sandy,and Little D

June 14, 2011

We love you and miss you grandma it will never be the same without you.

June 14, 2011

Mike, Mary & Family,

I just wanted let you know that my Prayers are with you.

Linda Sundell-Mock

susie

June 14, 2011

momma

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