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BORN
February 01, 1979
DIED
August 15, 2017
Ben COTTER Obituary
It is hard to believe someone is with us one day and gone the next. It is with great sadness, and beyond comprehension, that we announce the passing of Mark Benjamin Cotter on August 15th who passed away in his sleep as a result of a cardiac event at the age of 38. Ben was a beautiful, gentle soul. He divided his loyalties between his passions of architecture and the sport of Ironman triathlons, approaching both with dedication and determination and achieving much success. Ben competed at the elite professional level in Ironman events all over the world and was scheduled to participate in Ironman Mylasia on November 11th. Professionally, Ben was an accomplished architect involved in a variety of interesting projects in Victoria, BC and elsewhere. He recently redesigned his childhood home in Pictou, NS for his parents. If we can learn anything from humble Ben it would be to live your life pursing your passions and be kind and thoughtful to others. Ben leaves many with broken hearts - his parents (Ron and Meredith), his sister (Molly) and brother (Patrick, 'Megan and Aiden'), the Wisener family (Lynn, Annabel, David, Barbara, and Barry), the Cotter family (Ola, Joanne, and Paulette), their extended families, and his many friends.
Gatherings to celebrate Ben will be held at the deCoste Entertainment Centre in Pictou, NS on Friday, August 25th from 2-4pm and, to follow, in Victoria, BC where he leaves a large community of friends, athletes, and associates.
Memories and Condolences
for Ben COTTER
18 Entries
John Gillis
December 26, 2020
This is 3 years late, as I just found out. I knew Ben well when he studied in Nova Scotia. Road many a Sambro loop with him and swam often in Kearny lake. I have not met a nicer person and kinder soul. He left a profound impact on me and everyone he met. Cheers to Ben
To his family sorry to hear this. Very sorry for your loss. He will be greatly missed.
John
Ashlee Wilson Michot
November 5, 2017
I was a friend of Ben's years ago at the Université Sainte Anne in Church Point, NS. He made a lasting impression on me and I was heartbroken to hear of his passing. My deepest condolences to his friends and family. [email protected]
Jim Kerr
September 1, 2017
I was shocked to learn yesterday of Ben's sudden passing in the prime of life. In pursuing his twin passions of triathlon and architecture, the latter for which I had the privilege of acting as his mentor over the past few years, I sensed he lived life fully on his own terms and was the keenest of learners. His light footprint on earth, kind spirit, positive energy and cheerful demeanour were unfailing and inspirational. I shall miss his willing smile and cherish the memories of times spent together. My heartfelt condolences to his family and friends. Rest in peace gentle Ben.
September 1, 2017
Ben ~ We are so happy to have known you and spent some special times together. You are thought of with great fondness and affection. With love Rachelle Geneau & Robert Schindelka
Salt Spring Island, BC
Alice
August 31, 2017
I knew ben only as a customer, but he was always kind and appreciative.
Robert Schindelka
August 30, 2017
Rest in peace Gentle Ben. Your kindness and easy laugh will be missed.
Gaston Castano
August 29, 2017
Meredith ,Ron , Molly and Patrick our sincere sympathies. Very sad to hear of Ben's sudden passing. He will be remembered as a kind man with a heart of gold. Our thoughts go out to you and your extended family.
Gaston, Michelle & Maia
Jennifer MALCOLM (NEE Hiscock)
August 25, 2017
So very sorry for your loss Maredith. This is such shocking news and not news any mother should receive. My mother Edie (MacDonald) Hiscock (Nancy's sister) just informed me of this devastating news today in Calgary. She and Jack also send their condolences and love to you and your family.
Lara Smith
August 25, 2017
A beautiful person with grace, love and kindness. Ben, we miss you already. My heart goes out to your family. xoxo
August 25, 2017
It is with great sadness that we hear of Ben's passing. Our condolences to his family & extended family of friends.
John & Debra Mitchell
lisa mitchell
August 25, 2017
Meredith, this is Lisa.
Ben wasn't answering my emails and texts. while i am used to his whimsy, it was too long. we never go more than a handful of days. i went to his house yesterday, even.. not knowing. drew a heart with leaves on his doormat for him to find. tonite i googled his name, and my world just forever changed. Meredith, please email me. [email protected]
Ed MacDonald
August 24, 2017
My condolences to Ben's family back home in Pictou and to all who were touched by his light. I recall giving Ben a few tennis lessons when he was a young boy and sad to learn of his passing not far from where I now live as well.
Wayne Dolores Mac Gillivary
August 24, 2017
Condolences to the Wisner and Cotter family.Our prayers are with you at this sad time.
Julie Perry
August 24, 2017
I remember Ben from high school. He was a very kind man who will never be forgotten. Thoughts and prayers with you all.
Katherine Chisholm
August 24, 2017
Very sorry to hear of Ben passing...very sad.
Will Krzymowski
August 24, 2017
Ben was a co-worker and a friend. He was a gentle soul with so much positive energy. He always brought a smile to our faces. He will be missed dearly.
Jon Charlton
August 24, 2017
My deepest condolences. Ben was a regular at the Crystal Pool and I always enjoyed swimming and chatting afterwards. Such a gentle and thoughtful person. He will be greatly missed.
Pam Heighton Rannelli
August 24, 2017
Dear Cotter and Wisener families,
I am so sorry for your sudden loss of Ben. It seems that he was an incredible person in many ways. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
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