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Ardys Eldred Obituary
Ardys was 94, born on Sept. 5, 1919, to Blanche S. Darby and John Leon Cane, of Worcester, Vt. Ardys lost her mother at the age of 3 and thereafter was raised by her grandparents James F. Darby and Nettie E. Utton. She lost her sister Vera Cane Graves many years ago, which left her with one remaining sister, Blanche Darby Cane Ericson, who lives in Florida surrounded by her family.
Ardys and Alvin were married on Dec. 25, 1936, and never left each other's side for 75 years. During their time together, Mom assisted Dad in every business venture and adventure they wished to undertake - raising four children on a farm, creating Eldred's Trucking (where Mom handled all the book work) - all while Dad also worked for the U.S. Postal Service.
Their lives were busy but never too busy to "stop and smell the roses" and enjoy bringing up their children: Robert Eldred (Carol), of Florida, Gary Eldred (Ruth), of South Hero, Vt., Steve Eldred (Louise), of Walden, Vt., and Linda Eldred Alexander (Larry), of Middlesex, Vt.
After retiring from the postal service, they sold their house on Upper Elm Street in Montpelier and went to Middlesex, where they built a small house and were neighbors to Linda, their daughter. They traveled across the U.S. and to Alaska, finally boarded an airplane and flew off to Florida and Montana. They also kept up with old friends and enjoyed their many grandchildren and great-grandchildren. We will all keep them in our hearts and memories.
By their request, there are no public services.
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Memories and Condolences
for Ardys Eldred
Coleen Austin
October 10, 2020
Miss you everday, Grandma. Much love,
Your granddaughter, Coleen
Rick and Sandy Sironi
October 26, 2013
We're so sorry to hear of your mom's passing. She lived a long and full life and will be remembered by everyone she touched. Our thoughts are with you
Roger & Mary Jane Cram
October 20, 2013
Gary and Ruth, so sorry to hear about your Mom. Our thoughts are with you.
Mike and Maureen Hunter
October 19, 2013
Linda,
I remember your Mom and Dad well they were such great people. When I was a kid they would stop by the house and take me to the lake with them and taught me how to water ski. Such wonderful memories.
Maureen and I are so sorry for your loss.
Keeping you and your family in our prayers.
Mike and Maureen Hunter
October 19, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers are with the Eldred family. We had many great times with Ardys and Al. God Bless. Jim & Kay Frost Leesburg Florida
Laura and Allen Palmer
October 18, 2013
Linda,
Your Mom and Dad were such incredible, wonderful people. Your family is in our in our hearts. So much love to you all!
October 17, 2013
I was very surprised to hear of your mom passing away. I had stopped in to see her just a few days ago and she looked fantastic.My thoughts ,condolences, and prayers are with you at this sad time.
Howard W.Martin
October 17, 2013
Thank you to all for your heart felt messages.
Mom was a special person and has touched many peoples.
Linda
October 17, 2013
Steve, Louise - Our deepest sympathies and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. Although our loved ones are physically taken from us, the memories of all the times and activities spent with them will always remain in our hearts and spirits. Take care and be well.
Ed and Ev Leonard
October 17, 2013
To Bob,Gary,Steve,Linda,and family We will never forget the great times we had at the central Vt. Boating club both of your folks worked so hard so the rest of us could enjoy the good times.Our condolence to all the family. Dianna Myrick and Son John LaPerle Leesburg Florida
October 17, 2013
Our thoughts and prayers to family and friends of a dear lady that Eldreds will always remember.
Brent and Jan (Eldred) LaFountain
Jessica Whittmore
October 16, 2013
Mandie and family,
I just saw this on Facebook and know how deeply you must be hurting. I know how much your family means to you and remember your smiles and laughter talking about winters in VT with the snow and sled rides and picking out trees. The way you talk about your family I know that will hurt you deeply but you are a strong amazing young woman who will find a way through this. My heartfelt condolences, love and prayers are with you and your family at this time.
October 16, 2013
To all the Eldred family - my thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this difficult time. Many the many happy memories get you through the passing of your Mom. She was a wonderful woman who I was honored to know.
Love to you all, Rome
October 16, 2013
Bob and Carol, Although we know words offer small comfort in your hour of sorrow, we wish to express our sincere sympathy to your family on the loss of your dear mother. When we think of Ardys, it brings back all the great memories of snowmobiling days. They were such a fun couple. Our love, John, Rachel Pelkey Clearwater, Flo.
October 16, 2013
Bob I'm very sorry for you and Carole on the loss of your mother. My deepest sympathies.
October 16, 2013
Bob, My sincere sympathy to you and your family.
Marilyn Patton (Rotonda West, Florida)
Beverlee Pembroke Hill
October 16, 2013
I have many fond memories of times spent with Ardys and Al. Their home was always warm and welcoming. Enjoyed great snowmobiling times with them! Thinking of you all.
Sheryl Hurd Ferris
October 16, 2013
My condolences to your family. Ardys was such a sweet lady. My parents so enjoyed sitting with her at mealtime in Mayo Manor. She is now at peace, as are my father and husband's father.
Rita Bassett
October 16, 2013
Steve, Louise and family: I send my deepest sympathy in the loss of your Mother, Grandmother and Great-Grandmother. She lived a nice long life and enjoyed her family. May she rest in peace with her husband.
Judy Knapp
October 16, 2013
To Bob, Gary, Steve, Linda and your families. I will never forget all the great times I had with your Mom and Dad during the Central Vermont Boating Club days. In fact, your Dad was the one that taught me how to slalom water ski on East Long Pond.....so many good memories at camp with all of you. Cherish those great times and they will be in our hearts forever.
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